Hello Everyone

I have a little problem and it's really killing me.

As almost is a custom in our house, you don't get a phone until you're out of secondary school.

Lately, my little sister has been begging me for my phone to use. Sometimes for Facebook, sometimes for assignments or just browsing and stuffs.

But the problem is, she's always searching for porn. She's 17 now. I don't know if it's out of curiosity or if she's addicted to it.

Everytime I get my phone from her and I check the browser history, I'll see Google search for 'porn' 'pornography' and then website clicks.

She also searches for lesbian porns with many click through.

I don't know if she's just curious or if I should be concerned. I've stopped giving her my phone even though she do ask for it sometimes.

I've thought about talking to her but I really don't know where to start or how. We lost both of our parents already and are staying with my uncle and his wife and I don't really want to talk to the wife about this.

Please any advice?

Sex education needed from you

Seen

It's your responsibility to call her and talk sense into her , as a big bro....
It may as a result of peer pressure influence,but please don't be quiet about it.Talk to her....

What do ladies even gain from porn?

Your sister knows a lot .

The hypotheses are :

She is sexually aroused but could not get it on time.

She wants to explore and learn new sex styles

She has been involving in amorous relationship with her friends

Your sister knows a lot .
The hypotheses are : She is

Na wao......The way preeq and Towto dey sweet youth of this generation ehn!!!

Her expectation and standard of sex will be very high now...

Crystalom3:
Hello Everyone

I have a little problem and ask for it sometimes.

I've thought about talking to her but I really don't know where to start or how. We lost both of our parents already and are staying with my uncle and his wife and I don't really want to talk to the wife about this.

Please any advice?

It's normal bro, curiousity coupled with teen hormonal sexual rush.

Just tell her watching those things might get her into doing what she won't like and would hate herself afterwards.

Just simple sex edu needed, mind you, you've gat to do this please, as you are the only she could trust most presently.

is she schooling in a boarding school?, if yes then de rest is settled

If you have an elder sister, an aunty or your mum that’s their job. You may not do the counseling very well and it may end up making her distant herself from you, thinking you may be judging or condemning her.

Major I think she is lacking sex enlightenment

let her be. it's better she is blowing off steam on porn than actually engaging in it. na man u be, don't cross boundaries going to report. how will that sh%t come out of ur mouth

GOFRONT:
Na wao......The way preeq and Towto dey sweet youth of this generation ehn!!!

forget that talk.. e sweet every generation, this generation no just lowkey

With porn now she go come dey think abnormal sex acts like sucking preek swallowing sperm and anal sex are normal followed by numerous abortion and unsafe swx.

Bro, if you don't help her in putting her wrongs right now that she's still young; she will definitely practice what she's viewing at the most appropriate time

this is serious

Sex education is of utmost importance in her life at the moment. IMO she is doing out of curiosity and maybe sometimes she when she feel aroused, to me its Normal and fine.

You should talk to her in her in a kind, matured and logical manner regarding porn and sex education. Don't judo or intimidate her, it will just worsen an already bartered situation.

17years! peer group influence. if you have a good relationship with your uncles wife talk to her about it, she's in best position to enlighten her on sex education. if you confront your sister trust me she will distance herself from you

OP I will advise you leave her be... allow her satisfy her curiousity. If you try nd deter her it will affect many other people.

If she no spoil how them boys go take see easy naks

maybe she have a friend that talks about seks or have been having seks which makes her curious about what seks is. she was doing a research with ur phone in preparation to start a seks life

She's gone bro, I don't think u can stop her

Human beings have their highest sexual urge in their teen years, it's kinda spontaneous I guess

If u can't do the talking, let me do it. Give her ur phone and tell her someone wants to talk to her about something.

She's probably just curious but let's not forget curiosity killed the cat. Most porn addicts also started out of curiosity.
Tell her your observations and the dangers associated with porn. A wise person will take heed, a doomed person will always ignore wise counsel.

Nigerian youth gets randy!

She is just being curious, we all passed through that stage.

stella55:
17years! peer group influence. if you have a good relationship with your uncles wife talk to her about it, she's in best position to enlighten her on sex education. if you confront your sister trust me she will distance herself from you

If you haven't told your kid about sex at 17, you've failed as a parent

She's almost 18, and can watch it if she likes

Tajbol4splend:
Human beings have their highest sexual urge in their teen years, it's kinda spontaneous I guess

.i guess in theory.cause i never had mine during my teeny days .except you referring to the females alone

Give me a message... Will send you a book she can read PDF format..God will heal her.

@Crystalom3