What will you do as a man if your own mother tried hard to fustrate and destroy your home. Matured answers will be appreciated.

WTF
If I see that what she's frustrating me on is not worth it, I'll disown myself from her alone

i go follow her with wisdom...but,if she stop..i will have no other choice than to draw d line.

I will help her destroy it, my mum will forever wants the best for me


If na advice u need, give us enough information den we go help u with advice with regards to ur mother

Stoopid question!!

C'mon will you get out of here!!

olawalepopoola:
What will you do as a man if your own mother tried hard to fustrate and destroy your home. Matured answers will be appreciated.

She is doing this because you are giving her audience. Your home comes first and no one will ask you the role of your mom in your home. Stamp your feet on your expectations and if she can't abide by it, restrict her from coming to your house. Maintain all necessary communication and respect her. Keep the mother-son bond strong and firm but outside of your immediate family. She has lived her life, raised her family, and now you have to raise yours.

olawalepopoola:
What will you do as a man if your own mother tried hard to fustrate and destroy your home. Matured answers will be appreciated.

No mother will be glad to do that to her son, unless she belongs to another world

Just keep managing her with her wahala and manage wife tok with her own way of perceiving the show

You can't and can never throw away your mother, unless you are very sure she is the one behind your failure with prove

The op seems female, I don't think a man would talk this way.

You give her space but still take care of her

GboyegaD:


She is doing this because you are giving her audience. Your home comes first and no one will ask you the role of your mom in your home. Stamp your feet on your expectations and if she can't abide by it, restrict her from coming to your house. Maintain all necessary communication and respect her. Keep the mother-son bond strong and firm but outside of your immediate family. She has lived her life, raised her family, and now you have to raise yours.

Words on marble

ImaIma1:


Words on marble

Unfortunately, many of us are raised as babies and do not know we have our lives to live at some point.

Give the context with examples and explain your question. Then you can expect real answers.

GboyegaD:


Unfortunately, many of us are raised as babies and do not know we have our lives to live at some point.

Yeah. And still believe mummy needs to guide their every move. Men do better though. It's the boys that have refused to grow up that are the problem.

ImaIma1:


Yeah. And still believe mummy needs to guide their every move. Men do better though. It's the boys that have refused to grow up that are the problem.

I feel it is both ways though. Both men and women need to learn to leave their mom's apron strings the day they get married and know they have a new life. Most times, if the man is man enough, he can help the lady outgrow it but unfortunately, it isn't so vice versa.

Some women are like that. The jealousy they harbour against the wife will make them try all they can to destroy the home and some end up destroying their sons in the process.

Like someone said, it is your duty to draw the line as the man of the house. Give her herr due respect and protect your wife and children.