The frustration of being unemployed for about 1 year is beginning to hit me. As a young man committed to excellence in life and Godliness, a sentence that best describes my predicament now is "Life is not smiling". I think more starting is knowing the huge responsibility hanging on my neck, many mouths to feed, helping my family and mother be financially okay combined with my desire to live the good life and be a blessing to humanity.

All of these was what inspired me to finish amongst the top of my class during undergrad days and work so hard during NYSC so i cld live up to my expectations. With no father and rich but unwilling extended family members the burden is begginning to weigh me down. I am a man who wld prefer to spend my idle time reading, learning a differnet language, learning a trade , just making sure every 24 hrs i am going to bed a better person who has learnt something new. But My idleness has lead me to many things i am not proud of, like nagging my very own family, masturbation, pornography, loneliness and so many. I am not happy about all these but just maybe if i had the finance i wld hav spent it doing more productive things before that job or business clicks.

I really do need some advice cause alot depends on me and i can't afford to fail. I hear stories of people idle and jobless for years maybe 5,7, 10 years. If u are reading this and u are in this category, my guy u deserve a Nobel prize. cause i can't even think about it. So fellow nairalander's what do u advice? am i alone? or should i just 4get about my big dreams and live my life whichever way it goes? Thank u in anticipation for your advice, pls don't dull me.

You mentioned being on top of your class, have you thought of teaching.

Yea,even if its a secondary sch,then opportunity might come from der

There are so many opportunities out there like teaching, sales boy, okada riding. E.t.c now that you are talking of first, are you sure you can do work of 10k a month. My advise to you is carry okada begin ride and wait for that good job, surely it will but it may take time

Why don't you find a rich girl and marry . . . isn't that you guys' specialty these days!

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^^^ Wow . . . That's deep!

I'm really sorry about your case but have to ask, what kind of disability do you have and why can't you get a job