Yesterday, on Christmas Eve, a 15 year old girl from London committed suicide. A local paper published her suicide note – with the acquiescence of her family.

Its Christmas-time, and studies show most suicides take place during the Christmas holiday season.

If you’re a parent of a teenager, read the note – and take heed:


[b]Dear Mom,

It’s with a heavy heart that I write you this note, knowing the amount of pain it is going to cause you.

Mom, I want you to know that I love you dearly and will ever love you. If I am given the opportunity to live again I will still choose you as my mom and our family will still be my place of birth.

But unfortunately, I know that there is not going to be any such opportunity.

Mom, I didn’t want to do this, but I was compelled by circumstances beyond my control to take the plunge.

I tried my best to pull through, but my best was not good enough. I battled alone for about thirteen months now until my strength failed me.

You and dad could not decipher what I was going through and maybe I should not blame you for that.

My one and only brother came very close to understanding what I was passing through but it was too much for his young mind to comprehend.

Mom, I know that you and dad loved me and did everything you could to prove that to me but I was not feeling loved.

You provided for me more than I even wanted, took me to places that most of my mates have not even heard of, yet despite all these, my heart was longing for love.

I needed someone who would love me for who I was. I needed someone who could reach the depth of my soul and feel the vacuum there.

The material provisions you spoiled me with could not do that. And I was alone all the while, despite the fact that we laughed together and had gist as a family.

Then came the last straw that broke the camel’s back.

Your brother, Uncle Tony who came to live with us, made me believe that he knew exactly what my soul was longing for – companionship.

He chose to stay with me when you and dad were too busy to notice my loneliness.

He tried to keep me company when I needed someone to talk to but had only gadgets and teddy bears as my company. I was fooled to trust him and he hacked into my foolishness. And he did it perfectly and deeply.

Mom, your brother raped me and used me as a intimacy gadget for three whole years. I expected you or dad to notice but none of you did.

When he left our house last year I was shattered because I have grown to fill the void of your presence with his dirty deeds. I couldn’t complain because I was afraid to lose him, but when he eventually left for Canada the magnitude of the emptiness in me became too heavy for me to carry.

I struggled to forget those experiences but I could not. My grades dropped in school and you and dad quickly arranged for a home lesson teacher.

Mom, that singular act instead of helping me fueled what is about to happen to me a few minutes from now.

The home lesson teacher you brought so much reminded me of Uncle Tony and, on several occasions, I felt like grabbing him and making him fill the gap that Tony’s absence created in me.

Mom, I had to do this because I was lonely. Did you ever imagine what I was doing in my room all the time I stayed there alone? Couldn’t you for once have gone out of your way to just spend some time with me so that we could talk?

There are many things I would have liked to tell you but I don’t want to add to your pain so let those other torments be buried with this undignified body of mine.

Please make sure that my brother David doesn’t get to the point where I am now.

Also, tell your friends and colleagues who have children to find out what is happening with beloved kids before it gets too late.

Many of the things parents do in the name of showing love are not what we the younger ones need.

I would have gone, long hours before you will get to read this note.

But one cheering thing is that David is still there with you. Transfer the love you had for me to him.

My bank details and the passwords to my phones and laptops are all in the piece of paper I dropped in the drawer of your dressing table.

I miss you and it pains to empty the content of this bottle in my hand into my mouth but I am constrained to do it all the same.

Tell dad and David that I love them. Tell our pastor that I will miss his sermons and long prayers. Tell my friends not to envy me.

Goodbye mom.
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Source: https://mused.xyz/uncategorized/15-yr-old-girl-leaves-this-heartbreaking-suicide-note-parents-must-read/

I hope that Uncle is found and trialed for manslaughter.

And u, OP, read the "suicide" note abi? After u go tell us say u be graduate of uni, yet to even support common back-of-beer parlor story with simple proof, u no fit. Come tell us how u take derive formula for school. No go find better work do. Foolish sombody

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believe this at your own peril

This is really sad. It happens everyday and every where, to girls, boys, women, men and even children. This happened to a girl from a comfortable home in an organized society. Now, imagine this happening to a girl from a poor home in a crazy country like Nigeria. Having so many slay queens, drug addicts and suicide did not come upon us by chance, it comes from unwittingly ignoring the signs of depression we see in our loved ones when we still have the chance to help them and show love. Worse still, predators abound, lurking in every corner and waiting to pounce. You should know these predators are very intelligent people that can sense their opportunity from miles away like this girl's uncle. More people have that huge void in their heart than can be imagined. Just like Celine Dion says in 'Don't save it all for Christmas day', we have to learn to give love every blessed moment. RIP to the girl.
That is if story is real and not bloggers' fantasy. The op should put source or link for us to believe the story.

What does this generation really want

You want to settle to be a full house wife so you can take care of your kids,the men calls you lazy and other dirty stuff.

You finally find something to do,even your children hates you for it because according to them you ain’t showing them enough love.

That girl is ungrateful and selfish,if she really loved her mom,she would put herself in her mom shoes that she has to support daddy to provide for the family,They’re not superhumans to read her thoughts.

I went through this and I understood my mom had to work so as to provide us with basic amenities,I had a lot of stupid big uncles trying to chike me but I refused and told my mom about it immediately,I didn’t wait for her to come and ask me.

You have committed suicide na?Your mom will have better kids that will stay with her in her old age
Omoburuku,lo jona ninu orun apadi

Fake story