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Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Africangiants(m): 6:38pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Most people get into a relationship just because they are now of age and do not have a reason to be in love or fall out of love. Being responsible in a relationship/marriage as a man or being the icing of the relationship on a steady is what a lady should be on the lookout for. You cannot just be all about sex and styles and how lasting you can be on bed or what you can receive on bed alone. There are values that makes the world a better place for both families and friends. Start by asking the right questions and you will do your self a gigantic favor in your relationship. Lets kick it off with these simple questions, shall we.....comment below if you have a question you think should be added and hit me up if you need anything at all, monetry wise or relationship wise https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=az1WNgEtC1o |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Priam: 8:29pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
lymelyte: One may be a mistake, but 4 is definitely a pattern, and with different fathers, that is likely to repeat itself in the not so distant future. Guy na wah o. Which Kain salutation be this na , abi na you want to become the next father? 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Priam: 8:34pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
EditorsPalace: Mummiesgirls4: Please don't do this. That's emotional manipulation! Tell the young man in time before he becomes emotionally invested in you |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Mywd: 8:34pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Stop fornicating... Dem no go hear.... See yourself now?..... Shebi e sweet |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by lymelyte(m): 8:45pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Priam:I gats to carry my gbola for her o.. True be told, it is a pattern already. |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Diamond23(f): 10:46pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Mummiesgirls4:It's better you tell him before the fifth child lands. Pls remember to use protection this time around, its necessary! |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Lucyspa: 10:59pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
ahnie: She is most definitely from the west. I don tire for my sisters |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by mariahAngel(f): 11:01pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
lymelyte: The worst part is that she's yet to see it. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by bcomputer101: 11:04pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
People like you is one of those reasons I still clamour for human sacrifice. Well, I believe your sexual libido is high. Don't worry you will learn in a had way by the time ur kids reach one dozen and from different men. You are a DOG 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by mrblessed(m): 11:38pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
bcomputer101:Haba! You are simply being too harsh on her. I couldn't find where you adviced her on how to manage this potentially dangerous and explosive situation. Instead, you decided to go ballistic, referencing her sexual escapades as similar to that of a "dog." And what about the men that got her pregnant? Any word for them? Would you also advocate that they be used for human sacrifice? Miss Op, you have built a fake, shaky, and tenuous relationship based on a foundation of lie. If you dare push these lie and deceit into marriage, you will certainly have yourself to blame. The young man needs to know significant details of your past, especially as it concerns your kids. Hiding it from him does not make you smart. At best it makes you appear desperate, and at worst, it depicts you as a liar and a deceiver. So your best bet is to put a stop to this head-spinning, vicious tale and prepare yourself for a heartfelt confession. We know that single mothers suffer certain degrees of contempt and stigmatisation, yet it is better to be late than sorry. And the fact that you weren't remorseful about what you have done, shows another unpalatable side of you. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by StevensJojo(f): 1:04am On Nov 05, 2020 |
It’s the deception and selfishness for me.... Do you have time to care for those children at all? Or you just abandoned them. Naa... this must be a joke... maybe one of those stories to steer up conversation. I’m beginning to realize that the word LOVE is used too loosely. If you loved your kids you won’t hide them like a plague. If you love this man, you will be honest with him. This is selfish lust and you sound ridiculous. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by ahnie: 6:06am On Nov 05, 2020 |
bukatyne:nope...itsnt. surprisingly the child with her should be btw 1year or 1year two months. she's from the East,..aguleri (anambra state) At some point ...I became annoyed and told her not to birth anymore until her new catch pays her bride price...but for the meantime she should shave up and close up. she recently got a tavern job where she earns 10k per month....she's a good girl tho! |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by KnightofMoscow: 7:49am On Nov 05, 2020 |
Enough is enough for marriage,, leaving your children elsewhere is dangerous, they are prone to series of abuse. C'mon! get back your children, raise them yourself, let them have the motherly love. 4 children is enough, 2 husbands is okay. Too harsh But true talk |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Priam: 8:05am On Nov 05, 2020 |
ahnie: [ ahnie:] How is she a good girl please, I'm trying to connect the dots going by how you described her |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Oizee(f): 10:06am On Nov 05, 2020 |
Nawao, so after 4 kids what else are you looking for? To settle down with an innocent man? So if u succeed now, would u start giving birth to kids again for him? Hmmmm nawao, people dey o |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Oizee(f): 10:19am On Nov 05, 2020 |
EditorsPalace:u are very wicked for such advice, u want the man to be totally broken when he finds out right? |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Mummiesgirls4(f): 11:00am On Nov 05, 2020 |
Oizee:Having 4 kids doesn’t mean I should die single , if other people that have 4 or more babies than me are finding love why can’t I? I am still young and I deserved better things too , having 4 kids will not stop me . Yes if we get married I will have three more kids like we have planned |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by dobnina(f): 11:54am On Nov 05, 2020 |
Mummiesgirls4: You sound so immature, I was forced to comment. Having 4 kids is not the problem, the problem is abandoning your kids cos you love dick. You don't even know what your priority should be. Love should be out of the question for now. The question you should be asking is how to give those kids a better life. You have 4kids from 2 different men. You are not even concerned about their welfare, those innocent children are prone to sexual abuse cos you are not there as a mother to guide them through. Instead you are following dick up and down and planning to have more children. Its single mothers like you that make some men insult all Single mothers. Get a job and take care of your children. Leave dick alone for now. 10 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Oizee(f): 12:06pm On Nov 05, 2020 |
Mummiesgirls4:wawu |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Gloriagee(f): 12:24pm On Nov 05, 2020 |
So you want him to help you raise 4 kids and all that? Is he gonna be involved financially and since you say it's not necessary, follow ur own recipe for pain. Now assuming you are not a troll, take some time to evaluate your life, your values, your choices and your current status. Could you have done anything differently? Don't be in a rush to enter into a new relationship. N if you want future relationships to last be as truthful as possible n don't lie to yourself as it'll save you future heartbreak. Mummiesgirls4: 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Gloriagee(f): 12:29pm On Nov 05, 2020 |
Just be prepared for another broken relationship. No be by force Mummiesgirls4: 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Psych412(f): 12:35pm On Nov 05, 2020 |
dobnina:please leave her. let her live her life as she wants. even the bible said "we should go into the world and multiple" she's just fulfilling all righteousness. |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Mummiesgirls4(f): 2:20pm On Nov 05, 2020 |
Gloriagee:If you are waiting for him to break up with me so you can come and replace me , my dear you will wait till eternity IJN |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Gloriagee(f): 2:52pm On Nov 05, 2020 |
You have 2 relationship or marriages under your belt, 4 kids and no apparent effort at improving your relationship cycle and funnily enough, u might not be thirty yet. Now u wanna trap some innocent guy thinking I wanna replace u. I Kent deal. Just kent. Mummiesgirls4: 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Klass99(f): 3:01pm On Nov 05, 2020 |
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Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Gloriagee(f): 3:50pm On Nov 05, 2020 |
She may be a troll no be nairaland? Klass99: 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Klass99(f): 4:08pm On Nov 05, 2020 |
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Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Gloriagee(f): 4:17pm On Nov 05, 2020 |
The age is fine but the IJN and the ' I'll tell him few days after marriage' sound so unreal like its concocted to bash single mums. It's a free world so its her life and her choices tho I pity those that are at the receiving brunt of her decisions. Klass99: |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by bukatyne(f): 4:33pm On Nov 05, 2020 |
Mummiesgirls4: Madam, Permit me to laugh 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Klass99(f): 5:20pm On Nov 05, 2020 |
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Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Gloriagee(f): 5:26pm On Nov 05, 2020 |
Like is anyone thinking of school fees? Na real wa Klass99: |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by belcom10(m): 6:08pm On Nov 05, 2020 |
Hmmm, at 26 you already have four kids to different men. What went wrong. 1 Like |
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