Hi Nlanders,..
I am seriously concerned about what I am about sharing with you guys and openly asking for

Note: We are comfortable.... I have my Personal apartment with no distraction

Time to invite the elders. I'm too young to handle this.

mrsage:
Time to invite the elders. I'm too young to handle this.

hahahah help me invite them o

Calm down bro... U still afraid of sex maybe cos of myths uv heard abt it from ur parents or guardians .. Besides u are doing it with someone who's in charge of the whole exercise since u still be learner..

Waiting for those that know better

OP, your problem is tied to psychological factors.

You mistook sex as a gymnastic exercise, so you practice it with lots of energy without minding the chemistry associated with it.

You have to develop internal feelings before you start. At the moment, it's your partner that's enjoying everything because of your excessive stamina.

Follow-up with a visit to the gaene for better treatment.

Authoreety:
Calm down bro... U still afraid of sex maybe cos of myths uv heard abt it from ur parents or guardians .. Besides u are doing it with someone who's in charge of the whole exercise since u still be learner..

Waiting for those that know better

Learner after s*x in a different occasions?
.
. Must I use my whole lifetime for sex before I become good at it?

CYBERWEAVER:
Hi Nlanders,..
I am seriously concerned about what I am about sharing with you guys and openly asking for solutions.
I am a young man in my early 20s with no friends to share my experience with but Nairaland lol, I went into a relationship about six months ago with a lady I really loved, she wasn't a virgin while I was though she aged me with about 3 years differences, down the line I decided to taste the forbidden fruit which we both agreed, I believe she was even eager!
The first time we had intercourse it was kind of stressful stuff for me.
Second, third, forth time it was still same experience for me but she's really enjoying that stuff because by the way she really act and lot more...
But for me sex is a kind of job as I don't really enjoy as people do claim it's fantastic on Nairaland and other platforms, though I last long on that but most times I do end up not cuming after at least 35-45mins of intercourse.
So, I am asking what exactly is wrong and is there anyone with same experience should share solutions.
I did 8 times cum just 3 times which is a terrible thing.
Sorry for typos

You just started and you already gone eight times before day break

You are harming yourself

Why not take it easy so that you can enjoy sex

Unfortunately for you, you are having it with an experience and randy person

It's not just working out

You could have looked for a learner like you and both of you will start the training together

Anyway, pls you are still young to over do yourself, consider your heart

One round should be OK for you and if your woman is always randy leave her to ho and look for her type she knows them

I advise once in two three days and one round at anytime you are having it

It's a gradual thing for you as a biginer

Sex is overrated!!!!

I beg to differ.
Something is terribly wrong with this generation; there was a time sex (even in marriage) was a discreet topic. Now, even fornicators are mega bold to broadcast what goes on behind closed doors.
Religion apart, we've indeed lost values&it's such a pity.
I care less though; let d 'judgina', 'he who is without sin', etc crew come for me but palliation of sin is a no-no for me.

mignone:
I beg to differ.
Something is terribly wrong with this generation; there was a time sex (even in marriage) was a discreet topic. Now, even fornicators are mega bold to broadcast what goes on behind closed doors.
Religion apart, we've indeed lost values&it's such a pity.
I care less though; let d 'judgina', 'he who is without sin', etc crew come for me but palliation of sin is a no-no for me.

Maybe you wrote this after giving a B &. J

fabiano09:

Maybe you wrote this after giving a B &. J

Whatever u think doesn't count sir. The truth remains d truth!

mignone:
Whatever u think doesn't count sir. The truth remains d truth!

insult with a touch of class. Touchè