Okay so you might remember me from my previous post: 'I Need A Guy in Life' but for those of you who didn't have the time to go through, well this is SilknSteel.

Really dearies, I can't seem to understand why most guys are always after a lady's physical looks rather than getting to know her better. Okay, like I received series of calls alright and I dare say that 99% of them wanted to know the same thing: What are your sexiest attributes blah blah. Personally, I don't think it right and I have also noticed that guys who engaged in such questionings aren't really so fantastic themselves.

So house, I kindly ask: Do you think it is right for a guy to want to know everything about every part of a lady even if he hasn't met her before? Don't you think friendship, relationship etc should go beyond that? Waiting for your wonderful responses as always.
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Hmmn.

i laff in swahili " "

what i know is most men are visually- oriented, the bigger the Tommy-bosoms, the fatter the defense the better

she don't have to have a lick of sense.

Who wants to marry a Walrus?

Because i dnt wana date cinderela's cousin.

my dear its because men are typically led by sight and not by faith.

Did i say dat? I meant her step sisters. Dnt rememb their names though.

And they were efing fugly NO.2.

@OP. The answer is simple.

1. Would you be interested in marrying a crippled man? I guess no. I know for sure that you won't even be patient enough to get that close to know his attributes.

2. The same reason why a lady would want to know where a guy works or what he does for a living is akin to a man wanting to know d physical attributes of a lady

Most often, what a man sees determines how close he is will to get to the lady in question. Hence those wonderful attributes that are discovered in the course of the relationship that follows are merely bonuses.

Poster not all men are like that. Some are after physical qualities while some are after mental qualities while the other are after behavioural quantities. So its a split dear.

hmmm, dt's y many ladies have ruined thier lives with fakes.

They should consider character as no 1.

SilknSteel, Just hold it right there! where did you borrow such 'special attribute to accommodate'. you may speak for yourself and not for all the ladies because I dont remember ladies being known anywhere for their 'special ability to accommodate.' So what happened to those ladies that wont give a guy a second look if his bank balance is not in six digits and above. Is that accommodation? To a vast majority of Nigerian gals, love means nothing if it cannot be monetized. Ask your brother to give his gal friend a gift of flower which is known to depict genuine affection, on Valentine's day and watch as the affair goes to pieces in the preceeding weeks. What do you take the guys for? If the ladies continue to give us the impression that love and sex have prize tags, then whenever we are paying and buying, we must ensure that our 'chattel' would be worth its price.

lol silnsteel, men too would like to know that at least their women is presentable. I'm sure you wont compromise on a man who has no prospects for a job, has no car and is only squatting with a friend right?

Most peeps are drawn to good look's,men and women.to me,your good look's are nonsense if you talk to me rudely and it seem's to be your way of life or you lack dept and refuse to learn.I have met many women whose only attribute in life is their fine face so with most extremely handsome men.
Real men go for what is within.you will agree with me that tyra banks is more pretty than mrs obama.look up their biographie's,you will know that she is nowhere close to michelle should the real woman stand up.
Michelle is a strong willed woman with impeccable value's.many women will give almost anything to have barrack;michelle has him by the ball's and he adore's her.

[size=18pt]A guy whom focuses on a ladies physique is known to be not serious and only would be interested in sex. [/size]

A girl who has fine face has more trouble with men than the one with phatt physique.

I am guilty of physical scrutiny. I'm working on a vision that'l put me in spot light in a couple of yearz,I wont hv an unpresentable man beside me as husband.
Evn though I might date a fugly man now,I cant get into a r'shp with such.
Call it vain but I love beauty.

Too much beauty no way

atutupoyoyo no way

@op i guess u'r nt that so ugly as u'r tyin to show us?

odunnu,
i really want to meet you?let me know your location or how we cna hook up

Nice one inked_nerd.i admire ur intellect.

[font=Comic sans MS ]for most men, the physical attributes sparks d interest. . .only when the attributes r in place wuld they bother knowing wat lies within . .

exceptional cases tho' r those who r prolly childhood friends,neighbours, classmates, colleagues . .etc. . .those onez get to have their xterics placed above physical features. [/font]

@creamish, i agree with you but it is in both the guys and ladies cos nobody would like someone that is not good looking.

@ those screaming "what about personality and attributes", ok, here's a quiz for u: when a girl walks by do u say: A. "Check out the Personality and good character on that gal, ".or; B."Damn, Jesus Christ of Nazareth, check out them ti*tties and Phat aszzz on that chic".

I THINK U R ALL RIGHT ONE WAY OR THE OTHER:::TO D GUYS,ITS NOW A NORM TO HAV THE BEST CHIC, SOMETIMES IT GOES BEYOND BEAUTY, SOMTIMES IT MIGHT BE CARRIAGE WISE, NEATNESS, PHYSIQUE as u v rightly said, IQ etc:::THE CHICS TOO WANTS TO HAV GOOD LOOKN GUYS WIT NICE SHAPE,FINE POCKET,CUTE CRIB&RIDE, d qst is, WHO DOESNT LIKE GOOD THING? @POSTER, taste varies::THANK U

4 wats worth,

i love d BOOBS wit a HUGE passion,

damn, i can die on it, hahahaa

It is good to ask my dear Siiknsteel. I was sleeping 1 day and my fone rank, i picked and it was a female voice. She said she was board that was why she radomly dialed my numbr, as a gentle man that i am, i was able to chat her up. We started, but the mistake i made was not asking her abt her look. I fixed a date to meet with her. She came and u knw, i started asking her questns like, Where are u standing, which kind of clothes r u putting on. The discription she gave was 1 ABINO that was wearing a heart, caring and umbrellar untop the heat that she was wearing. I sighted her from afar. Oboy, The car that took me there was about going when i shouted 4 him to wait. I mean, i followed the car that brought me back to my destination, i didnt even talk to her. I called her on my way home that i av an urgent issue that arise and i am sorry for any inconvinieces that might caused. I ran. That would av bin avoided if i had earlier asked about her look.

^^^lmao:::CAVEAT EMPTOR::i saw odunnu's pix i tripped,i fell, i hmmm::while som r busy hidding their beauty or beastY,
Back to d topic::i love sweet chics::odunnu has it all::NO COMMENT