DonteMec:

Hmm you might not be far from the truth.
My wife is the only female I know that you dare not make love to without bringing Vaseline or any lubricant along. Even if you tell her that she is wet fairly enough, without lubrication, no deal. I might have an erection, but before I locate where the Vaseline or lubricant is I would lose it chai ..
As per talking, bros for 10 years I have talked, talked and talked. I have used up every of those suggestions ladies will give you - show her love, start love advance 24 hours before time, do this do that, all to no avail. I have used sanctions, to no avail. Believe me I have tried EVERY possible option to change her before I finally came to the realization that she just might NEVER change. In fact its her uncle that suggested that concubine solution not to rock the boat. And since I have been having concubine it seems to have worked at least in making me not to ''disturb'' her often, as that's what she terms love-making - disturbance ha ha ha; until now ..

Ishilove:
Thorpido, eyinjuege, your medical expertise is needed here.

Oyb, your philosophical joie de vivre on all matters nacking will be highly appreciated in this very sensitive issue

kabhohd:
Since you observed this defect each time after sex with your wife, I suggest you take her for thorough checkup. This is not to cast doubt on her fidelity but to ascertain the facts. She could have contracted an infection via toilet usage. More so, not everyone shows symptoms of some infections. So your wife could have an infection even without her knowing.

DonteMec:


HA ha ha ha ha, I expected this long ago.
My dear I don't know how old you are. But If you ask your parents how marriages that have lasted for 25 to 50 years are sustained, the things you might hear would make you get wiser.
I love my wife, but I also love good sex. My wife can't give me the good sex. So it's either I divorce my wife or find an alternative measure to save my marriage. This hard decision I took sometime past. Believe me it wasn't and still isn't an easy decision. But a man got to do what a man got to do. However am always very careful of course and that singular decision has made the boat not to rock till now..

DonteMec:


Bros I have a concubine outside the country. That is what has kept me in this marriage. Else my wife's low sex drive would have pushed me out of the marriage. It's with the concubine/ girlfriend that I do the drilling or hard work with. With my wife I take it easy as I know her capacity. Problem is that for 2 years and 72 hours prior to my coming back I performed optimally with the said concubine. Then back to my wife, after the first day, all of a sudden my JohnThomas does NOT stand up again. I need a real suggestion as to what could cause that ...

poyet:
Bros, your wife go dey more than frigid. 45mins for one round? You think Na well you dey dig for Sokoto or one of those desert regions?

DonteMec:


Bros I have a concubine outside the country. That is what has kept me in this marriage. Else my wife's low sex drive would have pushed me out of the marriage. It's with the concubine/ girlfriend that I do the drilling or hard work with. With my wife I take it easy as I know her capacity. Problem is that for 2 years and 72 hours prior to my coming back I performed optimally with the said concubine. Then back to my wife, after the first day, all of a sudden my JohnThomas does NOT stand up again. I need a real suggestion as to what could cause that ...

Nairalanddist:
We Yoruba Muslims believe that when such diseases occur, your wife is definitely having an affair with several men. This is why i love Islam. All you need to do is to threaten to kill her and watch her confess how she has been sleeping with your neighbors

DonteMec:

Bros not to brag. I could last for an hour before ejaculating.
But wahala be say the thing is not standing up at all now. That is my wahala now ..

DonteMec:


Sis, I have already seen a Doctor and ran several tests already. Nothing was found wrong with me. Yet I still took a regime of 3 weeks total treatment/ cleansing. And after that the Manhood stood up and worked wonders on my wife again for one day. But just after that the manhood got paralyzed again. Am thinking that there is something inside my wife that is killing my manhood (if there is anything like that), but I don't know what ... Does anyone has any suggestion for me?

pyyxxaro:
Lemme go and ask Buhari

Brb

DonteMec:

No, she is an African from a neighboring Francophone country.

DonteMec:
Hello Fellow Nairalanders,
I have been a nairalander for years but this would be my first post. I have a very serious problem and I need your wonderful suggestions to guide me along.
I have been married for like Ten years with kids. My wife is a very good, faithful and wonderful lady. I traveled out of the country for 2 years and just came back this last December. However since then I have this rather strange problem, which has never happened prior to this period.
My wife is frigid. She really doesn't like sex. I hate that aspect of her. I have a high sex drive while she has little to zero sex drive. This has of course brought all sorts quarrel over the years. I have since learnt to manage her that way and bear that as my cross, since that is her only weak point. But its not easy.
I made love to my wife the first day I came back. It was all good. But subsequent attempts to make love to her, my penis simply refuses to stand erect. Try everything in the book still it will not stand. It's like the penis is scared of my wife, because even a thought of her makes an erect penis go flat immediately. If I strive to put it in with lots and lots of efforts, hoping it will thicken inside, it will stay for 35 seconds, less than a minute and ejaculate.
I have had to go for tests and it shows no sickness nor venereal disease. But I have gone for an intensive treatment for all kinds of powerful venereal disease, known and unknown for 3 weeks just to leave nothing to chance. After that, the penis started getting up again.
I made love to my wife very powerfully again after the treatment. I lasted for 45 minutes or there about for a round which is my usual style. I was happy that everything is back to normal. However 2 days later we tried to make love again, the penis starts being shy of my wife again. It has been several days since then we have kept on trying, no headway at all. Am confused. The penis simply refuses to stand erect - Jeez this is scary ...
I want to take my wife for a test of her own though she has no symptoms of any illness as I also didn't have prior to all these.
However I want to know:
Is there any venereal disease that is strong enough to paralyze a penis just one day after enjoying it?
Could this be as a result of some other reason or factor which I don't know nor understand?
Note: My wife is a very faithful one and I trust her. However I just want to explore every possibility.
Also note that prior to this I could go for 3 to 5 rounds in a single night, with each round lasting for 45 minutes or there about. Am 41 if you care to know. (Well with my wife its always 1 round of like 1 hour duration)
I love good sex and this is frustrating the hell out of me. Please every kind of advice would be considered, even the weird ones lol

DonteMec:
Hello Fellow Nairalanders,

She really doesn't like sex. I hate that aspect of her. I have a high sex drive while she has little to zero sex drive. This has of course brought all sorts quarrel over the years. I have since learnt to manage her that way and bear that as my cross, since that is her only weak point. But its not easy.

........... It's like the penis is scared of my wife, because even a thought of her makes an erect penis go flat immediately...................

wunmi590:
I am a microbiologist with experience both industrial and medical microbiology.

When you subject yourself to too much of masturbation you tend to use your vigorous hand to to forcefully kill of the strength of the joystick.

The joystick of only meanth to be used on the female private part which has a natural grease to hold the joystick.

So when you contract joystick disease it is practically known as masturbyjoystick.

Please note that this name is from my research.

DonteMec:


Bros GBAM. With my wife there is no kissing, no romancing, no moaning; Mouth Action- I deh craze to even expect her to go that length? Yes the truth is that sometimes I feel am making love to a dead body or raping someone. Yet am incapable of raping anyone as my P will pack up once a female shows fear or disgust. My wife has a strength of character and does not display any emotions, not even during sexual intercourse.
Thanks for your advice. I will keep open mind even with the spiritual suggestions ..

byemx06:

which of the Yoruba Muslim doctrine .......stop spewing rubbish abeg this ur statement is inconsequential

byemx06:

which of the Yoruba Muslim doctrine .......stop spewing rubbish abeg this ur statement is inconsequential