I am a young woman in my early 30s, but seeing me as a person you'll think am in my early 20s i look very younger than my age i have never experience what is called sex in my entire life. I was brougt up from a strict xtian home where i was thought no sex b4 marriage.when i was younger i got involve with some men that would want to go to bed with me of which i refuse to comply. My queston is must i go into sex b4 marriage? this as been a concern to me any man that propose to me would want to have sex with me i know its against the will of God because the bible says "marraige is honourable in all and the bed undefiled " now am still single what should i do?

What is most important to you, lady?You are old enough to be able to answer the question and what action you should take.If you are going to be "defiled" by a man who is going to marry you, then let thou be merrily defiled till day break.Wetin dey am?Stop making a mountain out of a molehill, woman.

Why do people pose questions they think they know the answers to?

@jacpet
If you think that nookie before marriage is a sin, don't do it, and stop disturbing the rest of us with your sanctimonious do-gooder attitude.
On the other hand, if you want to do it, just do it. Millions of other people have (even pastors' wives) and nothing has happened to them.