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I Feel Betrayed By My Father! by Nobody: 8:59am On Jul 15, 2018
Hello Nairalanders pls forgive me for my typos because i'm not good in writing

September 2017 i wanted to start Importation business because there is this product that is very scarce in my area and i found out that i can get it very cheap in china and make clean profit here. I wont say i'm from a rich family but at least we are doing just fine. i approach my dad and told him to invest, he said i'm not serious maybe i met some yahoo guys who wanted to scam me! i said no p i told some of my friends and they all agree to invest, fast forward to December goods arrived and before January ends all of us are smiling to the bank, When my dad saw the biz was successful he said he will give me a loan of 500k which i will pay him back at the end of the year! but in Feb i had a friend schooling abroad like we are very tight hommies before he left so he told me that he will help me apply for a scholarship if i want to move out, i accepted his offer and inform my dad about it, i'm just 22 i still live with my folks, my old man said no problems as long as its genuine he will help me financially. the money i made from the business is just 350k i took all the money and started processing my documents. after two months i got the scholarship, my friend who base abroad gave me a loan of 100k which i will pay him back when we finally meet. i travelled to Abuja processed my visa and to God be the glory i got the Visa. i came back home feeling happy and informed my dad about it he said no wahala he will give me the money he promised me in a week time, guys my Visa i going to expire in 3 days whenever i approach him about the money he will tell me that i'm a problem i should just leave him alone. guys i dont know what to do. if i have invested my money i the importation biz that i started earlier i would have got like 700k to 800k by now, i wasted my time my hard earned money at the end of the day its all going down the drain!! Guys please what do you think i should do i'm feeling depressed and betrayed!
Re: I Feel Betrayed By My Father! by madridguy(m): 9:04am On Jul 15, 2018
Where is your mother? I think she's in better position to speak to your dad.

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Re: I Feel Betrayed By My Father! by dingbang(m): 9:05am On Jul 15, 2018
Your father didn't betray you, you betrayed yourself. Its very obvious you cannot stand on something you want to do. You saw a gold mine that fetched you over 350k in a short time and you got swayed by the lyrics of travelling abroad.


Please what is the name of that product let me invest with you so you can get back on ya feet, everyone wins...

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Re: I Feel Betrayed By My Father! by Nobody: 9:09am On Jul 15, 2018
dingbang:
Your father didn't betray you, you betrayed yourself. Its very obvious you cannot stand on something you want to do. You saw a gold mine that fetched you over 350k in a short time and you got swayed by the lyrics of travelling abroad.


Please what is the name of that product let me invest with you so you can get back on ya feet, everyone wins...
i have plans there man i'm not just traveling for the sake of traveling!
Re: I Feel Betrayed By My Father! by Nobody: 9:10am On Jul 15, 2018
madridguy:
Where is your mother? I think she's in better position to speak to your dad.
i dont live with my mom
Re: I Feel Betrayed By My Father! by dingbang(m): 9:12am On Jul 15, 2018
milesbk:
i have plans there man i'm not just traveling for the sake of traveling!
you got plans, how sure are you they are Gona succeed? Don't be too sure. God is the only one who actualizes plans.
Re: I Feel Betrayed By My Father! by madridguy(m): 9:19am On Jul 15, 2018
oh k. Can you talk to your dad friends or relative about if? I mean if they can talk to your old man.

milesbk:
i dont live with my mom
Re: I Feel Betrayed By My Father! by Favoured87: 3:13pm On Jul 15, 2018
Your dad maybe broke now. Find out first if he's buoyant now.

Remember he gave you 500k..dont be an ungrateful child.

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Re: I Feel Betrayed By My Father! by Nobody: 3:15pm On Jul 15, 2018
To be candid, a lot of mistake people do is what you just did. You uncovered a business that gave you 350k in space of few weeks and you can't specialise on it to know how God can bless you through that?

Someone brainwashed you into travelling abroad to make same money and you yielded. Now ur blaming ur old man. Leave that man alone joor. Blame urself.

In my opinion, any young guy who can uncover and establish any legitimate business that can yield from #200-300k and above as ur gain in a month or few weeks has NO reason to travel out in the name of #hustle.

#My opinion.

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Re: I Feel Betrayed By My Father! by Nobody: 3:36pm On Jul 15, 2018
emmachukwu99:
To be candid, a lot of mistake people do is what you just did. You uncovered a business that gave you 350k in space of few weeks and you can't specialise on it to know how God can bless you through that?

Someone brainwashed you into travelling abroad to make same money and you yielded. Now ur blaming ur old man. Leave that man alone joor. Blame urself.

In my opinion, any young guy who can uncover and establish any legitimate business that can yield from #200-300k and above as ur gain in a month or few weeks has NO reason to travel out in the name of #hustle.

#My opinion.


I agree
Re: I Feel Betrayed By My Father! by lilioj: 6:52pm On Jul 15, 2018
Sorry not related to the post but can someone pls tell me why some profiles read 'Nobody'
Re: I Feel Betrayed By My Father! by Nobody: 8:31pm On Jul 15, 2018
lilioj:
Sorry not related to the post but can someone pls tell me why some profiles read 'Nobody'
it means the person has deactivated their account
Re: I Feel Betrayed By My Father! by Chubhie: 9:21pm On Jul 15, 2018
Op, I know you are now reading this your thread as a ghost. Share with me the nature of this product that fetched you 350k in a short time.
Re: I Feel Betrayed By My Father! by kenny905(m): 3:09am On Jul 16, 2018
Chubhie:
Op, I know you are now reading this your thread as a ghost. Share with me the nature of this product that fetched you 350k in a short time.
No mind op, imagine how disappointed I was when I realised op is keeping that his business a secret

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Re: I Feel Betrayed By My Father! by kenny905(m): 3:12am On Jul 16, 2018
i have plans there man i'm not just traveling for the sake of traveling!
Your father must have watched fake news media and saw how they are blackmailing African migrants and thought you set when reaching there you will join the trend and refuse to come back to Naija...

You sef, who no know say u bin wan excape?
Re: I Feel Betrayed By My Father! by lilioj: 7:24am On Jul 16, 2018
nothalfbaked:
it means the person has deactivated their account
Thanks !
Re: I Feel Betrayed By My Father! by NoToPile: 8:54am On Jul 16, 2018
I wonder why nobody saw that it was a scholarship he got, not going to hustle.

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