ExAngel007:
Dear all,

According to psychologist, there are three types of intelligence. Viz:

*Intelligence Quotient (IQ)*
*Emotional Quotient (EQ)*
*Social Quotient (SQ)*

1. *Intelligence Quotient (IQ)*: this is the measure of your comprehension ability", solve maths; memorize things and recall subject matters.

*2. Emotional Quotient (EQ)*: this is the measure of your ability to maintain peace with others; keep to time; be responsible; be honest; respect boundaries; be humble, genuine and considerate.

3. *Social Quotient (SQ):* this is the measure of your ability to build a network of friends and maintain it over a long period of time.

People that have higher EQ and SQ tend to go farther in life than those with high IQ but low EQ and SQ. Most schools capitalize in improving IQ level while EQ and SQ are played down.

A man of high IQ can end up being employed by a man of high EQ and SQ even though he has an average IQ.

Your EQ represents your character; your SQ represents your charisma. Give in to habits that will improve these three Qs but more especially your EQ and SQ.

EQ and SQ make one manage better than the other.

Pls don't teach children only to be IQ but also to be EQ and SQ.


Now there is a 4th one :

A new paradigm
4. *The Adversity Quotient (AQ)*: the measure of your ability to go through a rough patch in life and come out without losing your mind. AQ determines who will give up in face of troubles, who will abandon their family or who will consider suicide.

To parents.

Expose children to other areas of life than academic. They should adore manual work (never use work as a form of punishment), sport and art. Develop their EQ, SQ and AQ. They should become multifaceted human beings able to do things independently of the parents.

Finally, do not prepare the road for the children.

Prepare the children for the road.

Stay SAFE.

Observe Social Distancing.

Thank you.

lalasticlala

ExAngel007:
Dear all,

According to psychologist, there are three types of intelligence. Viz:

*Intelligence Quotient (IQ)*
*Emotional Quotient (EQ)*
*Social Quotient (SQ)*

1. *Intelligence Quotient (IQ)*: this is the measure of your comprehension ability", solve maths; memorize things and recall subject matters.

*2. Emotional Quotient (EQ)*: this is the measure of your ability to maintain peace with others; keep to time; be responsible; be honest; respect boundaries; be humble, genuine and considerate.

3. *Social Quotient (SQ):* this is the measure of your ability to build a network of friends and maintain it over a long period of time.

People that have higher EQ and SQ tend to go farther in life than those with high IQ but low EQ and SQ. Most schools capitalize in improving IQ level while EQ and SQ are played down.

A man of high IQ can end up being employed by a man of high EQ and SQ even though he has an average IQ.

Your EQ represents your character; your SQ represents your charisma. Give in to habits that will improve these three Qs but more especially your EQ and SQ.

EQ and SQ make one manage better than the other.

Pls don't teach children only to be IQ but also to be EQ and SQ.


Now there is a 4th one :

A new paradigm
4. *The Adversity Quotient (AQ)*: the measure of your ability to go through a rough patch in life and come out without losing your mind. AQ determines who will give up in face of troubles, who will abandon their family or who will consider suicide.

To parents.

Expose children to other areas of life than academic. They should adore manual work (never use work as a form of punishment), sport and art. Develop their EQ, SQ and AQ. They should become multifaceted human beings able to do things independently of the parents.

Finally, do not prepare the road for the children.

Prepare the children for the road.

Stay SAFE.

Observe Social Distancing.

Thank you.

lalasticlala

DriggityDre:
Exangel007, you were making sense till you said this;


I totally disagree.

greatestman:


Who is your President? Check your IQ and correlate.

ExAngel007:
Dear all,

According to psychologist, there are three types of intelligence. Viz:

*Intelligence Quotient (IQ)*
*Emotional Quotient (EQ)*
*Social Quotient (SQ)*

1. *Intelligence Quotient (IQ)*: this is the measure of your comprehension ability", solve maths; memorize things and recall subject matters.

*2. Emotional Quotient (EQ)*: this is the measure of your ability to maintain peace with others; keep to time; be responsible; be honest; respect boundaries; be humble, genuine and considerate.

3. *Social Quotient (SQ):* this is the measure of your ability to build a network of friends and maintain it over a long period of time.

People that have higher EQ and SQ tend to go farther in life than those with high IQ but low EQ and SQ. Most schools capitalize in improving IQ level while EQ and SQ are played down.

A man of high IQ can end up being employed by a man of high EQ and SQ even though he has an average IQ.

Your EQ represents your character; your SQ represents your charisma. Give in to habits that will improve these three Qs but more especially your EQ and SQ.

EQ and SQ make one manage better than the other.

Pls don't teach children only to be IQ but also to be EQ and SQ.


Now there is a 4th one :

A new paradigm
4. *The Adversity Quotient (AQ)*: the measure of your ability to go through a rough patch in life and come out without losing your mind. AQ determines who will give up in face of troubles, who will abandon their family or who will consider suicide.

To parents.

Expose children to other areas of life than academic. They should adore manual work (never use work as a form of punishment), sport and art. Develop their EQ, SQ and AQ. They should become multifaceted human beings able to do things independently of the parents.

Finally, do not prepare the road for the children.

Prepare the children for the road.

Stay SAFE.

Observe Social Distancing.

Thank you.

lalasticlala

DriggityDre:

So being a president is your own definition of going far in life

ExAngel007:
Dear all,

According to psychologist, there are three types of intelligence. Viz:

*Intelligence Quotient (IQ)*
*Emotional Quotient (EQ)*
*Social Quotient (SQ)*

1. *Intelligence Quotient (IQ)*: this is the measure of your comprehension ability", solve maths; memorize things and recall subject matters.

*2. Emotional Quotient (EQ)*: this is the measure of your ability to maintain peace with others; keep to time; be responsible; be honest; respect boundaries; be humble, genuine and considerate.

3. *Social Quotient (SQ):* this is the measure of your ability to build a network of friends and maintain it over a long period of time.

People that have higher EQ and SQ tend to go farther in life than those with high IQ but low EQ and SQ. Most schools capitalize in improving IQ level while EQ and SQ are played down.

A man of high IQ can end up being employed by a man of high EQ and SQ even though he has an average IQ.

Your EQ represents your character; your SQ represents your charisma. Give in to habits that will improve these three Qs but more especially your EQ and SQ.

EQ and SQ make one manage better than the other.

Pls don't teach children only to be IQ but also to be EQ and SQ.


Now there is a 4th one :

A new paradigm
4. *The Adversity Quotient (AQ)*: the measure of your ability to go through a rough patch in life and come out without losing your mind. AQ determines who will give up in face of troubles, who will abandon their family or who will consider suicide.

To parents.

Expose children to other areas of life than academic. They should adore manual work (never use work as a form of punishment), sport and art. Develop their EQ, SQ and AQ. They should become multifaceted human beings able to do things independently of the parents.

Finally, do not prepare the road for the children.

Prepare the children for the road.

Stay SAFE.

Observe Social Distancing.

Thank you.

lalasticlala

COdeGenesis:
I beg to differ. How can someone who is not intelligent know to how react emotionally and build relationships socially. I believe if onr has a high IQ he certainly has a high EQ and SQ

Bamz:


I'm a PM practitioner and emotional intelligence is at the core of a host of soft critical skills you can think of from decision making, to openness, assertiveness, communication etc.

High IQ is an innate ability (cognitive intelligence) and it can't be improved so much over the course of one's life. If you're smart at 18, chances are that you'll still be smart at 60.

EQ on the other hand can is much more flexible and can be learned. EQ simply means the ability to identify and understand your emotions and other people, and your ability to use that awareness to manage your behaviour and your relationships with others over the course of time.

I'm not familiar with SQ but it seems like a subset of EQ from my definition.

The motto of my elementary school says "excellence in learning and character". You see you can be technically adept and have domain intelligence etc but if you have low EQ, you may not go far.

So let's paint this picture. You're a functional manager at your company.

If you have high EQ, people would say: Code genesis embodies patience and understanding and doesn't react but responds appropriately during team meetings because he's an active listener. He deals with difficult situations with tact and has a high standard of conduct. He separates logic from emotions and he's very sensitive to the needs of his team.

Even if you have IQ, but low EQ, here's what people would say:

In stressful situations, codegenesis goes into panic mode and this has an effect on his team. He becomes increasingly impatient, and makes hasty decisions. His verbal outbursts sends the entire team into that caution mode which impacts the team negatively. Even with all of this, the team appreciates his skillset and technical adeptness but wish he could be more proactive during stressful situations.

I hope this helps. A lot of people think EQ is an abstract concept, but it's proven to be a major criteria for top performance.

Cc: ExAngel007 Professorcplus

COdeGenesis:


My thought is that someone needs some level of intelligence to be able to properly handle emotions. If you are not intelligent or have a certain level of IQ you cant be proactive in handling people. Napoleon, Julius caesar, aristocle , albert einstein ,Nelson Mandela, Tesla these are classic cases of people with intelligence and high EQ. The truth is that EQ is an apex of IQ and it is based on one's exposure to certain social circumstances.

Bamz:


You do not seem to understand what I'm driving at or you did not understand my definition of
EQ. My definition of EQ isn't my opinion. It's what is it is and I'll blow it further.

1. Self-awareness - identifying and understanding your emotions.

Any dumb person can sit down, and journal what triggers them

2. Self-management - Managing those emotions you've identified

Think of happiness in the order of intensity from high to low: ecstatic, cheerful, and pleased. The stronger your feelings get, the more they're able to control you. A dumb person will over time know his triggers once he's aware of them

3. Social awareness - identifying and understanding the emotions in others

This is where empathy and being sensitive comes. You don't need Aristotle to tell you not to scold a team member in front of the entire team.

4. Relationship management - this is the application of the earlier points in fostering relationships

There's no correlation that I know of between EQ and IQ as I believe they're of distinct constructs. Your attempt to interconnect would further confuse you. The IQ of most of the people you mentioned was not specifically measured but because they were so successful you're now attributing their success to high IQ.

Only one thing is certain, they had more than average EQ and if not the case, they're outliers. The argument for the former can be seen in how a 3rd class graduate would manage an empire and employ the best brains, or how Kante has more value than Pogba even with identical talent.

To boot, having high IQ and high EQ isn't mutually exclusive. The existence of one doesn't preclude the other.

gift2xl:
Just imagining where PMB FALLS INTO.

ExAngel007:
Dear all,

According to psychologist, there are three types of intelligence. Viz:

*Intelligence Quotient (IQ)*
*Emotional Quotient (EQ)*
*Social Quotient (SQ)*

1. *Intelligence Quotient (IQ)*: this is the measure of your comprehension ability", solve maths; memorize things and recall subject matters.
*2. Emotional Quotient (EQ)*: this is the measure of your ability to maintain peace with others; keep to time; be responsible; be honest; respect boundaries; be humble, genuine and considerate.
3. *Social Quotient (SQ):* this is the measure of your ability to build a network of friends and maintain it over a long period of time.

People that have higher EQ and SQ tend to go farther in life than those with high IQ but low EQ and SQ. Most schools capitalize in improving IQ level while EQ and SQ are played down.
A man of high IQ can end up being employed by a man of high EQ and SQ even though he has an average IQ.
Your EQ represents your character; your SQ represents your charisma. Give in to habits that will improve these three Qs but more especially your EQ and SQ.
EQ and SQ make one manage better than the other.
4. *The Adversity Quotient (AQ)*: the measure of your ability to go through a rough patch in life and come out without losing your mind. AQ determines who will give up in face of troubles, who will abandon their family or who will consider suicide.

To parents.

Expose children to other areas of life than academic. They should adore manual work (never use work as a form of punishment), sport and art. Develop their EQ, SQ and AQ. They should become multifaceted human beings able to do things independently of the parents.

Finally, do not prepare the road for the children.

Prepare the children for the road.

Stay SAFE.

Observe Social Distancing.

Thank you.

lalasticlala

Bamz:


You do not seem to understand what I'm driving at or you did not understand my definition of
EQ. My definition of EQ isn't my opinion. It's what is it is and I'll blow it further.

1. Self awareness - identifying and understanding your emotion.

Any dumb person can sit down, and journal what triggers them

2. Self management - Managing those emotions you've identified

Think of happiness in the order of intensity from high to low: ecstatic, cheerful and pleased. The stronger your feelings get, the more they're able to control you. A dumb person will over time know his triggers once he's aware of them

3. Social awareness - identifying and understanding the emotions in others

This is where empathy and being sensitive comes. You don't need to Aristostle to tell you not to scold a team member in front of the entire team.

4. Relationship management - this is the application of the earlier points in fostering relationships

There's no correlation that I know of between EQ and IQ as I believe they're of distinct constructs. Your attempt to interconnect would further confuse you. The IQ of most of the people you mentioned were not specifically measured but because they were so successful you're now attributing their success to high IQ.

Only one thing is certain, they had more than average EQ and if not the case, they're outliers. The argument for the former can be seen in how a 3rd class graduate would manage an empire and employ the best brains, or how Kante has more value than Pogba even with identical talent. Seeing at a club house the next day after a loss isn't exactly something that would thrill your coach. Now a player with more than decent EQ would know how his actions affect his team and coach.

To boot, having high IQ and high EQ isn't mutually exclusive. The existence of one doesn't preclude the other.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
He's deficient is all.

COdeGenesis:


My thought is that someone needs some level of intelligence to be able to properly handle emotions. If you are not intelligent or have a certain level of IQ you cant be proactive in handling people. Napoleon, Julius caesar, aristocle , albert einstein ,Nelson Mandela, Tesla these are classic cases of people with intelligence and high EQ. The truth is that EQ is an apex of IQ and it is based on one's exposure to certain social circumstances.