Drinokrane:

Twitter user @raychellered took to her handle to call out women who let their men make all the money decisions even though they both worked for it.

She is of the opinion that such women allow the men to walk all over them thus reducing themselves to doormats.

Read her tweets;




https://torimill.com/2018/02/if-you-both-make-the-money-and-you-let-him-decide-how-its-spent-youre-a-doormat-lady.html

LesbianBoy:
Senseless girl

buchilino:
A PERSON WHO ISNT MARRIED OR HAS NEVA EXPERIENCED MARRIAGE, HAS NOTHING 2 OFFER COUPLES (BASED ON ADVICE)

genghiskhan007:
These are traits of a
Single
Rustrated
Disvirgined
Possessed
Jobless
Whoring

Lady

talk2percy:
No wonder she dey show expired breast-she fit be lesbian

Bimpe29:
She's one of the pythons that swallow marital bliss.

praiseneofingz:
am I the only one who thinks this one heart have been shattered?

Snow87:
Weldon ma, but make I no catch u for Shiloh 2025 praying for a God fearing man.

LesbianBoy:
Senseless girl

princeking2:
Yes Aunty slay queen.
Well, I think it should be a collective decision, after all it was a product of collective effort.

princeking2:
Yes Aunty slay queen.
Well, I think it should be a collective decision, after all it was a product of collective effort.

millomaniac:
But if she does make the decision I guess that makes the man the door mat. Olodo girl !!

LordBaelish:
This one is just an UGLY attention seeker.

Which Naija woman would contribute for Car and allow the man to sell off?

Naija women that would shout "I contributed ooo" till you vex refund her the money..

Na wa sha. Some people online dey do like we no dey the same naija offline..

SMH

Horlubunmmy:
Another slay witch.

I'm sure she's not married yet.

marvin904:
feminist are just educated mo.rons

FluidQueen:
They all a bunch of doormat. I agree.

I'd make my money and a dude would dictate how I spend it? Is he retardéd?

cococandy:
So you people want her to make money but you get to decide how it’s spent? Is that what will make her a good woman?

poseidon12:
Yep, the lady is right. Husband and wife should jointly make financial decisions in the house, especially if they both contribute financially.

sweetilicious:
Exactly.My sister earns alot as a manager,the hubby earns too as a doctor.They had no car after their marriage. In short,they had no better property.The husband started with things he used from university and was working in a private hospital.My sister was a graduate trainee before they got married.I could remember how we used to enter keke all the time.Within a spec of 1yr,they got a car.My sister wasn't dragging the car as a contributor.The husband takes her to work and sometimes brings her back.They lived happily and managed that car for 4yrs till it started wearing out.They got another one for occasional programmes. They built a mansion within 5ys of marriage.I have never seen my sister disregard her husband nor become pompous of her contributions.The man is the head and she is happy to submit totally.I won't dispute the fact that her hubby is extremely family conscious.He is involved totally.But i prefer to be loved and catered for than struggling the headship of the home.This op didn't even make sense to me.

Jman06:
There's sense in what she said. Some cunning men just want doormats as wife whom they can easily ride on. The woman would suffer to make the money with them or even more of the money, but the man would take everything in his name and use the wealth to chase small girls.
Women would however continue to fall for such cunning men because those kind of men are masters of sweet talking. They easily use words to brainwash the woman.

kimbraa:
Chai! Naija guys and so much stupidity spewed on one thread. The lady is right in every sense of what she said. Why would a man dictate how I spend my salary when I've a brain of mine, and he earns too? Why would we contribute to buy a car/property only him is entitled to?

Most of you bashing her need brain transplant.

tartarus:


Of cos but many nairaland guys don't know how to read. They just follow the bandwagon

I agree with her opinion. Couples should make decisions together!

kimbraa:
Chai! Naija guys and so much stupidity spewed on one thread. The lady is right in every sense of what she said. Why would a man dictate how I spend my salary when I've a brain of mine, and he earns too? Why would we contribute to buy a car/property only him is entitled to?

Most of you bashing her need brain transplant.

Leonbonapart:
Home breakers on the beat.... I bet you that babe is single and wants other ladies to join her in her forever singleness

poseidon12:
Yep, the lady is right. Husband and wife should jointly make financial decisions in the house, especially if they both contribute financially.

cococandy:
So you people want her to make money but you get to decide how it’s spent? Is that what will make her a good woman?

poseidon12:
Yep, the lady is right. Husband and wife should jointly make financial decisions in the house, especially if they both contribute financially.