akpunda86:
Hi fellas.To God be the glory.ladies need ur input.The rich also cry.I got married in 2008.was full of life married a young lady of 25 as we believe fertility increases wit young age.well along d lines my wife always took in but miscarriages occur.Ten miscarriages.Infact Lagos gynas are crooks.one of the reasons we moved to Enugu.
In Enugu we met a popular gyna.who adviced once she takes in she come.As God want it my wife was admitted on third month of marriage baby born on seventh month.placed in incubator.My bills was in millions but as God want it a way opened and all debts paid.

Our second kid came two years later at full trimister.

So as we want anoda kid but not now but i always ask my wife when safe to have sex and she gave me green light.Kasa burst she took in again.i was in site and she called me by 2am.i was scared cos tut robbers came.
Said having pains.told her go hospital nxt day.went and after scan doc said ectopic pregnancy so cs operation initiated.

So right now we all fine but my wife said she z is not having children again that im free to go outside meet any woman but for her is done.

It pained me i was weak.im tired thats why i need advices here.
Infact touching her from now im scared as we have spent heavily in dis hospital.

Getting a second wife no big deal for me but wat happens when im gone.I thank God for my two beautiful kids but is four i planned.

Im planning renting a new apartment once i see a matured lady but is painful to me.

ebenhazard:
Don't leave her alone take care of her too

akpunda86:


Yea cant leave dem never.financially but ill be travelling often now.Emotionally with her and kids but ill be far away from home now.

MajesticKris:
So long you can have sex.. i see nothing bad

Put yourself in her shoes.. she doesn't want to go through that pain again..
Just my thought....

McCoy662:
Fear no even catch you You have two wonderful kids and you are still complaining. Pray the blessings of the four u planned will fall on the two, raise them well and respect your wife's decision. She's tried and if I'm you, fear won't even allow me to ask her to get pregnant again.

If u can have sex, I think u are good to go. But if not, that's where there is issue

akpunda86:


Your rit but no sex.im married still using condoms.everyday.ha guy.

dangermouse:
U have options bro. U can go on family planning. This will enable u to still be having sex with her without pregnancy occuring. I think this is ur major problem. U can still learn to discipline urself and practice withdrawal method during sex. Secondly, u can adopt as many babies as u whsh, if more babies are ur problem. I cant advice u to get a mistress or marry another woman, it will surely make u stray from her.

kodded:
if money is not the problem why can't you guys try ivf while she take in bed control pills


at least the new born baby will be from you guys

MajesticKris:
No using condoms everyday sef .. you suppose knw when your woman dey on Heat, I knw wen and wen not to use a condom.. that's where trust plays a huge role..

akpunda86:


Ivf fails.which we tried two times.conceiving not issue but once after fertilization after implants miscarriage occurs.I love my wife dont wanna be cause of her demise.her mum sees me now as one dat wants to kill her daugter.Me im seriously looking for a side chic.

MrBrownJay1:
you better enjoy what you got... if having more children is a necessity to you then get another wife (with her blessing) or go get babymama. good luck with the future headaches.

akpunda86:
Thanks a lot.dats wat on my mind.

akpunda86:
Hi fellas.To God be the glory.ladies need ur input.The rich also cry.I got married in 2008.was full of life married a young lady of 25 as we believe fertility increases wit young age.well along d lines my wife always took in but miscarriages occur.Ten miscarriages.Infact Lagos gynas are crooks.one of the reasons we moved to Enugu.
In Enugu we met a popular gyna.who adviced once she takes in she come.As God want it my wife was admitted on third month of marriage baby born on seventh month.placed in incubator.My bills was in millions but as God want it a way opened and all debts paid.

Our second kid came two years later at full trimister.

So as we want anoda kid but not now but i always ask my wife when safe to have sex and she gave me green light.Kasa burst she took in again.i was in site and she called me by 2am.i was scared cos tut robbers came.
Said having pains.told her go hospital nxt day.went and after scan doc said ectopic pregnancy so cs operation initiated.

So right now we all fine but my wife said she z is not having children again that im free to go outside meet any woman but for her is done.

It pained me i was weak.im tired thats why i need advices here.
Infact touching her from now im scared as we have spent heavily in dis hospital.

Getting a second wife no big deal for me but wat happens when im gone.I thank God for my two beautiful kids but is four i planned.

Im planning renting a new apartment once i see a matured lady but is painful to me.