constancefriday:
WHY SOME MEN RAPE and WHY RAPE IS A CRIME.
The rising cases of rape within the country has become quite alarming, what breaks the heart a lot more is that the perpetrators of this dastardly crime end up in some cases killing the victim to avoid potential public shaming and opprobrium.
The likelyhood of being exposed by a victim who is bold enough to speak up is the motive behing some rape victims being killed after the dastardly act.
I stand 100% against rape (and murder) no matter the cause (biological or otherwise).
But here are the reasons why some Men rape (stating these reasons is not an endorsement for you to go ahead and rape a woman).
(1.) Men need sex: Women will be shocked when they hear this, because their bodies are exactly opposite.
The biological structuring of a Man's reproductive system is interconnected to other systematic functions in his body. There are nerves and blood vessels that "interconnect" the gonadial system (primary and secondary sex organs) to the circulatory system (i e the heart and co.), the digestive system (the stomach and co.), plus the primary sensory receptors all over the integumentory system of the body (this also principally include the eye, ears, and skin).
As a Lady (who is involved in a sexually active relationship) have you ever wondered why your Man suddenly feels aroused and demands for sex after a good meal, or when he's caught up in stressful situation, or when he accidentally catches you half naked or not well covered? Don't be shocked...it's how a Man's body is biologically designed to behave. A Man's body is designed to crave for sex that's why a Man can cheat on his Spouse but yet still remain in love with his Soulmate (Wife). I don't encourage/endorse adultery if you're married, or immorality if you're single but these biological explanations tells you why even your male Moral Instructions HOD may quietly whisper in your ears some words you'll be shocked to hear him say.
Now note that i used the word male not MAN. What differentiates a male from a Man is "control" more specifically "self control"
Rape is carried out with one motive "to show or display power" or so called superior physical.strength or might which the Female doesn't primarily have (except she undergoes extensive trainings that awaken those secondary characteristics. Women are not primarily physically strong, except when they train it out physically. That's why most female athletes have seemingly masculine but not exactly male behaviours).
However, even all kinds of power is deemed corrupt when it has "no control". It's as dangerous as driving on a highway with a car that has no steering wheel or dashboard.
That is the problem with rape.
The Female body is not automatically turned on like it's male counterpart which can get turned on even for no reason sometimes.
Women require to be worked on gradually before they respond. That's why when a woman is turned on she's more in the mood than the male.
The way a person feels when hit by a speeding vehicle that has lost control is the same way a Woman feels when she's raped. She feels "DEVASTATED".
As a Man/Male if you can't exactly connect try imagining how even you as a Man will feel if you're suddenly hit by a speeding truck (not car) that emerged out of nowhere but somehow , you didn't die, you remained alive to see your mangled body scattered all over the tarmac.
That is how a Woman feels when she is raped. It's a very terrible feeling. That's why rape is very wrong.
If you need sex, go through the right procedures to gratify your need for sex. Your need for sex as a Man is very similar to your need for money. If it's wrong and criminal to steal money even when you need it urgently or desperately, it is also wrong and criminal to gratify your need for sex without mutual consent.
Even if your request for sexual gratification is declined by your spouse or sex partner, remember the use of force is not right. It paints the wrong picture of A REAL MAN.

(2) MEN ARE MOVED BY WHAT THEY SEE:
A Woman can walk about stark naked without having even just a little drop of urge or desire for sexual gratification (women hardly have the urge for sexual intercourse except during peak periods of ovulation, which is precisely 2/5 or 1/4 of your time of regular interaction with members of the opposite sex.
Virgins find it easier to hold back their urge for sex until after they're no more virgins. Biologically secondary and tertiary virginity is not exactly feasible except when extreme decisions are made because the nerves that respond to sex have become activated after virginity is given up.
It is more painful for a Lady to lose her virginity via rape, the psychological effects are quite catastrophic, and that's one of the reasons why RAPE IS INDEED A VERY CRIMINAL ACT.
Don't look at her twice if she's either loosely dressed, unclad, seductively clad, or even completely naked. Male sexual arousal begins when your gaze is fixed on the feminine source of arousal. Simply shift your gaze. If you're peaked up, find an anaphrodisiac to eat or drink.
Q: What is an Anaphrodisiac?
A: An anaphrodisiac is the opposite of an aphrodisiac. It's a meal or beverage that when consumed makes your urge for sex to decline or diminish completely and shift your mind to other thoughts.
Find out how many homemade anaphrodisiacs you can consume to keep yourself from the negative clapbacks of the immoral gratification of your sexual urges.

(3) SEX STARVED MEN CAN BEHAVE LIKE WILD ANIMALS:
With what i pointed out about the male reproductive system at the introduction of this article in mind paint this picture with me.
There countless number of cases of Married men who get caught up in multiple immoral sprees due to sexual starvation by their wives.
This is common amongst the hyper-moralistic, over religious minded Folks in the building. It's okay to Pray and Fast often, but it's quite expedient on some days to cut down the kabashing and vigil and attend to the biological needs of your spouse.
Maybe if you're the type that prays and speaks in tongues from 10pm or 12 midnight till 6am or 7am cut it down to either 3am or 4am and attend to the needs of your spouse.
It is not satanic, demonic or ungodly infact it is recommended scripturally. Ensure your partner is physically satisfied with the your wells and springs of passion before you get dressed and get back to your religious masks, make ups and itineraries.
N.B remember to prioritize God in all you do, don't turn your physical passions into idols or addictions.
Even in your marriage.
"Exercise profiteth little" ( read 1 Timothy 4:.

(5) USE OF HARD DRUGS/MENTAL ILLNESS:
In this case you know very much well that hard drugs obstructs the brains logic and reasoning abilities, making you berserk and doing things that you'll hate yourself for afterwards. It worsens depression and can cause extensive psychosis which would lead to the need for psychiatric attention.
Some Folks are psychopaths who do acts of crime or rape without any feelings of guilt or remorse.
HOW DO YOU IDENTIFY A PSYCHOPATH?
(1) A Psychopath doesn't feel sorry for what he/she has done. No matter how evil, wicked or cruel it is, they RATIONALIZE EVIL DEEDS including RAPE.
Statements such as "eh she was naked, not well dressed, so i raped her because she's most likely a prostitute.Such Folks struck satanically with psychosis often say Female Folks are meats we eat when we're hungry for that thing! We are the hunters they are the meat etc etc ...
��That is very wrong. It sounds very unreasonable. Only Psychopaths who need psychiatric evaluation talk that way.
(2) Psychopaths blame the victim for the crime.
Most Folks who're on drugs (drug addicts) engage in callous acts of crimes and felony.including rape and murder.
Be very careful if you find out you're dealing with a reprobate individual (Male/Female) That's what the Bible calls them.
These are the few reasons why rape occurs and the reason why rape is a serious crime punishable by the law, a serious crime to humanity, to women in particular and a shame to MANHOOD.
MEN who engage in rape are not real men. Real Men have self control, they delay gratification, protect the vulnerable (Women & Children) and REAL MEN DON'T RAPE WOMEN.
Yours Sincerely;
Apostle Dr Constance C. Friday
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I strongly condemn every wanton acts of rape (and murder) currently being reported across the country.
Perpertrators of such dastardly acts of inhumanity should be promptly brought to justice by the security agents, legislation and judiciary. Rape is just not cool!
One more thing, the knowledge i've released for public consumption in.this article should by all means be properly used and not abused. Every abuse of knowledge is surebound to yield negative clapbacks to the abuser. I'm not encouraging Men to become philanderers, i'm encouraging virgins to promptly cast away their virginities, and i'm not encouraging nudity or indecent dressing amongst our Female Folks who by the way are less likely to fall victims to rapists if they are well dressed. (Not in all cases, some Women still get raped even when they're well dressed and decent. Don't be a victim). Take care and due caution.
Thanks.