In the wake of Busola Dakolo's rape allegation against COZA pastor, Biodun Fatoyinbo, writer, Yetunde Oduwole has taken to her Instagram page to recount how being a virgin saved her from getting raped.

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RAPE. Ask me about it. I have smelt it. I was at its brink! You might not know the brain torture and the emotional damage it does to the victims, well, I do!

On the fateful day, I laid down helpless & waited for the worst. I had been battered for attempting to fight back. My clothes had been pulled and soaked in a bucket of water. I had to surrender. I couldn’t over-power the predator. I was 18. I was a virgin. I must have screamed ‘Please don’t hurt me! I beg you in the name of God! I’m a virgin! I have never done this before!” a million times. I kept screaming that until my mouth could utter no more words. As he pulled down his trousers and made to thrust his member inside of me, I screamed with what seemed like my last breath. “Please don’t do this to me! I am a virgin...I am a virgin....” my voice was now cracked and faint.

He proceeded to thrust but couldn’t go through. “So you are actually a virgin? I thought you were lying!” I nodded to affirm. He got up. “I will dry up your clothes so you could leave. I hate virgins!” A divine intervention?? I couldn’t believe my luck!! “But....” he continued, “You would have to make me cum. If you don’t know how to do that, I will teach you” I hate to recall how the bastard went about that. I was bruised and torn. It took me several years to learn that sex could be enjoyed, and not a weapon.

Seems predators always leave scary warnings in the end. He warned me never to tell anyone what happened. He threatened fire and hell if I did. I agreed I wouldn’t, and I ended up not telling a soul....until many years after.

I shuddered and shivered for several years anytime I remembered. It was such a gory episode to recall. It takes strength to recount it. It’s not an easy tale to tell, especially in an African setting where people judge you, blame you for letting it happen to you, and even ask you for evidence!

Thank you Busola Dakolo for helping me bring this out of my innermost. This is like a renewal to most victims. And hey, your truth is yours. It may not be their truth, but it is yours, and it glitters! Continue to own that truth. I stand with you. I stand with justice #istandwithbusoladakolo

See more here; http://gistmore.com/nigerian-writer-recounts-how-being-a-virgin-saved-her-from-been-raped

Even Oloshos will come out to say how they are being raped everyday in their Olosho business house.
Carry your long epistle and go to the left Biko. Go to Court if you have anything reasonable to say.

Who is the guy? Where was it? Everyone is trying to hit FP of newspaper. Ndi Ara.

Super Story 2019 edition has fully started

The only topic on Nairaland now na about Timi Dakolo wife and COZA pastor, is there no other topic ni.

Even Oloshos are claiming been raped.

Nothing Musa no go see for gate!!

Lalasticlala

All this rape brouhaha would be over in few hours time as we kick off BBN..

Abi no be naija we dey ni

The New Sperm Killer

The gods must hear this

Wetin we no go hear about this rape issue now

All these people coming out to say all sort of things now were you people on sabbatical before.

Chai wahala today; I don tire to dey comment

Don't worry, Pastor Biodun. Help is on the way. BBNaija is starting tomorrow.

All those that were busy giving their boyfriends in secondary school for free will now come out and talk about how they were raped.

Busola was raped in 1999. As at 2010 or so she was choirmistess in the same church. This story no dey gel again abeg

I'm literally tired of the word Rape , abeg buhari should open a National Rape Center with emergency number to deal with all this stories jare..


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Hmm everybody now bringing old lies because of on true got support

You were not raped because u are lucky don't think you are smart...

You were lucky. A friend of mine was raped just because the guy wanted to confirm if truly she was a virgin in an inebriated state

May God save Nigeria at this time. Everyone is singing rape while the President is bringing the killer herdsmen closer to us.

Everybody will be spilling both fake and original Rape stories now... issokay!

I'm in my mid 30s and I'm just getting to know how handy Krest is...

Thank God I never reach 40,I for be fool 4ever

After this BBN will come and distract is from the fact that there's a thing Buhari termed RUGA that we all should be worried about..

Joromi12:
Busola was raped in 1999. As at 2010 or so she was choirmistess in the same church. This story no dey gel again abeg

My question is why is she still attending the church even after the incident..

Hope she's not stylishly and subtly mocking the other babe for not being a virgin?

Dear girls, I know it's not easy due to the shame and stigma but please report any known Rapist.

Involve the police. They will not kill you. Rather it'll help curb and curtail their nefarious activities.

Keeping it quiet only emboldens them to do more and more.

Save the next innocent girl

Do you want them to discuss your parents

Remimadrid:
The only topic on Nairaland now na about Timi Dakolo wife and COZA pastor, is there no other topic ni.