pls can anyone here be with a girl in thesame house, without finding out that she is pregnant until she delivers?

Here is what happened, I brought this 21 year old girl to my house ,to give some help when I deliver coz my mum is late and since school is on lockdown, I considered bringing her from the village to my place. She came to my house with 6 months pregnancy and I didn't know. I delivered my baby 2 weeks after she came and we continued staying together, all of a sudden I started noticing some signs of pregnancy in her, but I wasn't so sure so i went to discuss it with hubby and we both agreed that i should ask her if her menses were coming regularly. I later asked her and said yes so it got me even more confused I trusted her coz she is my cousin,and I brought her from the village. I feel very horrible cos this girl just delivered in my house last week,hospital bill and order expenses are now on me.The person that got her pregnant cannot be reached.

Right now i feel like a fool for not taking the right decision which was to send her back to village, now look what I have found myself into, I don't know what else to write now I haven't slept for days.

Peace91:
pls can anyone here be with a girl in thesame house, without finding out that she is pregnant until she delivers?

Here is what happened, I brought this 21 year old girl to my house ,to give some help when I deliver coz my mum is late and since school is on lockdown, I considered bringing her from the village to my place. She came to my house with 6 months pregnancy and I didn't know. I delivered my baby 2 weeks after she came and we continued staying together, all of a sudden I started noticing some signs of pregnancy in her, but I wasn't so sure so i went to discuss it with hubby and we both agreed that i should ask her if her menses were coming regularly. I later asked her and said yes so it got me even more confused I trusted her coz she is my cousin,and I brought her from the village. I feel very horrible cos this girl just delivered in my house last week,hospital bill and order expenses are now on me.The person that got her pregnant cannot be reached.

Right now i feel like a fool for not taking the right decision which was to send her back to village, now look what I have found myself into, I don't know what else to write now I haven't slept for days.

This is really hilarious

FanOfMyself:

This is really hilarious

FanOfMyself:

This is really hilarious

FanOfMyself:

This is really hilarious

I know everyone has all reasons to blame me for letting this happen in my home I feel sick already.

Peace91:

I know everyone has all reasons to blame me for letting this happen in my home I feel sick already.

But there is a saying that "one cannot hide pregnancy" I mean how come? You are not a careful and watchful woman.

FanOfMyself:

But there is a saying that "one cannot hide pregnancy" I mean how come? You are not a careful and watchful woman.

Her tummy wasn't big at all. Just her legs that was swollen.I know am not careful and watchful. Thank you.

Peace91:
Her tummy wasn't big at all. Just her legs that was swollen.I know am not careful and watchful. Thank you.

I'm sorry if I sounded unruly or something like that.
Well, you just have to try and get them out of the hospital and send her back...deed has been done already!

Don't blame yourself. You noticed signs of pregnancy in her, thus, you were onto something. Your womanly intuition was alerting you that she was pregnant but she confused you with that dishonest "no" when you asked her if she was seeing her period.

DimplesLikeWow:
Don't blame yourself. You noticed signs of pregnancy in her, thus, you were onto something. Your womanly intuition was alerting you that she was pregnant but she confused you with that dishonest "no" when you asked her if she was seeing her period.

After she delivered. I asked her why she lied to me she just started crying,I felt betrayed and pissed at thesame time. Coz I know that I should have known better other then just believing her lies.

FanOfMyself:

I'm sorry if I sounded unruly or something like that.
Well, you just have to try and get them out of the hospital and send her back...deed has been done already!

You don’t need to apologize for anything. You were right, she’s not a watchful woman.

Peace91:
After she delivered. I asked her why she lied to me she just started crying,I felt betrayed and pissed at thesame time. Coz I know that I should have known better other then just believing her lies.

Ahh ahh, of course she knew she was pregnant. The dishonesty is what's offputting.

~Can she get a hold of the baby daddy or why can't he be reached?

Since she's your cousin, tell your relatives and send her back to the village. You've tried by sorting out the hospital bills and other expenses for her, and considering you've a baby to take care of yourself, you've got your hands full. Or what do you want to do now?

Davash222:

You don’t need to apologize for anything. You were right, she’s not a watchful woman.

I know I failed in this situation,and I take all the blame.Just looking for a way forward.

DimplesLikeWow:
Ahh ahh, of course she knew she was pregnant. The dishonesty is what's offputting.

~Can she get a hold of the baby daddy or why can't he be reached?

Since she's your cousin, tell your relatives and send her back to the village. You've tried by sorting out the hospital bills and other expenses for her, and considering you've a baby to take care of yourself, you've got your hands full. Or what do you want to do now?

She said she only told the guy once that she was pregnant,and then later he traveled to Dubai.We haven't reached him.

I have asked her Mum to come pick her back to the village.I feel disappointed, coz hubby has been giving me attitude since then.

So 2 babies will be crying all over the house now.

I pity your husband

Take her back to her village

Jotrade:
Take her back to her village

I will do just that.

Fourple wahala for husband

Abeg beg your husband well well o.. And you two should sort out ways to give the baby up for adoption.

I don't see any problem here. Let her go bank to her village if you can't let her nurture her baby under your roof.

Why do you now need help?

Lol double wahala is when problem tie gele.

Husband would have been a suspect if the pregnancy occurred after one year of cohabitation

She needed someone to take care of her and the unborn baby. That's being mischievous you know.

Kai! Who doesn't know what it takes to take care of a new born baby.

Peace91:
pls can anyone here be with a girl in thesame house, without finding out that she is pregnant until she delivers?

Here is what happened, I brought this 21 year old girl to my house ,to give some help when I deliver coz my mum is late and since school is on lockdown, I considered bringing her from the village to my place. She came to my house with 6 months pregnancy and I didn't know. I delivered my baby 2 weeks after she came and we continued staying together, all of a sudden I started noticing some signs of pregnancy in her, but I wasn't so sure so i went to discuss it with hubby and we both agreed that i should ask her if her menses were coming regularly. I later asked her and said yes so it got me even more confused I trusted her coz she is my cousin,and I brought her from the village. I feel very horrible cos this girl just delivered in my house last week,hospital bill and order expenses are now on me.The person that got her pregnant cannot be reached.

Right now i feel like a fool for not taking the right decision which was to send her back to village, now look what I have found myself into, I don't know what else to write now I haven't slept for days.

Tell her to leave.