10 BEST WAYS OF GETTING OUT OF LIFE'S DIFFICULT SITUATIONS.

Life in itself is full of troubles. No human is exempted from its attack. And life's trouble does not have respect or regard for age, tribe or tongues, colour or nations, or even the size of your bank account. Every one is prone to trials. Have you heard of the saying, " the rich also cry?."
This post is not amplify life's troubles but to expose its vulnerability by letting us know that every difficult situation has its solutions. And we want to restrict ourselves on ways of providing solution and not to amplify it.

#1. PRAY.
This is an age long practise that has proven a perfect means of combating life's ugly situations. Since every human believes in a deity and its powers over the universe. Faith when exercised in such deities has proven to be an anti dote to the problems of life. There is always the soothing feelings of calm, hope and peace that's often experienced when you've finished praying in faith.
Are you going thru hell right now? I urge you to pray. You will be surprised on the outcome.

#2. Seek Counsel:
One out of many reason most people gets defeated in problems is because they kept their problems to themselves. No problem is new on the earth! Someone somewhere had experienced it and conquered it.
Talk to an elder, a priest, counselor, a professional, mentor etc. Don't keep a sealed lips! Someone somewhere has the answer to that trouble.

#3. Read Books.
Unfortunately, this is one of the best but unpopular means of combating challenges of life.
Look for books that talks about whatever you are going thru and read. Within the pages you will find answers to your questions.
I had a friend who had always used this method to solve his personal life troubles.

#4. Be Positive.
Learn to be positive regardless how you feel. You need to take absolute control of thoughts and imaginations flooding your mind during the trying period.
Positivity will give you an edge over negative situations. It may not be easy but with discipline it will surely pay off.
Remember the saying, "It pays to be positive!."

#5. Avoid negative associations.
This is the undoing of many when confronted with challenges.
Avoid friends or company who are quick to point always point out the problem or your faults/ weakness without providing the solution. They are quick to judge you based on what you are going thru but don't have an answer to the questions on ground. They are not helping you nor the situation. Keep them at arms length.

#7. Do not be Afraid.
Handle your fears at this time. Fear is a silent killer. It has killed lots of people than the problem itself. Fear itself, has a way of becoming a reality if not handled.
The problem is 50% solved when fear is curtailed.

#8. Watch your words.
Many may not know this, but your choice of words is 80% contributor to the whatever be the outcome of your life.
Avoid negative talks both in private and public. Always speak positive words. Speak positive words contrary to your negative circumstances.
As you avoid negative people, so also avoid the use of negative words.

#9. Be Patient.
Every Problem has its expiry date.
After all said and done, learn to be patient.
For tough times never last but tough people do.

#10. Be Happy.
Make yourself happy. Do whatever you know gives you joy or happiness. Catch your fun at every given opportunity. For that's the ultimate secret. You may not have control over what life may throw at you but you can decide you ain't going to allow it rob you of your happiness.
Life is short, spend it with happiness.

*(The writings here are just an expression of the writers opinions and belief)

WORK HARD!
Never give up!