Welcome to class, let us do some revisions on our lessons.

Lesson 1: RELATIONSHIP IS NOT A SOURCE OF HAPPINESS

If your happiness is tied to being in a relationship, it means you really do not need a relationship but you need a direction.

If you believe that a loving relationship will ease the emptiness inside you, the harsh reality is that no relationship is ever going to be able to “fill you up.” Either you are happily married, happily engaged or happily single; the key word is being happy. The key to being happy is to be happy with yourself, happiness makes you beautiful.

Once the easy emotional connection and satisfaction of “new love” wears off; you’ll find that you’re not “filled up” after all and no matter what he/she does or says, ultimately it won’t be good enough or feel good enough for you because you haven’t worked on yourself.

Lesson 2: MASTER YOUR EMOTIONS

I thought being in a relationship is the only way I could ease myself from the tension of the situation I was then, I crave for attention and love at the detriment of my destiny. I allowed anything because I needed to be in the relationship at all cost.

Yes there will be situations where you may feel down and wished you have someone to share it with you, but you have to be careful of this so as for you not to build intimacy with someone who is not your spouse or intending spouse to be which many times leads to assumed relationship.

In fact, if care isn't taken, the other party may take advantage of your vulnerability. Learn to control your emotion.

Lesson 3....... See you on Wednesday for continuation

Relationship is just some thing else