Hi peeps. I need to talk about this issue . Do not rush into marriage. Yes, it might be getting late and you feel you should just marry him or her like that without studying each other. Please don't give in to that temptation. Know what makes each other tick, know the character, personality of the person you want to get married to. Don't be in a hurry to get married just because you feel age is no longer on your side. It's better to marry late and happy, than marrying early and not happy.

Ever wonder why a lot of marriages are crashing today unlike in the days of our parents? Yes, I believe in equality as well but equality can not take away some basic things a man / woman should know in marriage. A man / woman should learn how to be humble in marriage, know how to apologise when you are in the wrong. Don't be prideful.A woman should respect her husband, do your house duties, don't nag, assist your husband financially especially if he is not financially buoyant .Don't leave all the children's fees for him to pay alone without assisting yet be demanding money to buy seasoning or pot in the house.You know how hard things are in the country. Women, please learn to support your husband. Don't twist the concept of feminism to favour only you and let your home suffer .Learn to be independent . Don't dump all household expenses on him. Don't make unnecessary demands of him. Just because you are married to him does not mean you can turn him into a mugu or ATM machine .Don't compare him to your friends husbands . Be a prayerful woman .Let your husband be happy with you .Let him be happy he married, don't let him think he made a mistake by marrying you

Men, learn to be understanding to your wife. Try to listen to her. If you feel she got somethings wrong, then sit her down and talk to her calmly. Don't be aggressive while talking to her. Respect her and appreciate her. Show her love and care for her . Do your duties at home.

Aww... The passion that drives this write up is strong.

Cutehector:
Aww... The passion that drives this write up is strong.

Lol.. So many things are happening my dear. I just feel people ought to try to make their marriage work .

Laurawedding:

Lol.. So many things are happening my dear. I just feel people ought to try to make their marriage work .

yes you are so right... I like your reasoning. You deserve better

Cutehector:
yes you are so right... I like your reasoning. You deserve better

Deserve better as in, don't get? I feel a lot of people rush into marriage these days when they are not actually ready for it