Gods message is not to condemn but to recover you..take it in good faith..
(1) there is abomination of Divorce and Remarriage in the church...(malachi2vs 16)...

Have you not rejected your husband /wife in your heart,though you still physically live with him/her..?,are You not wishing it was possible to marry another person because right inside your mind you are fed up with him / her??,you've been married for so many years but are you still interested in the marriage?.as long as you have this kind of mind, God counts you as a divorcée. You Have divorced her/him in your mind and in the eyes of God you're a divorcee..
In Luke 19 vs 1, by the time zacheaus spoke to JESUS, he hadn't PHYSICALLY as of yet, distributed his goods to the poor, but Christ knew that his mind was set to it and that he had already done it in his mind,hence Christ granted him salvation....
Check your heart today....are you still in love with your wife /husband..,you may not have filed the paperwork physically in the court, but the court of heaven( which is the ultimate) has already found you guilty..
Tell God you're sorry

Up next: The abomination of the possessed of Devils' serving in the sanctuary..