Johntemmy:
I am married for over 5yrs now, I love my wife so much and my family. But I don't know what is going on btw my wife and my kid brother(close relative but not sibling), it all started 2016, my brother school in the same State and town am living, he always come around for weekend at my place, and I noticed they get close, I was happy about it.
When i got transferred to work in another State, I started coming home on weekends too, until my wife got sick and I asked my brother to go there and stay with her because he's also on holiday, I think that was how they got so intimate I like the way they play and gist a lot, I was transferred back 2017. but what giving me concern about this' is, whenever he's not around they always talk on phone, video chat, sometimes send pictures to each other, my wife will sometimes block me from viewing her WhatsApp status when she put him there, because I had complained ones about why she used so much romantic words for him. She will always excuse to go and talk to him, when I ask why? she'll say private discussion, I really don't feel comfortable but I think I shouldn't jump into conclusion.
I'm not a heavy eater but my brother is, my wife always give him larger portion, I don't mind but when it's meat, my wife gives him the best meat in the soup, bcoz we always eat together on the same dinning table, I feel uncomfortable & disrespected with this, but I didn't talk, but recently I was checking through my brother phone and saw one of his pics that he took 2018 and unknowingly and unware my wife was sitting down behind him, exposing her breast because of the ordinary singlet she was wearing because she's inside the house but my brother kept this picture since then, I ask him why didn't he delete it, he said "i like it, I don't feel convenient with how my wife shows on it, I ask why he couldn't crop her out of the pics, he keeps giving excuses so i deleted it, and he was mad at me. But this had been a point of concern for me, I don't know what to think and how to handle this....
Please mature minds only! Thanks.
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Adejoncy01:
What other evidence do you need?

Johntemmy:
I am married for over 5yrs now, I love my wife so much and my family. But I don't know what is going on btw my wife and my kid brother(close relative but not sibling), it all started 2016, my brother school in the same State and town am living, he always come around for weekend at my place, and I noticed they get close, I was happy about it.
When i got transferred to work in another State, I started coming home on weekends too, until my wife got sick and I asked my brother to go there and stay with her because he's also on holiday, I think that was how they got so intimate I like the way they play and gist a lot, I was transferred back 2017. but what giving me concern about this' is, whenever he's not around they always talk on phone, video chat, sometimes send pictures to each other, my wife will sometimes block me from viewing her WhatsApp status when she put him there, because I had complained ones about why she used so much romantic words for him. She will always excuse to go and talk to him, when I ask why? she'll say private discussion, I really don't feel comfortable but I think I shouldn't jump into conclusion.
I'm not a heavy eater but my brother is, my wife always give him larger portion, I don't mind but when it's meat, my wife gives him the best meat in the soup, bcoz we always eat together on the same dinning table, I feel uncomfortable & disrespected with this, but I didn't talk, but recently I was checking through my brother phone and saw one of his pics that he took 2018 and unknowingly and unware my wife was sitting down behind him, exposing her breast because of the ordinary singlet she was wearing because she's inside the house but my brother kept this picture since then, I ask him why didn't he delete it, he said "i like it, I don't feel convenient with how my wife shows on it, I ask why he couldn't crop her out of the pics, he keeps giving excuses so i deleted it, and he was mad at me. But this had been a point of concern for me, I don't know what to think and how to handle this....
Please mature minds only! Thanks.
from LIFE MATTERS NIGERIA.

Fountainofyouth:
When the wife hates husband's people, she's evil, when she is close to them or one in particular, something is going on, men, very insatiably weak people, see them already crucifying the wife above, I guess that's what Op wants, if Op was the wife talking about the closeness of her hubby with a female relative, the famous "let's hear your husband's side of the story" will be everywhere, nonsense.

Op relax and watch how they'd help you destroy your wife and marriage, enjoy the ride.

Fountainofyouth:
When the wife hates husband's people, she's evil, when she is close to them or one in particular, something is going on, men, very insatiably weak people, see them already crucifying the wife above, I guess that's what Op wants, if Op was the wife talking about the closeness of her hubby with a female relative, the famous "let's hear your husband's side of the story" will be everywhere, nonsense.

Op relax and watch how they'd help you destroy your wife and marriage, enjoy the ride.

Heiterkeit:


Stop visiting your frustration on other people, whether men or women. From the story of this man, any normal human being will see that something is wrong with attitude of this man's wife and his younger brother.

No time for nonsense, so I won't care about your reply.

Bruno3000:
they fcking each other guy... fear women una no wan hear word

decatalyst:


I get your point

Fountainofyouth:
When the wife hates husband's people, she's evil, when she is close to them or one in particular, something is going on, men, very insatiably weak people, see them already crucifying the wife above, I guess that's what Op wants, if Op was the wife talking about the closeness of her hubby with a female relative, the famous "let's hear your husband's side of the story" will be everywhere, nonsense.

Op relax and watch how they'd help you destroy your wife and marriage, enjoy the ride.

Johntemmy:
I am married for over 5yrs now, I love my wife so much and my family. But I don't know what is going on btw my wife and my kid brother(close relative but not sibling), it all started 2016, my brother school in the same State and town am living, he always come around for weekend at my place, and I noticed they get close, I was happy about it.
When i got transferred to work in another State, I started coming home on weekends too, until my wife got sick and I asked my brother to go there and stay with her because he's also on holiday, I think that was how they got so intimate I like the way they play and gist a lot, I was transferred back 2017. but what giving me concern about this' is, whenever he's not around they always talk on phone, video chat, sometimes send pictures to each other, my wife will sometimes block me from viewing her WhatsApp status when she put him there, because I had complained ones about why she used so much romantic words for him. She will always excuse to go and talk to him, when I ask why? she'll say private discussion, I really don't feel comfortable but I think I shouldn't jump into conclusion.
I'm not a heavy eater but my brother is, my wife always give him larger portion, I don't mind but when it's meat, my wife gives him the best meat in the soup, bcoz we always eat together on the same dinning table, I feel uncomfortable & disrespected with this, but I didn't talk, but recently I was checking through my brother phone and saw one of his pics that he took 2018 and unknowingly and unware my wife was sitting down behind him, exposing her breast because of the ordinary singlet she was wearing because she's inside the house but my brother kept this picture since then, I ask him why didn't he delete it, he said "i like it, I don't feel convenient with how my wife shows on it, I ask why he couldn't crop her out of the pics, he keeps giving excuses so i deleted it, and he was mad at me. But this had been a point of concern for me, I don't know what to think and how to handle this....
Please mature minds only! Thanks.
from LIFE MATTERS NIGERIA.

madridguy:
1. Whenever he's not around they always talk on phone, video chat, sometimes send pictures to each other, my wife will sometimes block me from viewing her WhatsApp status when she put him there.

2. My wife always give him larger portion, I don't mind but when it's meat, my wife gives him the best meat in the soup.

3. I ask why he couldn't crop her out of the pics, he keeps giving excuses so i deleted it, and he was mad at me.

With these 3 highlighted points, if your wife should give birth during this period please make sure you do the DNA of the child. Also, try to excuse your brother for now and make sure if possible change your wife phone number or better still you monitor her phone frequently to make sure you cut of the closeness between them.

Lastly, make sure you always occupy your wife's time whenever you're around and when you're away, always engage her on phone too.

My opinion though.

excellence44:

Are you the FBI operative operative that arrested hushbingo?
your sense the there