Good evening all,
Please I need your advice on this issue at hand, I'm totally confuse and don't even know who or what to do right now. The story begins like this...
During my NYSC I came across a girl, my sister's friend and she's from my town also.
I dated this girl for four (4) solid years... We both loved each others very much, we were both very crazily in love with each others. We started dating far back late 2015 during her 100L in the university. She's was a girl loved by all, my family loved her so much as well as her family to me too, I thought everything in this relationship was all going to be rosy, she was this kind of person I could vow for, I hardly trust in relationship but for her, she was so exceptionally different.
I began to notice many changes after our 2 years of relationship, she started covering up some issues, lies and others, her attitude began to change, and I never stopped asking if there was anyway I'm being rude, wicked or otherwise to her, but her reply will always be.. I am fine.
We were separated by distance.. Though I always ensure she comes visiting in 2 to 3 months. I trusted her and never believed she could even cheat... (Remember I said I can even vow to defend her that she can't cheat... That was the level of love and trust I had for her).
Now to brief my story, Last year around June 2019 I invited her over as usual. But to my greatest surprise what I saw in her phone almost caused me a heart attack. Now to be fair a little, I canceled her trip back home to to hold her for some questioning.. Immediately I got home, she quickly deleted all her inbox sms and changed her sim card. After a while at the middle of the night, I woke her up to ask her who the person was and behold it was someone I and take to be her spiritual father, though she denied nothing happened between them that it wasn't the spiritual father but the brother we argued and quarrel and it lead to our breakup. After the breakup, you need to hear my life history from this girl, she insulted me, cursed me and told me alot of things that even made me regret why I made the mistake at first.
I never ever believed this same girl will come back begging me after some months. She has been begging me and even with her friend and relatives, and currently threatening to kill herself if I don't accept her back. The problem now is that I already got another girlfriend who is also not willing to share, I can't just dump her just like that. She's too innocent for that wicked act. I really don't know if she's serious or not but I don't just want someone to go and commit suicide and put the blame on me. Please I am short of thinking, I don't even know if I still love her or not. Pls your advice will go a long way. Thank you.

You dont know if you still love her? bro stop na. U obviously dont. Dont even contemplate!

Meanwhile I can compose a suicide note for her

First of all, we can't read the chat , so we can't judge.

Second, she insulted you and your very existence , Good move kicking her ass out. Good riddance!

Third, she wants you back?!. Question is, do you want her back?. I mean you have moved on and all so ooo, you decide.

So her ultimatum is, if you don't take her back she commits suicide? . Thats outrightly manipulative and the lowest form of blackmail which you should resist.

Report her to police, pay police 10k (so they'll be active) and dissociate yourself from her incoming suicide, you have broken up haven't you? Seems she did not respect the 4 years relationship you have, if she did she wouldn't subject you to humiliation like that.

And u wrote this story looking for advice, don't worry advisers are coming

The relationship was over the day you asked another girl out. Don't worry she won't kill herself and if she does you can't be legally probed....

Urmmm... I know how to compose suicide notes ranging from 1 paged to long notes.. All u need is to gimme her family history and tell me when she intends to die and of course my money.