There are several problems in building a new family but three seems to be the most striking ones that have brought about broken homes of all times.

1) - Choice
This is very common in our daily lives but seems less important. One has to make many choices in life but the choice of what family we wish to build should be from a very careful selection. Choose wisely, the kind of family you need that will not end your dreams and choose wisely, the calibre of career husband/wife (very important) you marry to start this new family. Always have it in mind that marriage is a life-time agreement.

2)Plans
This has to do with a long term draft on one's life and time. What plans do you have towards this new project of building a new family or are you just bulding a house without considering the cost? One needs to know if what is availble can at least, lay the foundation of a new family or what else he /she needs to carry out this new project so that there'll not be a sudden collapse.

3) Back-Up Plan
It is ideal that one must always have what else to do if the first fails to bear fruits. A back-up plan needs more energy than the main plan because this is like a shock absorber, it takes the whole of you when you miss the control tower but GOD is always the best first choice, the best plan guider and the best back-up plan...