I don't want this on the front page please, but i want maximum contributions here.
I will go straight to the point. I'm currently serving in private school, the school provided accommodation for us. We are two living together. I'm a muslim, while my friend is a stunch christian. Our duo is the most peaceful combination i have seen. We live like brothers. I'm sorry to say this, i do most of the spendings and house chores ranging from fetching of water for both of us to cooking.
overtime, we have both been so broke, that we had to be getting foodstuffs on credit. We are indebted, and i'm always at the front of the credit transactions, meaning i'm answerable to our common creditors.

Behold!! Our allawee came in yesterday, and my friend sowed seed to his pastor with all the money. He wants me to lend him 5k now. How are people like this? How do i handle this? I'm tired of being used

Ignore him.

One of the Pre-requisites of being an adult is the ability to say NO without explaining why to anybody.

Just say no.

Lol

u don play ur part as brother but dnt lend him that 5k...make him go borrow the 5k from his yahoo pastor.

Sow ur own seeds to yourself too
Make una two go farm for harvest

How sad to see how some people mistake friendship for enslavement.

Elmojiid:
u don play ur part as brother but dnt lend him that 5k...make him go borrow the 5k from his yahoo pastor.

The 5k he wants me to lend him is in form of foodstuffs since we cook together. He wants me to get foodstuffs worth 10k, then he'll pay 5k. I'm sure he'll never pay. How can i handle this without starving myself?

Tell him u have used urs to sow seed to ur imam

Exactly in fact tell him you sowed a Forest.

Am serious he see you as an idiot. That you will still give him so dont.

Tell him you used your money to sow see to your Imam.
Then tell him clearly that everyone will have to cater for himself in terms of feeding.
Finally, stop doing chores for him; your not his paid house help!



It is national service; EVERY CORP MEMBER SHOULD BE RESPONSIBLE!

Ramanto:
I don't want this on the front page please, but i want maximum contributions here.
I will go straight to the point. I'm currently serving in private school, the school provided accommodation for us. We are two living together. I'm a muslim, while my friend is a stunch christian. Our duo is the most peaceful combination i have seen. We live like brothers. I'm sorry to say this, i do most of the spendings and house chores ranging from fetching of water for both of us to cooking.
overtime, we have both been so broke, that we had to be getting foodstuffs on credit. We are indebted, and i'm always at the front of the credit transactions, meaning i'm answerable to our common creditors.

Behold!! Our allawee came in yesterday, and my friend sowed seed to his pastor with all the money. He wants me to lend him 5k now. How are people like this? How do i handle this? I'm tired of being used

sow seed what the hell is that. Please tell am say 'your mumu don do' .

Homeboiy:
Tell him u have used urs to sow seed to ur imam

Exactly!
If he evade his responsibility, he shouldn't be left to evade the consequences of his irresponsibility.

Ramanto:

The 5k he wants me to lend him is in form of foodstuffs since we cook together. He wants me to get foodstuffs worth 10k, then he'll pay 5k. I' sure he'll never pay. How can i handle this without starving myself?

buy 5 to 6k of foodstuffs and if he ask why 5k foodstuffs you will let him kwn u have use ur money to sort another tins out, just play ur own part by buying the foodstuffs.

Sorry to say this, he is seeing you as an idiot.

I would advice you start eating out.

Both of you collects the same amount, you have your personal needs to take care of (apart from food). Stop being used.

Gosh, I hate such people.

I am a Christian and disappointed in your friend and room mate. Your friend gave first fruit for the beginning of the year which Christ Jesus did not teach us. Moreover if you are going to do that you should apply wisdom by analyzing your expenses.

Tell that your friend that you are not happy with him, that if Jesus were to be in his shoes he will not borrow from you but give to you instead

kinggenesis:
Sorry to say this, he is seeing you as an idiot.

I would advice you start eating out.

Both of you collects the same amount, you have your personal needs to take care of (apart from food). Stop being used.

Gosh, I hate such people.

Thank you, bro. I'll see what i can do. He's always broke a day after collecting allawee. I don't understand him. He invests so much in tithe and what have you, the burden of getting sachet water and other miscellanious things always falls on me. He keeps saying i'm the best man he has met. See brainwshing o.. Hehe

One of the demerits of having a roommate. Relationships are best kept from a distance. Even your best friend would start exhibiting nauseating characters once you live together.