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Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by djon78(m): 1:28pm On Jun 29, 2019
eni4real:
What kind of generation is this for God's sake?? And somebody will pay hefty amount of money as a bride price for that your ex? angry angry
May we not marry all these perverted slay queens... She is even proud of bestiality... lipsrsealed


You never see anything.
This cuts across even the so called ones you call good girls.
Men need to wise up.
A lady her man is not handling very well dare jams a netter lover. Your own done be.

A married woman married as a virgin to an unexposed man, unfortunately and temptation by mistake jam one exposed man.
The woman had multiple mind blowing orgasm which she never had before.
The woman said so na this thing she dey miss.
She left her marriage, that she has been suffering.

Thats why any man marrying, find out what your wife wants and give it to her in abundance. Scatter her head, cheating will mostly be out of question because very many women are exposed today.

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Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Deepfeel(m): 1:29pm On Jun 29, 2019
owila4luv:
alright bro thank you
UWC bro like most women will say having a small pen*s is not the issue but how skilful can you use it

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Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Junkie1: 1:31pm On Jun 29, 2019
lilianofentse:
this isn't a joke. Cmon
WHAT MAKES YOU THINK I'M JOKING?
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by dawud: 1:36pm On Jun 29, 2019
Hyacenth22:
I married my wife 2 years ago, it was all rossy till last year when she had a family issue which was very fatal, we solved it half way so the issues still lingers and bothers her anyway.

Early this year i started noticing lack of sexual urge for me, i practically have to beg her or rather ask for sex was thinking it might be the family issues she was facing, am very faithful to a fault, the issues has lingered on for long now that i have to engage sexual lubricant in other to have sex with her as she is never Hot or sexually stimulated, doesn't miss me or even initiate any form of sexual act with me, does not ask for sex, even during any sex i succeed to imitate she never acts intrested, i just have to stroke till am tired and pull out, she just lay like a dead wood with little or no moan.

This was a lady who was actually always demanding we make love.

I have discussed with her on this issues alot and what seems to be the problem is giving head, when i meet my wife i was very conscious of our sexual orientations as at then MouthAction was something we both agreed to wave off because she complains my dick shocks her and myself never enjoy giving head.

The whole pre intimacy was boiled down to kissing, smooching and fingering which was what normally excites her the most.

She later confessed to me that her female friend talk her into how exciting receiving head seems and after i tried it once she now needs to receive head before she can get Hot, have seen lots of her searched histroy are on lesbian pussy sucking, just last month we both ended up treating an STD she gave me, the last time i tried giving her head she told me i wasn't doing it well, i was lost in thoughts because this was my second time giving her head and i improved as compared to the first time.

Am worried over all these because am begining to think she is cheating on me, the worst nightmare to me is being that any attempt to touch her down there is being resisted and she always says fingering now pains her, it's either i give her head or nothing, i haven't gotten much evidence as to her sleeping around because i haven't done much scoping on her.

Am just confused as i type this because i need clarity and opinions on these how possible can a lady sexual preferences change this fast , if she is actually cheating already is there any good way to find out am just confused.

Please pardon my typos

Bro. employ me as a private detective. i will help you investigate her sexual sanity.
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Nobody: 1:36pm On Jun 29, 2019
djon78:



You never see anything.
This cuts across even the so called ones you call good girls.
Men need to wise up.
A lady her man is not handling very well dare jams a netter lover. Your own done be.

A married woman married as a virgin to an unexposed man, unfortunately and temptation by mistake jam one exposed man.
The woman had multiple mind blowing orgasm which she never had before.
The woman said so na this thing she dey miss.
She left her marriage, that she has been suffering.

Thats why any man marrying, find out what your wife wants and give it to her in abundance. Scatter her head, cheating will mostly be out of question because very many women are exposed today.
If a Virgin wife (married as a virgin) cheat and therefore opt to leave the Marriage. Divorce her. No big deal...

Someone compatible with you will not resort to such infidelity..

Never go beyond your limit to please a woman...

That is why men die early...
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by wellfedwriter(m): 1:47pm On Jun 29, 2019
it's strange you know how to cure your sickness but decide to bring it to the public
1 you're married give her what she needs...is it that hard?
2 if you refuse there are other that will do your job for you...and even better
3 I hope she's not cheating... I pray so.
4 if are in a fix...however give her or she slips away from you to the hands of another woman.


EVEN THE GODS WILL NOT DO FOR US THAT WHICH WE CAN DO FOR OURSELVES

seriously I wish I was in your shoes, I'll be very happy... head's ooo lalakukulala.

PS its my condition for the intimacy aspect 100% headmaster.
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by 77up(m): 2:06pm On Jun 29, 2019
Sorry if it offend you , she's been engaging in lesbianism.



Bitter truth !
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by maybel(m): 2:11pm On Jun 29, 2019
Hyacenth22:
I married my wife 2 years ago, it was all rossy till last year when she had a family issue which was very fatal, we solved it half way so the issues still lingers and bothers her anyway.

Early this year i started noticing lack of sexual urge for me, i practically have to beg her or rather ask for sex was thinking it might be the family issues she was facing, am very faithful to a fault, the issues has lingered on for long now that i have to engage sexual lubricant in other to have sex with her as she is never Hot or sexually stimulated, doesn't miss me or even initiate any form of sexual act with me, does not ask for sex, even during any sex i succeed to imitate she never acts intrested, i just have to stroke till am tired and pull out, she just lay like a dead wood with little or no moan.

This was a lady who was actually always demanding we make love.

I have discussed with her on this issues alot and what seems to be the problem is giving head, when i meet my wife i was very conscious of our sexual orientations as at then MouthAction was something we both agreed to wave off because she complains my dick shocks her and myself never enjoy giving head.

The whole pre intimacy was boiled down to kissing, smooching and fingering which was what normally excites her the most.

She later confessed to me that her female friend talk her into how exciting receiving head seems and after i tried it once she now needs to receive head before she can get Hot, have seen lots of her searched histroy are on lesbian pussy sucking, just last month we both ended up treating an STD she gave me, the last time i tried giving her head she told me i wasn't doing it well, i was lost in thoughts because this was my second time giving her head and i improved as compared to the first time.

Am worried over all these because am begining to think she is cheating on me, the worst nightmare to me is being that any attempt to touch her down there is being resisted and she always says fingering now pains her, it's either i give her head or nothing, i haven't gotten much evidence as to her sleeping around because i haven't done much scoping on her.

Am just confused as i type this because i need clarity and opinions on these how possible can a lady sexual preferences change this fast , if she is actually cheating already is there any good way to find out am just confused.

Please pardon my typos
Honestly, you have written so well. There is no need to pardon your typos
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by daveP(m): 2:17pm On Jun 29, 2019
QueenSekxy:
Oh My!! She's obviously cheating with a woman that gives her the head she needs.
How does she know you weren't doing it well if she has not been receiving it from professionals.

And you said she gave you STD, did you bother asking her where she got that disease From? You need to stop overlooking some things before she gives you a deadly and incurable disease.

The bottom line is that she's a lesbian!!!

Exactly.


Her lesbian partner must have used her phone and together they watched some new ideas they later tried out. She must have forgotten to clear browser history.


Acting unusually cold to a man she is free with might be one key to identifying a lesbian. Dem plenty for universities. But no one bothers until it overshoots. Parents would be most shocked to see their church,mosque geh is a Les. Hmmm

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Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by jeph19(m): 2:25pm On Jun 29, 2019
From your write up and all the comments I've read, it will be very sad and unfortunate for a 2yr old marriage to nose dive.
The only female friend she has has maybe the Lez and may have taught her things beyond your knowledge.
Whatever you can do to salvage your marriage do it.
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Fountainofyouth(f): 2:28pm On Jun 29, 2019
romenna:
google bestiality videos and the search results will leave u wit more imaginations


I wish I didn't Google the videos, I've lost my appetite for today cry

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Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Nobody: 2:32pm On Jun 29, 2019
wait o,this head giving you people are saying up and down,is it putting your mouth down there?ewwww God forbids and to think some guys here actually admit they practice it is so disgusting and makes me want to throw up.imagine putting your mouth and tongue to lick what if I may ask?smh
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Nobody: 2:39pm On Jun 29, 2019
what do you do with your tongue and mouth afterwards?cut them off or what?is the same tongue going back inside your mouth?,ewwwwweeeeewww,you people should stop all this dirty things you called head giving.i am about throwing up already
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by romenna: 2:43pm On Jun 29, 2019
Fountainofyouth:



I wish I didn't Google the videos, I've lost my appetite for today cry
just imagine u didnt watch the videos dear.
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by djon78(m): 2:45pm On Jun 29, 2019
eni4real:
If a Virgin wife (married as a virgin) cheat and therefore opt to leave the Marriage. Divorce her. No big deal...

Someone compatible with you will not resort to such infidelity..

Never go beyond your limit to please a woman...

That is why men die early...


Its not about going beyond limit to please a woman.
You dey talk divorce like you think say it is easy.
You divorce first one, come divorce the second one?

Most times many men are very selfish when it comes to making love to there wife.
They only care about themselves.
They don't care about there partner.


Majority of educated women you see today are very exposed. Even the ones that claim good clean girls. Women are very secretive, they can hide away things.

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Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Nobody: 2:48pm On Jun 29, 2019
Toks2008:


I try to find the problem here but I no see any problem..

Sometimes ladies don't know what they are missing until they try it...now she has realized that fellato is a deal maker for her so give her head recklessly...go get honey and use it to spice up her kini and lick it to stupor...you can Google sex education topics (not porn) on how to give head to your wife....bro nothing sweet pass giving head to your wife o as long as she is clean down there...infact tell her to face sit you so that she can control how she wants it.

Facesitting is when you lie down and she sits her sonething on your mouth while you eat it as she grinds on you.

Forgive my explicit description but you need to really understand that sex is responsible 70% for the growth of any marriage. All the best.
i actually threw up reading this,that means you can eat faeces,i don't wish to know you kos I will practically be seeing you with a shit facial expression,ewww,where does your tongue goes back to afterwards,will you ever eat again?
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by frozen70(f): 2:48pm On Jun 29, 2019
Hyacenth22:
I married my wife 2 years ago, it was all rossy till last year when she had a family issue which was very fatal, we solved it half way so the issues still lingers and bothers her anyway.

Early this year i started noticing lack of sexual urge for me, i practically have to beg her or rather ask for sex was thinking it might be the family issues she was facing, am very faithful to a fault, the issues has lingered on for long now that i have to engage sexual lubricant in other to have sex with her as she is never Hot or sexually stimulated, doesn't miss me or even initiate any form of sexual act with me, does not ask for sex, even during any sex i succeed to imitate she never acts intrested, i just have to stroke till am tired and pull out, she just lay like a dead wood with little or no moan.

This was a lady who was actually always demanding we make love.

I have discussed with her on this issues alot and what seems to be the problem is giving head, when i meet my wife i was very conscious of our sexual orientations as at then MouthAction was something we both agreed to wave off because she complains my dick shocks her and myself never enjoy giving head.

The whole pre intimacy was boiled down to kissing, smooching and fingering which was what normally excites her the most.

She later confessed to me that her female friend talk her into how exciting receiving head seems and after i tried it once she now needs to receive head before she can get Hot, have seen lots of her searched histroy are on lesbian pussy sucking, just last month we both ended up treating an STD she gave me, the last time i tried giving her head she told me i wasn't doing it well, i was lost in thoughts because this was my second time giving her head and i improved as compared to the first time.

Am worried over all these because am begining to think she is cheating on me, the worst nightmare to me is being that any attempt to touch her down there is being resisted and she always says fingering now pains her, it's either i give her head or nothing, i haven't gotten much evidence as to her sleeping around because i haven't done much scoping on her.

Am just confused as i type this because i need clarity and opinions on these how possible can a lady sexual preferences change this fast , if she is actually cheating already is there any good way to find out am just confused.

Please pardon my typos

Just take it easy

Men should pray that their wives will never be opportuned to get another man to do their job better

Stop begging her, leave her and go and find a way to sort your self

The end will justify
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by successity5(m): 2:55pm On Jun 29, 2019
Oga nobi only you she dey with it's obvious
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Newmans: 3:05pm On Jun 29, 2019
Go and chop up and do your work stop complaining.
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by kpolli(m): 3:13pm On Jun 29, 2019
Hyacenth22:
I married my wife 2 years ago, it was all rossy till last year when she had a family issue which was very fatal, we solved it half way so the issues still lingers and bothers her anyway.

Early this year i started noticing lack of sexual urge for me, i practically have to beg her or rather ask for sex was thinking it might be the family issues she was facing, am very faithful to a fault, the issues has lingered on for long now that i have to engage sexual lubricant in other to have sex with her as she is never Hot or sexually stimulated, doesn't miss me or even initiate any form of sexual act with me, does not ask for sex, even during any sex i succeed to imitate she never acts intrested, i just have to stroke till am tired and pull out, she just lay like a dead wood with little or no moan.

This was a lady who was actually always demanding we make love.

I have discussed with her on this issues alot and what seems to be the problem is giving head, when i meet my wife i was very conscious of our sexual orientations as at then MouthAction was something we both agreed to wave off because she complains my dick shocks her and myself never enjoy giving head.

The whole pre intimacy was boiled down to kissing, smooching and fingering which was what normally excites her the most.

She later confessed to me that her female friend talk her into how exciting receiving head seems and after i tried it once she now needs to receive head before she can get Hot, have seen lots of her searched histroy are on lesbian pussy sucking, just last month we both ended up treating an STD she gave me, the last time i tried giving her head she told me i wasn't doing it well, i was lost in thoughts because this was my second time giving her head and i improved as compared to the first time.

Am worried over all these because am begining to think she is cheating on me, the worst nightmare to me is being that any attempt to touch her down there is being resisted and she always says fingering now pains her, it's either i give her head or nothing, i haven't gotten much evidence as to her sleeping around because i haven't done much scoping on her.

Am just confused as i type this because i need clarity and opinions on these how possible can a lady sexual preferences change this fast , if she is actually cheating already is there any good way to find out am just confused.

Please pardon my typos

I have helped you find evidence
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Coolgent(m): 3:16pm On Jun 29, 2019
If u dont have Kids with that Woman just gather enough evidence to divorce her!
I was dating one beautifyl Gal around 2012, I noticed that she dont used to meet me with her Phone whenever we have rendezvour been a smart dude I decided to stole her facebook login details; Behold she gave her Phone number and home address to about 40 guys!
Second encounter; I met another Gal later to my dismay she behave like a Lesbian, one night konji was tomenting me I decided to meet her; while romancing her she just stood up "U know I will write an exam tomorrow, pls take me to Mrs A house i must collect my textbook"
Been a sharp Guy I immediately put earpiece to her phone and changed the setting to AUTOMATIC ANSWER WHILE EARPIECE IS CONNECTED! And put it in silent mood too.
I was just praying she will not remove the earpiece after she call the so call MRS A, well to long story short...
I called her number 5mins after I drove her there after 3mins of hearing nothing i began to hear moaning and all sort of disgusting cry!

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Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by annford: 3:17pm On Jun 29, 2019
osato45:
is it possible that two females grinding their pussy together during the act can transmitt std to the other lady?


YES! when two women are scissoring, there's an exchange of fluids from their Jerichos. Fluids are where bacteria and viruses thrive.
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Toks2008(m): 3:19pm On Jun 29, 2019
peepydelano:
i actually threw up reading this,that means you can eat faeces,i don't wish to know you kos I will practically be seeing you with a shit facial expression,ewww,where does your tongue goes back to afterwards,will you ever eat again?

You go soon throw in...

Any man that can't eat his wife's should just cover his head in shame...and I pity that woman cos she dey miss.

Unlike what many guys think...it is a very sweet experience and your wife will LOVE you more for it....
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Nobody: 3:34pm On Jun 29, 2019
Toks2008:


You go soon throw in...

Any man that can't eat his wife's should just cover his head in shame...and I pity that woman cos she dey miss.

Unlike what many guys think...it is a very sweet experience and your wife will LOVE you more for it....

stop already,what is sweet in that shit ewwww,you need to see my facial expression now even though I can't see you.stop it if you do it,its so disgusting and very dirty
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by fortunechy(m): 3:38pm On Jun 29, 2019
From her search history the question is answered..... ur wife is a lesbian.period!!!
just begin to monitor her movements and her female friends she keep
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by seuncyrus(m): 3:38pm On Jun 29, 2019
romenna:

I had an ex who opened up to me that their male dog at home gives her head n bleeps her once in a while n she enjoys it cos dogs know how to suck ass n pussy very well.

Haba bros , na wa oh tongue ... small small na grin grin grin
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by shilz(f): 3:42pm On Jun 29, 2019
Hyacenth22:

I have my suspense bro but what confuses is she is not active on social media, whatsapp and the likes, she is after her looks, she dosent hide her phone, i know her password, she still shows me this care and give me but i beg for her time and attention, she has only a female friend i know off and that's the one who told her how good oral was according to her, can i woman be cheating with out being secretive with her phones, and extra mindful on her looks
IF she is cheating with a woman,that way you will never suspect.
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by sulasa07(m): 4:01pm On Jun 29, 2019
QueenSekxy:
Oh My!! She's obviously cheating with a woman that gives her the head she needs.
How does she know you weren't doing it well if she has not been receiving it from professionals.

And you said she gave you STD, did you bother asking her where she got that disease From? You need to stop overlooking some things before she gives you a deadly and incurable disease.

The bottom line is that she's a lesbian!!!
Detective Sherlock Holmes.
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by TruthSpeaker: 4:11pm On Jun 29, 2019
Young man, it seems your wife is the bread winner of the family. She seems to be bisexual from what I can insinuate from your story. I think it is time to get a side chick to get your sexual desire satisfied. For someone to complain you are not doing it well, it means she has gotten or is still getting a better experience elsewhere.
Some woman can really be boring in the bed, and yet demand for sex when you are not giving it to them. In your own case, she is boring and doesn’t seem to like having sex with you. It is not abnormal for your wife not to be your best sex partner. There are so many women out there needing sex partners, don’t let this one tie you down with her trash. If you don’t cheat on her and you pick up a STI/STD from her, then she is obviously cheating on you.
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Toks2008(m): 4:17pm On Jun 29, 2019
peepydelano:
stop already,what is sweet in that shit ewwww,you need to see my facial expression now even though I can't see you.stop it if you do it,its so disgusting and very dirty

Nah my face be this...oya come and beat me.
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Nobody: 4:22pm On Jun 29, 2019
Toks2008:


Nah my face be this...oya come and beat me.
As good looking as you are,why do dirty.Stop it,its a disgusting act,stop giving head abi tongue
Re: Sex Is Causing Problems In My Marriage, Help Me Save My Marriage by Ebendo123(m): 4:24pm On Jun 29, 2019
QueenSekxy:
Oh My!! She's obviously cheating with a woman that gives her the head she needs.
How does she know you weren't doing it well if she has not been receiving it from professionals.

And you said she gave you STD, did you bother asking her where she got that disease From? You need to stop overlooking some things before she gives you a deadly and incurable disease.

The bottom line is that she's a lesbian!!!
Babe u r on point!

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