I broke up with my girl on monday this week, and she's still crying for me to come back to her, she's telling me that it will be very difficult for her to forgive and forget me. And I have pleaded with her to understand me that I don't need any girlfriend now, instead of staying with me and I will not be showing her what she expect. But she said she's not complaining. All she need is me, But honestly she did nothing to me, just that I don't need any girl as a lover around me for now.

Please Nairalanders advice me on what to do about this thanks!
Please no insult or bad talk

Did u sleep with her?

Congratulations!!! You just passed the first step of being a man.

Lomprico2:
Did u sleep with her?

For 2 years and now. I didn't see her undies talking more of sleeping with her.

littlewonders:
Congratulations!!! You just passed the first step of being a man.

How? Explain to me please

Welcome to the brotherhood.

charliboy654:
Welcome to the brotherhood.

Lol. Sounds funny. But explain to me small

Mystic216:
I broke up with my girl on monday this week, and she's still crying for me to come back to her, she's telling me that it will be very difficult for her to forgive and forget me. And I have pleaded with her to understand me that I don't need any girlfriend now, instead of staying with me and I will not be showing her what she expect. But she said she's not complaining. All she need is me, But honestly she did nothing to me, just that I don't need any girl as a lover around me for now.

Please Nairalanders advice me on what to do about this thanks!
Please no insult or bad talk

What triggered it ? is it because of job/finance or just feeling like she deserves better. If she's a good and caring person I would suggest you hold on to her, it's hard to find honest and caring people. But if you feel otherwise who are we to tell you what to do. peace

Mystic216:
I broke up with my girl on monday this week, and she's still crying for me to come back to her, she's telling me that it will be very difficult for her to forgive and forget me. And I have pleaded with her to understand me that I don't need any girlfriend now, instead of staying with me and I will not be showing her what she expect. But she said she's not complaining. All she need is me, But honestly she did nothing to me, just that I don't need any girl as a lover around me for now.

Please Nairalanders advice me on what to do about this thanks!
Please no insult or bad talk

It's a good idea to break up with your girlfriend. Relationship is a distraction to a broke guy. When you are financially stable, you can then think of a woman. Pursue your dreams.

Mystic216:
I broke up with my girl on monday this week, and she's still crying for me to come back to her, she's telling me that it will be very difficult for her to forgive and forget me. And I have pleaded with her to understand me that I don't need any girlfriend now, instead of staying with me and I will not be showing her what she expect. But she said she's not complaining. All she need is me, But honestly she did nothing to me, just that I don't need any girl as a lover around me for now.

Please Nairalanders advice me on what to do about this thanks!
Please no insult or bad talk

u don't need any girlfriend in ur life now, we should advice u？ no wahala bt b4 my advice, answer this question..

na she toast u all by herself？

Don't listen to her when she says that all she wants is you and bla bla bla. Girls hate being dumped by a guy. They prefer doing the dumping instead. Maybe she is just trying to get you fall for her so that she will dump your assz with no remorse.

My advice is for you to move on without looking back. Hustle hard, make your money and find your woman.

Jman06:
Don't listen to her when she says that all she wants is you and bla bla bla. Girls hate being dumped by a guy. They prefer doing the dumping instead. Maybe she is just trying to get you fall for her so that she will dump your assz with no remorse.

My advice is for you to move on without looking back. Hustle hard, make your money and find your woman.

Killed IT

Mystic216:


For 2 years and now. I didn't see her undies talking more of sleeping with her.

Interesting. We are not few.

Jman06:
Don't listen to her when she says that all she wants is you and bla bla bla. Girls hate being dumped by a guy. They prefer doing the dumping instead. Maybe she is just trying to get you fall for her so that she will dump your assz with no remorse.

My advice is for you to move on without looking back. Hustle hard, make your money and find your woman.

..OP,take this advice..and all shall be well with u.

Romantic relationship is such hardwork; one invests emotions, finances etc. It can be mentally draining at times and the cons more often than not outweigh the pros.

I totally understand op point of view.

Mystic216:
I broke up with my girl on monday this week, and she's still crying for me to come back to her, she's telling me that it will be very difficult for her to forgive and forget me. And I have pleaded with her to understand me that I don't need any girlfriend now, instead of staying with me and I will not be showing her what she expect. But she said she's not complaining. All she need is me, But honestly she did nothing to me, just that I don't need any girl as a lover around me for now.

Please Nairalanders advice me on what to do about this thanks!
Please no insult or bad talk

You don't have to brake some one heart to stay alone, call her seat her down tell her the challenge's you are having and how you plan to tackle it. With that you can start withdrawing utill you pul out ,but make sure you ate not leaving her for another girl unless you think she doesn't fits you any longer but I read where you say that she did nothing to you. Just be wise women are bad.

frozen70:

You don't have to brake some one heart to stay alone, call her seat her down tell her the challenge's you are having and how you plan to tackle it. With that you can start withdrawing utill you pul out ,but make sure you ate not leaving her for another girl unless you think she doesn't fits you any longer but I read where you say that she did nothing to you. Just be wise women are bad.

I get where he's coming from, things might be tough and he's thinking to himself why hold this girl down when I can't give her what she wants let her find someone who will. Its sad but its life things are tough in this country

pcguru1:


I get where he's coming from, things might be tough and he's thinking to himself why hold this girl down when I can't give her what she wants let her find someone who will. Its sad but its life things are tough in this country

You are slightly correct. Things are not hard for me. just that I don't have the urge of keeping a girl. Sometimes I won't call her for weeks and she won't complain. So it's better I let her go.

Mystic216:

You are slightly correct. Things are not hard for me. just that I don't have the urge of keeping a girl. Sometimes I won't call her for weeks and she won't complain. So it's better I let her go.

wow just like that.

Op...If I get your message, it is that you are not ready to settle down and you don't want an extra luggage that will slow down your journey, but could this babe be the link between you and your breakthrough? Could she be the reason for your change in season? Read Prov 18:22. Finally, before you make up your mind, if you have all your needs met, is she your type of woman? If YES, continue the relationship. If NO, run. Shalom

Mystic216:

You are slightly correct. Things are not hard for me. just that I don't have the urge of keeping a girl. Sometimes I won't call her for weeks and she won't complain. So it's better I let her go.

Just seeing this, perhaps your girl has someone else or she is suffering from low self esteem such that she doesn't understand the difference when a man is disconnected and still connected.