MY WIFE DOES NOT KNOW THAT I KNOW

I have been married for 14years 'we' have 3kids(all
boys) but none of them belongs to me. I know this
for a fact but my wife does not know that I know.


Let me explain. 5years before I met my wife, I was
involved in a car accident together with two of my
friends. We were traveling from Kasoa to Madina
and our car skidded off the road. I was the only
survivor of that accident, my friends died. I spent
about 11months at the hospital and that left me with
a condition that says I can't have children.


I gave my life to Jesus Christ and became a
committed Christian after the incident. In summary I
became a pastor in a local church in my community
5years later and met my wife in the process. I did
not tell her about my condition because I was
hopeful that God will heal me. 6years into our
marriage my wife got pregnant and had 'our' first
child.


To be sure, I secretly went for a DNA n it was clear
I wasn't the father. I repeated the test for all 3
children and they are all not mine. I have been living
with this situation for the past 8 years and I am
beginning to get irritated by both the children and
my wife.


My wife pretends to be a good wife. She goes
round preaching to young women in the church
about the need to remain faithful to their partners
but she has had 3 children by another man or men I
don't know. I want to confront her, but I am
confused as to how to go about the situation. I am
just angry and irritated by everyone in my house
lately. I feel like a total stranger in my own home.
What should I do!

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Since you're born again, tell her about it,the more you keep it the more you keep on hurting yourself

Oturugbeke

Super Story... Smh.

Oturugbeke..

Oturugbeke...

daddytime:
Oturugbeke

Na real oturugbeke my brother

Wicked man

This script will not sell jor.


Too recycled and watery

The man is a wicked man.

What makes the man think that his wife doesn't know that he can't produce children?

Oya let him divorce her and the kids na.

All these 'demonic' Christians.

Actually, I know a true life story similar to this. The man knew he was infertile, kept it a secret and married a young lady without telling her. I'm talking of over 15 years ago.
The first-time his wife got pregnant, he came excitedly to his Dr asking if God had done it. A test was conducted on him, which still showed he was infertile. She gave birth to a boy. The second time she got pregnant, she gave birth to twins.
However, I had no sympathy for the man then, neither do I have one for this man here.
When you go into a marriage with utmost deceit, be ready to be equally deceived in full measure.
"It is he who is fast the gods support"... I'm not sure if that's the correct way of saying the proverb

Pray very well before you tell her. Unless the Holy Spirit is in her, she can poison you. It's a very big risk or you keep quiet. I wouldn't blame the woman, yes! Many women are childless today because of their husbands but people think the women have the problem

Super story!

Even if it is true, the man deceived the woman into marriage with his infertility, the woman returned the deceit with children outside marriage....it balances out.

Take a look at them above. Blaming the man. I don't just know why Adam didn't die with all his ribs intact.

Sow wind and reap whirlwind. Sow lies and reap falsehood.

The pastor started d falsehood by not telling his wife his health status before marriage 'tort of deceit'. Unknowing to him, his wife must have found out from someone else and decide to save him from the shame.

She also extended the falsehood by having babies from another man/men.

It all started from a faulty marital foundation. Better call her and settle what you started amicably. At least the kids have a right to know who their real father is

eyinjuege:
When you go into a marriage with utmost deceit, be ready to be equally deceived in full measure.
"It is he who is fast the gods support"... I'm not sure if that's the correct way of saying the proverb

na real talk u talk sir.
eni yara l'ogun n'gbe

Sheyb you didn't tell her and went into the marriage believing you will get your healing?

Guess what? Your prayers were answered.

God works in mysterious ways, man.

bukola89:
Since you're born again, tell her about it,the more you keep it the more you keep on hurting yourself

Unfortunately, the victim is not in NL so he won't be able to view your advice.

D

eyinjuege:
Actually, I know a true life story similar to this. The man knew he was infertile, kept it a secret and married a young lady without telling her. I'm talking of over 15 years ago.
The first-time his wife got pregnant, he came excitedly to his Dr asking if God had done it. A test was conducted on him, which still showed he was infertile. She gave birth to a boy. The second time she got pregnant, she gave birth to twins.
However, I had no sympathy for the man then, neither do I have one for this man here.
When you go into a marriage with utmost deceit, be ready to be equally deceived in full measure.
"It is he who is fast the gods support"... I'm not sure if that's the correct way of saying the proverb

Your stupidity is becoming something else

Elder0001:




Your stupidity is becoming something else

Son of a thousand fathers, I've noticed you. Your foolishness is legendary and that's not surprising. Unfortunately unfortunate fellow. Your mother owes you many explanations.

fake

Bro u should consider yourself lucky oo. At least she doesn't allow your disagreements affect her responsibilities in d home to u n d kids. N she is still willing to sleep with u. Some women wouldn't even allow u touch Dem even after d issue has been settled. Am not hyping your wife but maybe she sees it as a means of settling d issue in her own understanding. My advice is dat u use dat time after sex,with d two of u still on bed to discuss the issue at hand. Cheers.

Fiction. What's the correlation between been involved in an accident and becoming impotent . Except u were before the accident. There's more to this ur story.

ExAngel007:
MY WIFE DOES NOT KNOW THAT I KNOW

I have been married for 14years 'we' have 3kids(all
boys) but none of them belongs to me. I know this
for a fact but my wife does not know that I know.


Let me explain. 5years before I met my wife, I was
involved in a car accident together with two of my
friends. We were traveling from Kasoa to Madina
and our car skidded off the road. I was the only
survivor of that accident, my friends died. I spent
about 11months at the hospital and that left me with
a condition that says I can't have children.


I gave my life to Jesus Christ and became a
committed Christian after the incident. In summary I
became a pastor in a local church in my community
5years later and met my wife in the process. I did
not tell her about my condition because I was
hopeful that God will heal me. 6years into our
marriage my wife got pregnant and had 'our' first
child.


To be sure, I secretly went for a DNA n it was clear
I wasn't the father. I repeated the test for all 3
children and they are all not mine. I have been living
with this situation for the past 8 years and I am
beginning to get irritated by both the children and
my wife.


My wife pretends to be a good wife. She goes
round preaching to young women in the church
about the need to remain faithful to their partners
but she has had 3 children by another man or men I
don't know. I want to confront her, but I am
confused as to how to go about the situation. I am
just angry and irritated by everyone in my house
lately. I feel like a total stranger in my own home.
What should I do!

https://mobile./899005560181154?view=permalink&id=2166005056814525&refid=7&ref=opera_speed_dial&_ft_=qid.6677098748022043176%3Amf_story_key.8676719285697770512%3Agroup_id.899005560181154%3Atop_level_post_id.2166005056814525%3Acontent_owner_id_new.100006312072963%3Asrc.22%3Astory_location.5%3Aview_time.1554633199&__tn__=%2As-R

You should tell her... Instead of hating on 'em... Soon the irritation would lead to hatred...