A highly controversially charged marriage counselling topic but nothing is impossible with Jesus.
A man leave his parent to cling to his wife not a wife that leaves her parent to a man.
So a man's marriage is like a lost to his family but a woman's marriage is like an add to her family.
So between a man and a woman who is an assets to the family they are born in.
So dnt cry too much when you v all girls they will bring your reals son to you through their marriages.
This is why any family Jesus picks his bride from that family become his real Mary and Joseph family as he belongs with them through clinging to his bride.
Name changing becomes a decision between the couple to have their individuals names intact for their individual goals
and a martial name they answer together as married couples interest of their children foundation and the marriage Union purpose ,goal God's vision.
That is why God match mate soul mates by purpose his own vision.