Here I was in this thread  https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=456881.msg6154028#msg6154028 looking for love and declaring that I i don't want to be a cougar and comes this tall and cute sweetheart that is 6 years younger than me wanting to be my man. I tried my best to talk sense into him telling him that I'm not suitable and that he should go for someone younger than me and he is refusing to bulge, he is sticking with me and had me tripping all over him. He is so cute, sophisticated and mature, you won't know I am older than him when you see us but I am still a bit worried that we have this huge age difference between us. What will you do if you are in my position? I like him too, Oh my God, I am really tripping, somebody catch me, smile.

Go on.

can he Bleep well? cos that's the most important thing.

@ osama and Cenor
Thanks guys for your support but I persuaded him severally that it's wise we don't date until he saw reasons wth me and we had to let the relationship go.
I have nothing against people with much age difference, if the parties like themselves but here we are in different timeline in relationship, I want to settle down and have children like tomorrow but he still have years ahead to plan for that. I never discussed that aspect with him, makes me uncomfortable and i don't think it's nice to start scaring a man with marriage talk but I weighed our situations and used my brain here. My instinct asked me to make good decision and I think I just did. Thanks brothers.

personally i can't cos it makes me a sugar mummy immediately

No I won't, I wont even date a guy 2 years older than me.

sophianah:

personally i can't cos it makes me a sugar mummy immediately

Your analogy's totally wrong. A sugar mummy can be the same age as her partner, what makes her a sugar mummy (and her guy a gigolo) is the relationship they share.

That is, if the guy's just living off her, and has no means of income other than the lady, and she's happy to pay his bills, feed him, and of course get bed satisfaction from him (and he from her) then that's where the Sugar Mummy scenario comes from. It's nothing to do with their age differences.