Breaking News!!!
If you are dating someone, try and find out how that person was raised.Alot of people was not raised on Love... They were raised on "SURVIVAL" and that is why you see many men and women not being able to love properly.(HURT PEOPLE END UP HURTING PEOPLE).
You will find a lot of good looking People damaged inside because of their past and you will not realize how damaged they are until you try and love them.Many People are mentally and psychologically destroyed and they are incapable of loving or being loved.Every attempt at loving them hits a brick wall.
However,If you think a person's past does not affect how they see life then brother Idowu, Sister Afulenu, you are sadly mistaken!
Umunnem na Ummunnam, bikonu, you have to know that understanding is key in every relationship... Before you start loving from the moon and back,try to understand him because when you bond,your sense of judgement will be beclouded by your emotions...
Emotions are powerful and everything depends on it... I have just given you a gift and only Lovers of truth will understand this and apply it...They use to say that knowledge is power and yes to some extent it is but applied knowledge is omnipotent.
You should actually give me a gift for this...
You are appreciated and remain blessed...
I remain your humble servant!
Evangelist AMAKA OFORBUIKE!!!

Your upbringing is just one aspect, then you have her past relationship, her sanity, her level of common sense, or simply the reason she is even in a r/ship with you.

Even people who were loved as they grew up, can turn into demons in a r/ship.