Moving from two bed room flat as couple with kids to one room is no doubt a challenge.The question here for those that has experienced this is,how do they (husband,wife and children) cope for one room amidst having sex so that the children will not catch them.It may sound so embarrassing for kids to see popsy and momsy banging each other,moaning,cumming etc.Whats the best way to go about it without being caught.

They will do it nani

Do it without moaning

It is well dear

You will have to wait for them to sleep.

This thread reminds me of Aki nd paw paw movies

Mehn! This will be difficult for u.

My brother, they go adjust sharp sharp.

Those kids have automatically been introduced to sex!

There will be nights that one of them won't be asleep and will notice funny movement under the sheet and tell the others to stay awake and catch the movie. Even the parents will not enjoy it and the moan and shout firm part of the fun and half concentration is checking to see if any of the kids are opening their eyes

When u see kids of 4-5 yrs taking sex positions among their peers, they are products of such home.

Some single mother even sleep with dia boyfiend in broad daylight while the child is awake jumping up and down d room. Such videos are plenty on twitter. In this Nigeria I mean o.

ryut:
Moving from two bed room flat as couple with kids to one room is no doubt a challenge.The question here for those that has experienced this is,how do they (husband,wife and children) cope for one room amidst having sex so that the children will not catch them.It may sound so embarrassing for kids to see popsy and momsy banging each other,moaning,cumming etc.Whats the best way to go about it without being caught.

please I pray God will provide for you ,2 rooms is still manageable ,one room is not too good

Try dividing the rum with a curtain,Put on the radio or the tv set to the loudest volume so that they won't hear u moan.for those saying move to 2 rums,beta d one rum u can comfortable pay 4 than d two rum that u can't pay.

All noted. Not an easy experience at all.

ryut:
Moving from two bed room flat as couple with kids to one room is no doubt a challenge.The question here for those that has experienced this is,how do they (husband,wife and children) cope for one room amidst having sex so that the children will not catch them.It may sound so embarrassing for kids to see popsy and momsy banging each other,moaning,cumming etc.Whats the best way to go about it without being caught.

Why did you move from two bedroom apartment to one room? Did you lose your job or trying to save money? Men! I admire your courage.

Mehn! It's just unthinkable. I can't imagine the kinda things such kids would begin to imagine each time he/she sees a pretty child in school, na kerewa go dey hin mind
E go beta mk una dey do quicky when dem don go sch coz relying on when dey sleep will most certainly fail. Just as someone earlier said,one of the kids will certainly sleep late or pretend to be asleep someday and he/she is gonna be an inactive third party ;DSave your kids from being wayward tomorrow pls.

ryut:
Moving from two bed room flat as couple with kids to one room is no doubt a challenge.The question here for those that has experienced this is,how do they (husband,wife and children) cope for one room amidst having sex so that the children will not catch them.It may sound so embarrassing for kids to see popsy and momsy banging each other,moaning,cumming etc.Whats the best way to go about it without being caught.

You would need to be very careful with this.
If you want to protect your kids (and I believe you do) you and your spouse have to agree that the sex can't be as regular as it used to be. They need to be asleep and not just 10pm sleep o; I mean 2am sleep. Lol.
Also if you have trusted friends or family in the neighborhood you can schedule quick play dates during the weekend for like an hour and just do you thing sharp sharp.
It's gonna be hard but things would get better.

This post just reminded me one very funny story i heard some years ago..

a boy lost his bicycle, when he woke up in the morning he went to the police station 4 them to come and arrest his parent..

officer: what can we do for u？
boy:my bicycle was stolen last night..
officer:do u have any suspect？
boy: yes..
officer:who？
boy: my mum and dad..

officer: why？

boy: because last night i heard my dad telling my mum to climb before it falls...

hmmm now I know my African women don't moan during sex.

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When you expose children to pornogrqphy whether through books, videos or even live as in this case, it is child abuse.
You need to learn to control your urges, and do it only when they're not around like when they are playing outside in the compound.
Otherwise you will raise children that will start practicing what they see you do on themselves, their classmates in school, their neighbors.
Please, don't ruin their lives before they even start living it.

ryut:
Moving from two bed room flat as couple with kids to one room is no doubt a challenge.The question here for those that has experienced this is,how do they (husband,wife and children) cope for one room amidst having sex so that the children will not catch them.It may sound so embarrassing for kids to see popsy and momsy banging each other,moaning,cumming etc.Whats the best way to go about it without being caught.

My advise dear is to allow the kids to sleep in the bedroom while you and hubby sleep in the living room. All you need do is always get a mattress to the living room every night and then return it in the morning but make sure the bedroom door is shut. The kids would get used to you guys sleeping in the living room and they won't be any wiser

TiffanyJ:

My advise dear is to allow the kids to sleep in the bedroom while you and hubby sleep in the living room. All you need do is always get a mattress to the living room every night and then return it in the morning but make sure the bedroom door is shut. The kids would get used to you guys sleeping in the living room and they won't be any wiser

Didn't you read it's a room he rented for his family? Where do you see living room and bedroom in the equation?

edoman2016:

Didn't you read it's a room he rented for his family? Where do you see living room and bedroom in the equation?

Oh, my bad! I actually thought she meant a bedroom and living room.

Men it is a challenge for the couple's.
Any way check this out for your kids
https://momsall.com/kids-garden-toys-garden-toys-for-kids/

It is not easy, only when the couple are self disciplined and matured with understanding..... It takes a lot of sacrifice, you may end up not touching each other for a week or more, you will need to understand the children, do it late in the night when the children just slept after a long day not in the middle of the night or early morning and it must be a cool /emotional one, not that gbas gbos gbas gbó stuff .. You may need to wait till after they've left for sch that is when both partners are self employed, you may need to lure them out to go somewhere for holiday, picnics, visits, errand etc. But the best thing is to plan for at least 2 rooms when securing a house, the difference in the cost does not make up for what you will suffer emotionally.
And lastly, even if you are in a whole duplex, things need to be done moderately when the children are around, your ringing tone in a room can go as far as the 4th room especially in the night, the usually quickie whenever you come back home after a long time will have to stop for the sake of the children and lots more.

Dear OP, please while learning how to negotiate your love making sessions, also learn how not not to get your wife pregnant again. It may prove to be the more important challenge. You have already mentioned having kids. Those are okay for now.
Towards the OP? Kindly don’t have sex with your children in the same room as you. Not even at 3.00am. It is all shades of unokay. They would find out, children are very intelligent and even a lot more inquisitive. They don’t deserve to be traumatised by their supposed greatest safety nests. At all.
Send them away (to a safe place) first.
Please.

With children in the house even with one kid can cause you a lot. We as parent need to be very careful because children of this days are so smart than you think. if you have a child of 2-8 yrs who can't sleep alone in other room is still a problem making love. sometime you may think they are sleeping but they are just there closing eyes pretending to be fast asleep.

For some time now we have been passing through anxiety and depriving our selves from lovemaking because we don't want him to notice us doing that. trying to initiate sex he will turn and our sex drive gone sour. The only time we enjoy is when grandma is around sleeping with him in the other room.

So please all the parent should try not to spoil their kids, they might be watching you at night without your knowledge

Why should you even be thinking of banging anyway, when you moved from 2 bedroom to a room with kids, it means things have changed negatively, I don’t expect a dickson to be popping up in that state, rather use your head for solutions & embark in fasting & prayer as well, Instead of wallowing in sex

I don't know but my heart goes out to these kids who wake up to the noise. Must be a traumatizing experience.

Bad bad bad way to live honestly, but then it happens. I think the couples will settle more for afternoon match when they can send the kids out to play.

sinaj:
You will have to wait for them to sleep.

This thread reminds me of Aki nd paw paw movies

Mehn! This will be difficult for u.

Yes i remembered it too...

One room apartment is not ideal for couples who plan to be having sex with young children in the room.

Not ideal at all. The country is hard but let's not make it harder on ourselves.

A room and a parlour is ok. If both parents are working, it is affordable otherwise limit your offspring to one so that the cycle does not continue.