I wonder if there are any special conditions for brides in Nigeria, you may find the quaetions a little odd but my culture is very different and I am dating a nigerian boy on the internet so I wan to know everything

i don't understand your questions?could you please explain better and tell us about your tribe

I mean, do Nigerian men look for virgins? because in my culture it doesn´t matter any more if a girl is a virgin or not when she gets married, in fact men in my country would rather take an experienced woman in those matters than a virgin whom they have to teach and nowadays premarital intimacy is somehow an element that helps us decide if that´s the person we want for life

Concerning my tribe, I do not come from any, I am from another country, Cuba.

I like Virgins oooo

You don't sound truthful to me. . .Sounds more like a bogus detail.

I am dating a nigerian boy on the internet so I wan to know everything

Hmmm. Red flag right there

I do not know why you say red flag, I am not African so my customs are not yours ,it is evident that for you a girl who is not a virgin is a problem and I respect that but in my country it is no important. Here people value more other things than the simple fact of dating a girl who has already been with a man in a bed. And seeing things from a different perspective, for us it is more important to know if that girl is the right one to share your life with and spend a lifetime with the wrong person is sadder than spending a first night with a not-virgin, anyway virginity only lasts that first night.

special conditions?  

ha! ok @ poster it depends on his tribe "   "

you prolly should know how to cook very well: akpu,eba, tuwo-shinkafa  " "

know the various  positions of the karma sutra! "  "

be totally fierce and delicious looking at anytime "T"

is that what u are looking for?  

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manina:

I do not know why you say red flag, I am not African so my customs are not yours ,it is evident that for you a girl who is not a virgin is a problem and I respect that but in my country it is no important. Here people value more other things than the simple fact of dating a girl who has already been with a man in a bed. And seeing things from a different perspective, for us it is more important to know if that girl is the right one to share your life with and spend a lifetime with the wrong person is sadder than spending a first night with a not-virgin, anyway virginity only lasts that first night.

Red flag here from dayokanu does not you regarded because being a virgin.It means be careful with the internet guy.

asha:
Maybe dating is not the right word for what we have, we never see each other becuase we are too far rom each other, we just write,ask questions and that´s all. He was looking for a woman on the internet to get married and I was looking for a friend, we ran into each other and have been sending messages since then. After some time, I have become interested in his culture and traditions and reading this same forum I found many topics that worried me although I had not realised, this intimacy issue is one of them because it could make a difference between the two of us.

I do not know why you say red flag, I am not African so my customs are not yours ,it is evident that for you a girl who is not a virgin is a problem and I respect that but in my country it is no important. Here people value more other things than the simple fact of dating a girl who has already been with a man in a bed. And seeing things from a different perspective, for us it is more important to know if that girl is the right one to share your life with and spend a lifetime with the wrong person is sadder than spending a first night with a not-virgin, anyway virginity only lasts that first night.

Virginity might not be prized as it was back in the day but its still a sign of purity that the girl has not been "all over the place". At the end of the day, it depends on the guy, some might prefer a girl more "experienced" some might prefer someone who is "brand new".

Besides, don't you guys care about STD's in Cuba?

Of course we care about STDs, that´s is why we are taught how to avoid them from very early ages. Education is the key to many problems and in this case it has worked here, free education,free knowledge,free care for everything, including STDs. Besides the fact of keeping your virginity for a determined man does not mean that you are not going to catch any STD, don´t you think? The really sad part would be if you kept your most special treasure for a guy who is going to infect you from the very first time without taking into account what you are giving him.

Depends on his tribe. . .

I think

He is a Christian, I do not know there but here not even Christian boys take that into account these days, what do you think?

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Be extra careful with internet relationships.

Nigeria is a huge country, there's no such thing as a Nigerian bride. If you told us where he's from in Nigeria, people would tell you about marriage customs.

i will b very very weary of this ur internet lover
i dont mean to sterotype or generalise
fck hell i mean to, but i wldnt date a nigerian guy on the net
beware, when he starts asking u to send him money, just put him out like a lit match