Be true to yourself of the matter of love and understanding. It is necessary that there is courtship between both spouses before marriage. The real truth and reason for courting are to reveal your true personality to each other neglecting lies, secrets, mischievousness but openness to understand first, the extent at which you love each other and understanding with the "God-factor" foundation.

Here are the theoretical illustration of a genuine relationship before marriage;

Understanding = Trust = Love

Mathematically: Understanding + Trust = Love I.e Love + "the God-factor" = unending Joy of marriage meaning a marriage void of dispute that can be resolved amicably which wouldn't result in the idea of divorce.

You don't only get married because of love but also for understanding, trust and recognition of the "God-factor" in both spouses. A perfect marriage comes with a little of everything.

You don't marry because of Love... it's sound so not true but because of understanding and your knowledge about relationship. For example, the broken homes of a woman get divorced when asks: "Don't you love your husband?" 

She responds: Yes 

Then why divorce him? 

She responds: "Because he his crazy" 

The word "crazy" means there isn't understanding.

Lol! You are mad at him, is that why you want to get a divorce? I hate him or He cheats...are not the reason why you should go for a divorce rather talk to God and love him the more.

Divorce isn't the solution, here is why...

Read more using the link below;
https://pubsity.com/why-divorce-isnt-an-option