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13 Lessons People Learn Too Late In Life by EzeJustme(m): 7:18am On Apr 13, 2020
There are a lot of things people learn too late in life, here I have got 13 lessons which you should know as early as possible in your life. These 13 lessons, I have learned from my experience:

1. Try to meet and introduce yourself to as many women/men as possible in your younger years. Start conversations with people you find interesting. It will boost your self-confidence and increase your chances of finding the right partner for you. Don’t be worried about being rejected. Always start with a smile when introducing yourself.
2. Life is not fair. Some people are born with bad genetics and will have an experience full of diseases and illnesses. Some people are born with a distorted face, which will lead to much rejection when the kid gets to high school. What I have not learned is that you must accept yourself the way you are. Somethings can’t be changed, and if you can, please do so instead of allowing your destiny.
3. Use your younger years to try out your ideas because you can afford to fail and still have a home to go.
4. Find out your passion as early as possible, figure out things you love doing the most, and would like to do for your rest of life.

5. Try to read books daily, which will increase your knowledge and make you mentally sharp.
6. Do exercise at least three times a week.
7. Stop eating high-fat food, high sugar products, and processed meat weekly or daily. You may get away with it in your 20s, but soon enough, it will catch up with you. Start now. Eat fruits and veggies daily and try moderating meat products in your diet. Getting terminal disease sucks. You don’t want that.
8. If you are wealthy, please don’t reveal this to your girlfriend when the relationship is new. (for men) you can even fake that you are broke to see her reaction. It is essential as you will know if she loves you for you or what will ever happen if you do lose almost everything in a bad business deal.
9. Learn to say no to things. Say no to unprotected sex because it takes a few minutes of pleasure to be a parent. You don’t want to get a child in your early years with the wrong person.
10. Marry someone you find physically attractive. I cannot stress this enough. Don’t marry someone in a hurry because other people are doing so or because you feel very lonely. Ensure you marry someone you cannot live without him/her.
11. Marry someone who finds you surprising. Someone who “worships” you in little ways and admires you from time to time. Someone who not only says they love you but makes enough effort to spend time with you.
12. Lift weights in your early years. You not only become more substantial, but you will look great in your 30s and 40s. You will be getting compliments here and there, and you will feel good about yourself.
13. I wish I took more pictures in my younger years. Now is when I realize how important photos are. Please take pictures with your loved ones as often as possible. Thirty years later, you will get a sense of fulfillment showing your children or grandchildren how much fun you had back then.
These were 13 Lessons hope you read and learn and ready to implement in your life. Good luck

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Re: 13 Lessons People Learn Too Late In Life by Papertrails(m): 7:50am On Apr 13, 2020
Wow nice one op,
No 2 reminds me of how they always called me bighead grin, back in secondary school then I always felt bad but at some point I had to deal with the situation and rather than feeling bad I decided to build my body structure so as to match with my head lol......and what I hear more this days is more of a compliment bigman lol

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Re: 13 Lessons People Learn Too Late In Life by dazzlingd(m): 8:34am On Apr 13, 2020
Well written,well understood.

Thank you op

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Re: 13 Lessons People Learn Too Late In Life by Degrezhaa: 8:49am On Apr 13, 2020
Nice one Op
Re: 13 Lessons People Learn Too Late In Life by ise82(m): 9:37am On Apr 13, 2020
Interesting read!

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Re: 13 Lessons People Learn Too Late In Life by PrinxArthur1(m): 9:44am On Apr 13, 2020
Think I love your post wink

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Re: 13 Lessons People Learn Too Late In Life by dynicks(m): 9:44am On Apr 13, 2020
grin
Re: 13 Lessons People Learn Too Late In Life by abumeinben(m): 9:47am On Apr 13, 2020
That book thing and snapping pishors. Wetin dey worray me sef.?

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Re: 13 Lessons People Learn Too Late In Life by kalufelix(m): 10:23am On Apr 13, 2020
Sense making...
Re: 13 Lessons People Learn Too Late In Life by johnkey: 10:24am On Apr 13, 2020
Sorry but some of us don't want partners, just riches!
Re: 13 Lessons People Learn Too Late In Life by Clonus: 10:38am On Apr 13, 2020
Nice one
Re: 13 Lessons People Learn Too Late In Life by Nobody: 10:52am On Apr 13, 2020
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Kindly quote me if interested . thanks
Re: 13 Lessons People Learn Too Late In Life by Bamz(m): 10:59am On Apr 13, 2020
If I may add, never get complacent in any position that you're at in life.

Complacency has led to the downfall of dominant empires. Always think that everything is transient and that you need to always put in consistent hardwork. If it were easy, everyone would be great.

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Re: 13 Lessons People Learn Too Late In Life by Sanni45(m): 11:06am On Apr 13, 2020
I must say, this is insightful. Kudos Op
Re: 13 Lessons People Learn Too Late In Life by Mharthings(m): 11:12am On Apr 13, 2020
The best content I saw today, and probably will ever see this week. Because when romance section contents starts... kiss

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Re: 13 Lessons People Learn Too Late In Life by lebron7(m): 11:36am On Apr 13, 2020
EzeJustme:
There are a lot of things people learn too late in life, here I have got 13 lessons which you should know as early as possible in your life. These 13 lessons, I have learned from my experience:

1. Try to meet and introduce yourself to as many women/men as possible in your younger years. Start conversations with people you find interesting. It will boost your self-confidence and increase your chances of finding the right partner for you. Don’t be worried about being rejected. Always start with a smile when introducing yourself.
2. Life is not fair. Some people are born with bad genetics and will have an experience full of diseases and illnesses. Some people are born with a distorted face, which will lead to much rejection when the kid gets to high school. What I have not learned is that you must accept yourself the way you are. Somethings can’t be changed, and if you can, please do so instead of allowing your destiny.
3. Use your younger years to try out your ideas because you can afford to fail and still have a home to go.
4. Find out your passion as early as possible, figure out things you love doing the most, and would like to do for your rest of life.

5. Try to read books daily, which will increase your knowledge and make you mentally sharp.
6. Do exercise at least three times a week.
7. Stop eating high-fat food, high sugar products, and processed meat weekly or daily. You may get away with it in your 20s, but soon enough, it will catch up with you. Start now. Eat fruits and veggies daily and try moderating meat products in your diet. Getting terminal disease sucks. You don’t want that.
8. If you are wealthy, please don’t reveal this to your girlfriend when the relationship is new. (for men) you can even fake that you are broke to see her reaction. It is essential as you will know if she loves you for you or what will ever happen if you do lose almost everything in a bad business deal.
9. Learn to say no to things. Say no to unprotected sex because it takes a few minutes of pleasure to be a parent. You don’t want to get a child in your early years with the wrong person.
10. Marry someone you find physically attractive. I cannot stress this enough. Don’t marry someone in a hurry because other people are doing so or because you feel very lonely. Ensure you marry someone you cannot live without him/her.
11. Marry someone who finds you surprising. Someone who “worships” you in little ways and admires you from time to time. Someone who not only says they love you but makes enough effort to spend time with you.
12. Lift weights in your early years. You not only become more substantial, but you will look great in your 30s and 40s. You will be getting compliments here and there, and you will feel good about yourself.
13. I wish I took more pictures in my younger years. Now is when I realize how important photos are. Please take pictures with your loved ones as often as possible. Thirty years later, you will get a sense of fulfillment showing your children or grandchildren how much fun you had back then.
These were 13 Lessons hope you read and learn and ready to implement in your life. Good luck
You got this from quora, why did you not acknowledge the original writer

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Re: 13 Lessons People Learn Too Late In Life by Failure44: 12:49pm On Apr 13, 2020
lebron7:

You got this from quora, why did you not acknowledge the original writer
Must you quote the OP?
This should be added to the list
Stop quoting long threads!!!
Re: 13 Lessons People Learn Too Late In Life by trueking: 1:50pm On Apr 13, 2020
Bamz:
If I may add, never get complacent in any position that you're at in life.

Complacency has led to the downfall of dominant empires. Always think that everything is transient and that you need to always put in consistent hardwork. If it were easy, everyone would be great.
Complacency is more dangerous than most people realize
Re: 13 Lessons People Learn Too Late In Life by Nobody: 1:57pm On Apr 13, 2020
Papertrails:
Wow nice one op,
No 2 reminds me of how they always called me bighead grin, back in secondary school then I always felt bad but at some point I had to deal with the situation and rather than feeling bad I decided to build my body structure so as to match with my head lol......and what I hear more this days is more of a compliment bigman lol
So u were the head boy in school.. sad
Re: 13 Lessons People Learn Too Late In Life by ednut1(m): 2:01pm On Apr 13, 2020
Bamz:
If I may add, never get complacent in any position that you're at in life.

Complacency has led to the downfall of dominant empires. Always think that everything is transient and that you need to always put in consistent hardwork. If it were easy, everyone would be great.
bintin laye
Re: 13 Lessons People Learn Too Late In Life by peace0813(f): 2:11pm On Apr 13, 2020
EzeJustme:
There are a lot of things people learn too late in life, here I have got 13 lessons which you should know as early as possible in your life. These 13 lessons, I have learned from my experience:

1. Try to meet and introduce yourself to as many women/men as possible in your younger years. Start conversations with people you find interesting. It will boost your self-confidence and increase your chances of finding the right partner for you. Don’t be worried about being rejected. Always start with a smile when introducing yourself.
2. Life is not fair. Some people are born with bad genetics and will have an experience full of diseases and illnesses. Some people are born with a distorted face, which will lead to much rejection when the kid gets to high school. What I have not learned is that you must accept yourself the way you are. Somethings can’t be changed, and if you can, please do so instead of allowing your destiny.
3. Use your younger years to try out your ideas because you can afford to fail and still have a home to go.
4. Find out your passion as early as possible, figure out things you love doing the most, and would like to do for your rest of life.

5. Try to read books daily, which will increase your knowledge and make you mentally sharp.
6. Do exercise at least three times a week.
7. Stop eating high-fat food, high sugar products, and processed meat weekly or daily. You may get away with it in your 20s, but soon enough, it will catch up with you. Start now. Eat fruits and veggies daily and try moderating meat products in your diet. Getting terminal disease sucks. You don’t want that.
8. If you are wealthy, please don’t reveal this to your girlfriend when the relationship is new. (for men) you can even fake that you are broke to see her reaction. It is essential as you will know if she loves you for you or what will ever happen if you do lose almost everything in a bad business deal.
9. Learn to say no to things. Say no to unprotected sex because it takes a few minutes of pleasure to be a parent. You don’t want to get a child in your early years with the wrong person.
10. Marry someone you find physically attractive. I cannot stress this enough. Don’t marry someone in a hurry because other people are doing so or because you feel very lonely. Ensure you marry someone you cannot live without him/her.
11. Marry someone who finds you surprising. Someone who “worships” you in little ways and admires you from time to time. Someone who not only says they love you but makes enough effort to spend time with you.
12. Lift weights in your early years. You not only become more substantial, but you will look great in your 30s and 40s. You will be getting compliments here and there, and you will feel good about yourself.
13. I wish I took more pictures in my younger years. Now is when I realize how important photos are. Please take pictures with your loved ones as often as possible. Thirty years later, you will get a sense of fulfillment showing your children or grandchildren how much fun you had back then.
These were 13 Lessons hope you read and learn and ready to implement in your life. Good luck

Permit me to include this

14. Improving ones saving culture

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Re: 13 Lessons People Learn Too Late In Life by snowball11(m): 2:12pm On Apr 13, 2020
12. Lift weights in your early years. You not only become more substantial, but you will look great in your 30s and 40s. You will be getting compliments here and there, and you will feel good about yourself.




Wow, @op,...I can relate to the above lesson very well as it pertains to me! grin

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Re: 13 Lessons People Learn Too Late In Life by Nobody: 2:17pm On Apr 13, 2020
Plz help a soul from dying from hunger, nothing is too small, work has been closed since and hunger is Killing man
0248842313..Gtb
Re: 13 Lessons People Learn Too Late In Life by Papertrails(m): 2:53pm On Apr 13, 2020
Mrpsly247:

So u were the head boy in school.. sad

Yes o grin
Was working directly from the office of the head of state..... cheesy

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Re: 13 Lessons People Learn Too Late In Life by bukiah: 3:06pm On Apr 13, 2020
Nice write-up. This is what nairaland should be filled with.

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Re: 13 Lessons People Learn Too Late In Life by Nobody: 3:48pm On Apr 13, 2020
Very informative write-up. I'm impressed
Re: 13 Lessons People Learn Too Late In Life by Openbusiness: 3:50pm On Apr 13, 2020
One thing I have learned is that this Life has no formula to it. Just do good and always pray to the eternal God , the Almighty Creator to show you mercy.

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Re: 13 Lessons People Learn Too Late In Life by Shedrack36(m): 4:49pm On Apr 13, 2020
very educative , thanks op.

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