Hello Nairalanders, I have been trying all my possible best to learn how to keep silent and stay alone but it hasn't been easy disciplining myself in that area. I like people a lot and like meeting people and sharing ideas. But I have realised that most of my challenges in life is associated with the people I mingle with. Most of them hate me and am always ignorant of that. I like sharing my ideas and plans with people thinking they have my kind of heart but the reverse is always the case. What they do is to plan evil against me. Since I discovered where my problems is coming from, I decided to learn how to stay on my own and keep my thoughts to myself but I find it hard doing it. It has not been easy for me being alone. I feel so lonely when I don't have people around me.
please what do I do about it, cuz I really wanna change. I want to become a super man. l want to do things my way without anybody predicting or knowing my moves. I want to stop talking too much. I want to always keep my thoughts to myself without telling anybody my ideas. I want
to always keep people in the dark.
please help me ur suggestions no insults abeg.

mrex911:
please what do I do about it, cuz I really wanna change. I want to become a super man. l want to do things my way without anybody predicting or knowing my moves. I want to stop talking too much. I want to always keep my thoughts to myself without telling anybody my ideas. I want
to always keep people in the dark.
please help me ur suggestions no insults abeg.

I am going to guess that you already thought this through and decided that in fact this is what you must do.
What I suggest are some ways around talking too much to the wrong people..
* Keep a diary instead of all your thoughts, ideas and plans. Whenever you feel the urge to yap, right it down instead
* Get yourself a pen pal or an international buddie who you can spill your guts to and not worry that it will come home to bite you back
* Become your own best friend (has to do with learning to talk to your own self)... learn to love yourself enough so you tell yourself all your plans and ways without needing to worry about a third party interfering

If you had planned to ask God to cause you to shut up or something, I am afraid you would probably get a NO for an answer to that prayer, and the reason I say so is, from where I sit, I believe God made you exactly the way He wanted you -an outgoing soul who seems to enjoy relating with others - nothing wrong with that at all.

thanks for your contributions, Jah bless.