Good evening,

My name is Mamus and i think am breaking down real quick. I need your help to recognise my problem from the below turns of events in my life. Please help me, this is a psychological issue.


Scene 1:

I happened to be the coordinator of my department in school. It wasn't much of a thing but i was bombarded with opposition that cramped me up most times. The oppositions were coming from course mate that was pulling crowd and would stop at nothing to frustrate my little effort whatsoever.
He would report to my course adviser and even pull stunts just to make me angry. So far, i have finally decided to play off and give up the position before i get embarrassed by impeachment.
Am totally in error with over 90% of my course mate. Maybe this was my thought or maybe the isolation i rendered to the ladies were core factored. They think am a proud and arrogant dude.

Scene Two:

Where i stay, there lives a girl there that i sort of have interest on. My boss friend wanted her too and since he got car, a house and a huge aza balance, i thought he would stand a better chance than i. So, i backed down and told the girl my friend likes her. She was angry and told me not to give him her contact.

She even changed her mood but when i told her about us meeting, she would gladly come to my room with a shy smile on her face.

I like this girl, no doubt about that. But my hostel is filled up with 80% yahoo boys with constant flexing and huge fine rooms furnitures, so i think am kinda feeling inferior to them atimes and my love for this girl is barely enough.

Scene 3:

I lost my mom few years back. My dad was diagnosed with a stroke and so my step mom and her children were the ones in charge of his properties including his bank account. So, when my dad discovered my step brother took over 3 million from the account, he backed them out and called me from school to run the account on his behalf. To cut the story short, i was accused falsely of lifting 840,000 from his account, the money i withdrew for him. This became an issue and my step sister threatened no money would come to me for house rent or school fees again, even feeding fees included.

Analysis,

Other scenes included. Right now, am broken. This has been so for over a week now that i had to take two black bullet drink the past night to dose off. Today it got so tough that i had to buy Tramadol this evening to skip this thought.

I don't even know my problem now. I feel so inferior and ashamed and low. Please help me

Sorry about all that is happening to you.....
First of all, tell us where u got the tramadol, we need to get health task force team to lock that shop and suspend the licence....

Coursemates
Woman
Inferiority complex
Taking Dad's money.

Frankly, I don't see all these as problems or issues. The one close to issue here is inferiority complex. If you always feel intimidated or feel inferior to them, you can pack out or learn to mind your business.

If your conscience is clear you didn't take dad's money, then you don't need to worry about anything. Clear conscience fears no allegation.

80% of your 'supposed' problems comes because of this girl, think less of her and see how you'll restore happiness back to your life.

1StopRudeness:
Sorry about all that is happening to you.....
First of all, tell us where u got the tramadol, we need to get health task force team to lock that shop and suspend the licence....

You are not helping .

Pray. Pray. Pray.

Don't for once think that there are extra forces against you. The universe sends you to the exact place you have to be always. All of these is to gear you for the future. You have allowed yourself to slip into torture, you have to claw your way out. Also, learn to give yourself a break. You can rest when it is too hard but don't stop forever. You need to go out and play a lot. Do what interests you.

Plus, you may have an identity crisis. You are a recluse, no doubt, you should not be the coordinator of your department. Concerning the money, maintain your stand. When you think all hope is lost, God will make a way. We all are broken and that's how the light gets in.

OluwabuqqyYOLO:
Pray. Pray. Pray.

Don't for once think that there are extra forces against you. The universe sends you to the exact place you have to be always. All of these is to gear you for the future. You have allowed yourself to slip into torture, you have to claw your way out. Also, learn to give yourself a break. You can rest when it is too hard but don't stop forever. You need to go out and play a lot. Do what interests you.

Plus, you may have an identity crisis. You are a recluse, no doubt, you should not be the coordinator of your department. Concerning the money, maintain your stand. When you think all hope is lost, God will make a way. We all are broken and that's how the light gets in.

God bless you sir.

OluwabuqqyYOLO:
Pray. Pray. Pray.

Don't for once think that there are extra forces against you. The universe sends you to the exact place you have to be always. All of these is to gear you for the future. You have allowed yourself to slip into torture, you have to claw your way out. Also, learn to give yourself a break. You can rest when it is too hard but don't stop forever. You need to go out and play a lot. Do what interests you.

Plus, you may have an identity crisis. You are a recluse, no doubt, you should not be the coordinator of your department. Concerning the money, maintain your stand. When you think all hope is lost, God will make a way. We all are broken and that's how the light gets in.

What about the girl ?

enasgreat:
You are not helping .

U are looking it from one angle.....if they lock the shop now u won't be able to buy tramadol again hence u will not injure urself the more...tramadol drugging is not good for u..

enasgreat:
What about the girl ?

your problem is that u don't go for what you want because u feel inferior. if u can't forget about that girl (ur number 1 issue) and if you wanna backoff do it for something else . say, studies. don't back off because of another guy. His presence should even push you the more to her. Girls like money but respect power and guts.
When u're been accused of stealing stand on ur ground. If possible get proofs. If your father did not trust you he would not have given you control of his account. Tell him his trust was right.
And for ur sister she knows u're gentle that's why she can threaten u.

I've been there b4. the truth is until you overcome ur biggest problems, fear, gentleness and inferiority complex, nobody will take you seriously. not even that girl or ur father.
Trust me on this, face ur fears, one day at a time, seize any opportunity to prove ur manliness and u will be out of that f**king state in no time.
When you please people with politeness they put garbage on your head.
until you get what gives you confidence you'll keep taking black bullets.
For that ur course mate tell him f**k u the next time you see him.

my las point is BE INDEPENDENT

horia:
your problem is that u don't go for what you want because u feel inferior. if u can't forget about that girl (ur number 1 issue) and if you wanna backoff do it for something else . say, studies. don't back off because of another guy. His presence should even push you the more to her. Girls like money but respect power and guts.
When u're been accused of stealing stand on ur ground. If possible get proofs. If your father did not trust you he would not have given you control of his account. Tell him his trust was right.
And for ur sister she knows u're gentle that's why she can threaten u.

I've been there b4. the truth is until you overcome ur biggest problems, fear, gentleness and inferiority complex, nobody will take you seriously. not even that girl or ur father.
Trust me on this, face ur fears, one day at a time, seize any opportunity to prove ur manliness and u will be out of that f**king state in no time.
When you please people with politeness they put garbage on your head.
until you get what gives you confidence you'll keep taking black bullets.
For that ur course mate tell him f**k u the next time you see him.

my las point is BE INDEPENDENT

Can you help me out on WhatsApp ?

enasgreat:
Can you help me out on WhatsApp ?

i don't have to do that. first, go to ur father and make sure you have his trust treat that matter like a man ur father should be proud of

horia:
i don't have to do that. first, go to ur father and make sure you have his trust treat that matter like a man ur father should be proud of

That is impossible right. The issue is complicated. I didn't state everything