This guy i met like two years ago just did the most embarassing thing i will neva 4get.he has been asking me out despite the fact that we are just friends and he lives in my quaters.i went to talk to him about something and boom,he forced himself on me and started kissing me.he was so brutal and i even got injured on my lip.i just left the house thanking God he did not rape me,now he is asking me to forgive him,pls what do i do?

kerenkeke:

i went to talk to him about something and boom,he forced himself on me and started kissing me.he was so brutal

I can't stop laughing , thi shit is so funny. Then BOOM laughing and rolling on the floor still laughing and can't stop

Girl!! avoid d guy like a disease.He probably thot u coming over might be signs that u were being loyal to his government.
A word for you,if u ve strings of likeness give in but if no avoid him and probably tell someone abt his escapades.aiight?

forgive him, but don't go near him or have anything to do with him. you can't be too sure about such men. they might be sorry but there is still a high possibility of such incident being repeated again.

Hmmm, this brings about the question that's always on my mind: should girls go visiting  a guy, whose overtures she has turned down over and over again, alone?

gbam , i support that statement 100%
but lets try to see from another point of view,what of if they were colleagues and she never expected such behavior from him?

Hmmm, this brings about the question that's always on my mind: should girls go visiting  a guy, whose overtures she has turned down over and over again, alone?

haba how many times.

Hmmm, this brings about the question that's always on my mind: should girls go visiting  a guy, whose overtures she has turned down over and over again, alone?

;d

na wa ohhh

Sorry pips, i'm browsin from a phone n It's kinda messing up,

Na lie jo!! sure he raped you, you just can't find the boldness to say it.

i keep telling girls-boys play with boys and girls with girls. what were you looking for in a guy's room? you asked for it.
Now you want to come and give us this bullshit story, i ain't buying it girl, go visit him again since he's your mothers child.

i mean the guy wacked you.

Well, Just thank God for you are luck he did not rape you, and for forgiving him? i think you should and just be careful, ok

Thank God he didn't rape you,try to forgive him n be very careful in case of next time not only with this guy but with every other guy.

Are u sure it was only kissing and nothing more?

The guy just started kissing you? He must be obsessed wit u, or maybe he was thinking abt u at dat particular moment u showed up in his apartment. Or better still maybe he wanted to show you his kissing skills and maybe afterwards u'll consider his proposal! If i may ask was he a good kisser?

I wonder why my brothers no dey fit control themselves if they see woman forgetting that a little bit of patience does the magic.Abeg no vex for the way the guy harass you.Forgive him but be more careful

hmmmmmm its sounds really very funny gurl but its happens on each daily bases, i am happy for you that he didnt rape you that would have been a painful part of it and moreso, to me i dont think it is right for a girl to visit a guy that you said No to, if u dont want him then dont go near to him because most times the human in us will alway tell.
BE CAREFUL

Why don't you learn from guys. If a girl is so undesirable to us that we can turn her down, there is on earth that will make us want to be alone with her. NOTHING!

On the other hand this guy is a potential rapist. Let him know that if any such thing happens again even not to you; if you hear any such thing from any other girl sef, you'll bring your parents in.

Can you just imagine that vagabond? When guys like me are working hard, spending weeks to please women, one guy just wants to effortlessly rape.

Poor you!!! forgive him but stay away from him. He is so crude.

That goes further to show you that that guy is only sexually attracted to you and doesn't want to be emotionally involved.

That goes further to show you that that guy is only sexually attracted to you and doesn't want to be emotionally involved.

i agree wiith that!!!100 %.Dont go close 2 him again like that,i mean alone in a room,he cant be trusted.

Kissing should be an act that takes nothing less than 4 seconds. And the fact that you said the guy just "started kissing you" shows that he kissed you for more than 4 seconds. If I may ask, What and what did you do to discourage him from kissing you? I strongly believe that a guy just can't jump on a lady and start kissing her like that. Kissing is an act that requires two people's lips that has reached an agreement to kiss.

These are my findings from the poster's post.
1. It's possible the guy just tried to kiss her and failed.
2. It could be that the guy kissed her with her consent, and she later realised what she was doing. (normal mills & boom story)
3. It's possible the guy did more than kissing
4. It could be that the poster is just imagining the guy actually do that to her.
5. This could just be a fiction.

sillyboy, I hope you're not trying to sweep that pre-rape/forerape activity under the rug. Even if it was hypothetical, give advice the should be relevant to the described situation.
Abeg O! I am going to have daughters later in life and I'm giving advice to will be spread by word of mouth and maybe one day if they are in that situation, these words will come in handy.

Any rapist or attempted rapist may soon be beDICKED in accordance to federal legislation.

na waaaooooooooooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!

@ topic: very annoying, I can imagine.

BUSH MEAT DON CATCH THE HUNTER, NOW TELL ME,WHO DEY FOOL WHO

LAUGH WON KILL ME HERE OOOOO(LWKMH)

KERENKEKE,
get a revolver he will be coming for round 2 so you gotsa be ready for him next time.