It's the dream of every child to make their parents proud. Parents should learn to take a reasonable approach to communicating their knowledge to their children.

Why I am saying this is because, we think spare the rode and spoil the child actually works. It does to some extent. A good time to use the rode should be when your kid is a toddler. Then they barely know what they are doing. It's the pains that will tell them what their doing is wrong. That is they learn to expect bad things when they do bad which in some way might help them when they grow up.

But for a more matured kid. Please desist. If you must do, it must be done after you have sat the child down and talked sense into them.

Abusing your kids and embarrassing them in front of their peers will lead to rebellion. Wether you like it or not. Parents should never try embarrassing their kids among their peers. This what leads to Antisocial Disorder, if you know what that means. Beating your children and treating them like animals is very wrong. Some parents believe it's the way, its not. Being hard on them without being reasonable is totally wrong. Learn to communicate.

My neighbour and her husband beats their kids like drum. So annoying set of people.
They are lucky this isn't THE ABROAD, I for don call police on top their head.
Transfer of aggression on kids that didnt ask to be born.