21 DECENT PLACES TO FIND YOUR FUTURE HUSBAND HERE IN NIGERIA


Dear Future Wife,

Thank you and congratulations for being interested in this life-changing, exciting thread. Successfully finding your future husband in a world full of so many fake (pretentious), cheating and selfish, but very good-looking men can be very depressing, if not impossible. I know.

You may have searched for your dream man for many months or even years without success, but I want you to know that there is hope for you. You may be in your 30s or even in your 40s at the moment, but if other single ladies who are about your age could find their own dream man, then you can, and you will find yours too. It is absolutely possible!

It is not true that all the good ones have been taken. There are still many good single men out there. The interesting fact is that, your future husband is out there looking for you too, and he’s probably having sleepless nights because he’s yet to find you. You better believe that, because it’s true.

Another interesting fact is that, you don’t have to have any special talent, a stunning figure or a pretty face like a movie star or a music star before you can successfully find, connect with and marry your future husband. All you need is the right mindset, the right information (which will be revealed to you through this thread), and the discipline to carefully go through this thread with an open mind and also apply the information it contains with anticipation.

Locating your future husband is not rocket science. It can be incredibly simple… if you discover the practical and proven secrets. So don’t be discouraged. Don’t lose hope. Put a smile on your face. Relax. The help you need is finally here! You will find and connect with your future husband. And it won’t be long! In fact, it will be simpler and faster than you ever imagined! You will see!

Wishing you the very best and God’s speed in your search for your future husband!




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Your Potential Future Husband


Your potential future husband is someone who has the basic qualities of your future husband, but may or may not turn out to be your future husband eventually. Time will tell. The following are the basic qualities you should look out for in your potential future husband, amongst other qualities you may consider basic.

1. He is physically attractive, at least to you (You feel physically attracted to him each time you see him or each time the two of you are together).

2. He is kind (He cares about other people, including you).

3. He is polite (He treats and talks to other people, including you, with respect, no matter how poor or unimportant they may seem).

4. He has integrity (He is a man of his words; he is honest).

5. He is considerate (He is not self-centred).

6. He is humble (He is not proud, cocky or unapproachable).

7. He is teachable (He listens to others, including you; and can be corrected whenever he is wrong).

8. He is a man of vision (He knows exactly what he wants and where he is going in life).

9. He is going in a similar direction as you in life (Your major dreams, goals and objectives in life are related with his own one way or the other).

10. He has a personal and cordial relationship with God (Most single ladies out there; and maybe, including you too; are looking for men that are God-fearing. But what they fail to realize is that, before a man can genuinely be God-fearing, he has to first of all have a personal and cordial relationship with God).



With the above 10 basic qualities and other qualities you may consider as basic, especially if he is teachable, your potential Mr Right can develop other qualities of your Mr Right or future husband.





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If you find someone of the opposite sex physically attractive but he doesn’t have the other basic qualities of your potential Mr Right, don’t waste your time with him. Continue the search. However, you two can remain acquaintances or friends.

If you don’t consider any of the members of the opposite sex you’ve come across, met or known to be your potential Mr Right, then you have to go where you can possibly find him. In the movie, Coming to America, Hakeem (played by Eddie Murphy) left his father’s kingdom in Africa for America to search for the kind of woman he wanted, having searched for her to no avail in his father’s kingdom. According to him, he wanted a woman who would arouse his loins as well as his intellect. He felt he could find her in America. And he eventually did.

In the Holy Book, when Abraham wanted to get a wife fort his son, Isaac, he asked his eldest servant to go in search of her in another country. And that was how they found Rebecca as a wife for Isaac.

You don’t have to go looking for your Mr Right or future husband in America. I only shared that with you to let you see how far someone can go to search for his or her Mr Right or Miss Right. There are many potential Mr Right or future husband out there in this country. You just have to be more outgoing and “shine your eyes.” Ask the Lord to guide your steps and also open your eyes.

Don’t say all the good ones have been taken. There are still many good, single men out there. You simply need to know where to look. Once you are clear about the kind of guy you are looking for, you should ponder on the kind of places where such men are concentrated, and then go to such places. The kind of man you are looking for can’t be found everywhere. There are specific places where you can find him – at least 21 specific places here in Nigeria. That’s why you’ve got to go where your potential future husband can be found. Examples of places where you can find your potential future husband include:





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1. Fitness centres

2. Seminars

3. Conferences

4. Training Programmes

5. Events for single people

6. Facebook groups/pages for single people

7. WhatsApp groups for single people

8. Bookshops

9. Book fares

10. Trade fares

11. Sports events

12. Football viewing centres

13. Sports clubs

14. Gaming clubs

15. Investment clubs

16. Dance schools

17. Music schools

18. Business schools

19. Leadership schools

20. Religious houses

21. Matchmaking services





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A Word On Religious Houses And Matchmaking Services


For starters, you can prayerfully go to any of the above places with a female friend, especially if you are a shy person, in search of your Mr Right or future husband.


You should be very careful of pretenders, however, especially in religious houses. A religious house, like a church for instance, is one of the best places to find your potential Mr Right, but it can also turn out to be one of the worst. Some guys go to churches, pretending to be saved, only to start taking advantage of naïve and desperate single ladies. So, be warned.







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I also suggest that you should take advantage of matchmaking services in order to find your Mr Right. Matchmaking is simply an act of introducing a man and a woman to each other with the intention of marriage. The concept of matchmaking is not a new one. It has been going on in the world since the time of Abraham in the Bible, when his son, Isaac, was introduced to Rebecca for the purpose of marriage; to the time of Jesus when his father, Joseph, was introduced to Mary for the purpose of marriage; and up till this generation.

Many single ladies in Nigeria have remained unmarried today simply because they are either ignorant of the existence of matchmaking services in Nigeria or they have some misconceptions about it.

One of the misconceptions they have is that it is not scriptural. Another misconception they have is that, some of them feel that engaging in matchmaking will make them look desperate and redundant. I want you to know that none of these misconceptions is right.

I’ve just shown you that matchmaking is scriptural. Secondly, I don’t think it should make any lady feel desperate and redundant. But instead, you should see it as a wise move because it puts you in a position where you have a wide range of eligible, quality single guys to choose from, as opposed to now that you probably don’t have even just one guy to consider. It will also save you a lot of time and effort as far as finding your Mr Right is concerned, if done the right way. If you are in your 30s or in your 40s at the moment, I don’t think you have a lot of time on your side.





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You can ask one of your close associates, friends or family members to introduce you to a quality, single man whom they believe will meet your basic requirements. Alternatively, you can engage the services of a competent and reliable matchmaking outfit in order to speed up the process.

When a guy is introduced to you, learn to build a good friendship with him if he is someone you like, and see if it will lead to something more.

If it does lead to something more, fine. If it doesn’t, fine. If it doesn’t, it only means that you need to have someone else introduced to you. It’s as simple as that. It’s not rocket science.

Let me quickly add here that matchmaking, as simple as it can be, can also be a very delicate thing, if any or both of the parties involved are immature, too desperate or have expectations that are too high. Therefore, for you to benefit from matchmaking, you’ve got to be mature, not too desperate, and you also need to have reasonable expectations (That is, don’t expect too much too soon).

And just like in any other business, there are also some dubious matchmaking organizations out there that are out to swindle single people of their hard-earned money. So you should be on the lookout.







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