LIVING A PURPOSEFUL LIFE WITH EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE.

Living a purposeful life is living a life with a difference. Amit ray said “It does not matter how long you are spending on the earth, how much money you have gathered or how much attention you have received. It is the amount of positive vibration you have radiated in life that matters,”
Purposeful modification of the self only commences with revising your mind’s ability to recognize, understand, manage and express your internal functions (Emotions) to positively affect your real life (Purpose). Living a purposeful life is living a life of your own purpose and dream, not a copy and paste of someone you like or respect; else you will end up unhappy and unfulfilled. Occupy your thoughts with purpose will help you pursue a meaningful future and leave you with no choice than to put your doubt, chaos and disappointment behind you.

Research has shown that Emotional Intelligence contribute to Fulfilling Purpose in Life. In relation to the five attribute of Emotional Intelligence;

You need to know that you are not here on earth to bow, but to conquer through purposeful living, irrespective of any obstacle. Your ability to do this lies with you identifying your strength and weakness which is your SELF-AWARENESS. Awareness lead to more questions of who you’re, what you want, where are you really heading to, SELF-REGULATION helps you to control your emotions & reactions in other to access new discoveries and innovations, and growing MOTIVATION leads to transformation of how your life would eventually result to. Occupy your thoughts with purpose and you will be so busy pursuing a meaningful future there will be no time for doubt, chaos and disappointment.

SOCIAL SKILL, becoming a change catalyst will help you to fulfill your purpose in life. Start the reforms today not tomorrow; if you want to change your unproductive friends do it now. If you want to take up a new endeavor, take a first step right after finishing this article. Start now, before you lost yet another opportunity to fulfill your purpose.

EMAPTHY is the ability to become service oriented. Your ultimate purpose is to serve others, for it is in the act of service that you find the greatest potential for fulfillment. Rather than live from a place of fear and selfishness, you live from a place of connection and inclusivity. Because it creates lightness and a sense of loving kindness toward others, serving simply reinforces our reason for being here.

Conclusively, some were able to find their place of purpose but lost it in no time because they gave much preference to their Intellectual ability. It’s very imperative for you to know that, intellectual ability may get you to your place of purpose but it takes Emotional Intelligence to sustain you in the place of purpose.

Abiola Awe-Obe
Leadership & Emotional Intelligence Coach
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