Hello Nairalanders my Name is David Valentine and i base in Lagos and i seriously need some advice now or should i say help
I don't even know where to start from or what to say but long story short, i lost my GF last year September and since then i have not been able to be in another relationship again and like seriously i don't know what is happening to me or what i going on again.
I gave my self a lots of time before trying to get y self in to another relationship but all my efforts seems to go no where, truth is the thing is so serious to me to the extend that am beginning to consider even going to prayers or telling my pastor about it.
Before i was thinking that maybe it's was my job that wasn't okay but it's a lie because i got a new job and it's OK at least.
Am hardworking, an inspirational, life coach, an idealist yet i found my self going through what am helping others with.
The problem is any girl i try to talk to won't give me a listening ear and even if they do in less than a week or two i found them leaving me, not picking my calls, talks to me anyhow and all that, i can't count and i begin to ask my self what is happening to my life and these are some of the girls that my friends talk to and like they accept immediately and things go on well for them even though my friends wouldn't want anything serious with them they still accept and me that want something more than serious with them won't even be given such privilege or opportunity if i may say. Please guys, gals help oo. Thanks and God bless

The right girl will come at the right time.
You are a good looking man.
Don't rush.
Be patient.
All the best.

Op be specific!...... Are you looking for a girl or a piece of advice?

Because you have not been making enough money.

She don see you..she will inbox you .any lady for that church u no see camp down na one yeye lady u dey find. Oyo lowa

Hmmm am really confused right now but truth is i think i will be needing the both. (1) The advice (2) An understanding girl

nNEOo:
Op be specific!...... Are you looking for a girl or a piece of advice?

Okay because it's what i have been praying and hoping for but the truth is its really not easy like seriously because i live alone, no parents in Lag and another truth is because of all these going out this days has really left my spirit.

post=69326869:
The right girl will come at the right time.
You are a good looking man.
Don't rush.
Be patient.
All the best.

Hmmm yeah i totally understand you but the thing is it's just easy been alone most especially when i live alone too.

damosade:
She don see you..she will inbox you .any lady for that church u no see camp down na one yeye lady u dey find. Oyo lowa

Like seriously i don't think that's the problem

adetoroamos:
Because you have not been making enough money.