Dear Admin,

My wedding is less than a week away but I am far from being very happy at all.

I made a serious mistake and I am getting married to someone I do not love to pay for that mistake.

I met Dupe through one of my friends in a church that I attend. The church is a large one and I was encouraged to register with one of the youth arms of the church. I joined this group where young workers meet once in a month. It was during one of the monthly meetings I met Dupe. I noticed she was overly an extrovert and it was very easy to spot her in the group. After the meeting,she came to introduce herself and wanted to be friends. That I didn't mind.

There were other ladies in the group other than Dupe. I was friendly with some too. This was made possible as there was also a whatsapp group that was used to keep in touch with everyone.

Dupe started liking me. She actually flirted with me. I found it interesting. Less than a month we met,she told me she was attracted to me. I told her I wasnt. Besides,I was not ready for any relationship. I was sharing an apartment with friends. I wanted to achieve a few more milestones in my life before getting married.She said its ok for us to be friends. I didnt mind that. She would send me suggestive text messages and she started to visit me. She flirted with the guys and before long,the guys told me they had slept with her. I was surprised.

It was that information that made me yield to Dupe’s advances. Seeing that she was giving out her goods freely,I didnt mind to partake in it. Thats how I entered into a sexual relationship with Dupe. As far as I was concerned,I was just having fun as long as she was giving it. And I was not the only beneficiary. But that fun was short lived!

Several months passed by ,Dupe came to me and to my greatest surprise , she was ....

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