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Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Thattallgirl(f): 10:30am On Dec 13, 2020
Maobichek:


God bless you, you are such espoused in what you said that I got light it. Once again, God bless you real good.
Amen and u too... although I didn't type that...I also got blessed through the message and thought the Op might be blessed through it too smiley

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Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by internetlord360(m): 10:33am On Dec 13, 2020
u need to read this book. if you want the PDF file send an email to internetlord360@gmail.com

THE PORN PANDEMIC.
A Simple Guide To Understanding and Ending Porn Addiction for Men
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by innobarca(m): 10:36am On Dec 13, 2020
snoopylinus:
Masturbation brings bad luck,although it has not been proven but from experience and from what a lot of people say,if you keep masturbating,you would only see yourself not growing. So for your own good and for the good of your family,stop doing it

What is the difference from sleeping with different girls always and masturbating?

They are all bad and do not attach bad luck or demon to it.

Some married men do masturbate.

Some married women do masturbate.

Many people masturbate once in a while,Some women masturbate just BC they don't want to sleep with a man or their husband travelled for business.

People masturbate inside their office,once in a while... Footballers masturbate once in a while (from local league to Europe and everywhere).

If you put too much thinking into all Ur bad habits,they will disturb you more and cause u sleepless nights,you will be seeing dead people in your dreams .

Too much of everything is bad, Addiction is bad.....I will prefer to masturbate once in a while than sleeping with different girls if am still single .

If we are talking of Addiction.....It is difficult to stop but gradually it can be stopped,Do not attach too much demon to porn and masturbation...They are one of the disadvantages of internet.

During my time in Bangkok,Many people do not worry themselves about porn and masturbation BC it's nothing ,sex is nothing, homosexual is nothing.

In all , Addiction is bad.

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Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by kinethic: 10:36am On Dec 13, 2020
mrex911:
Hi Nairalanders, ur advice is seriously needed here. No insults pls.
I've been struggling with Masturbation and pornography addiction for the past 15 years.
I've tried all I could to stop but all to no avail.
I've prayed and fasted so many times with no tangible result. What happens is that;
I'll stop for like six(6) months without endulging in it. But once am down I see myself in the act again.
It has been filled with ups and downs all dis years.
Anytime I endulge in it the aftermath is filled with regrets, guilt, shame and loss of inner power.
I always fill sad and empty afterwards.
I really don't know what to do again, I seriously need help. My relationship with God is as take here.
Pls help a brother.
U advice will be appreciated.

First you have to admit to Hod that you have sinned and that masturbation is sin. Forget what many says that it's not evil. Remember it starts from unclean thoughts in your heart.
Start being serious with your personal relationship with God by praying, absorbing yourself with the words of God in the bible.
Then always call upon the Holyspirit to help you walk in the spirit daily.
Stay away from any trigger of such thoughts in you . Devil is the prince of the air.
Always use this prayer " Lord help me to mortify every deeds of the flesh in me daily"
Self discipline comes in too. It may take time but you will surely overcome. Remember many Christians are going through the same struggles.
Trust the Holyspirit.

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Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Jefferyhi86(m): 10:37am On Dec 13, 2020
Mastubation again for nairaland grin
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Mathyluba: 10:38am On Dec 13, 2020
Brother it because you see masturbating as sin only.and never see lies,adultery,hate,decive,wickedness,stingy,e.t.c as sin .all this I mentioned you do them .until you considered every single bad behaviour and sin in your life as sin .you will never overcome anyone you considered as sin why you forget other sins.try to remember, you will realise before you fall back into masturbating again after you have stop .there are lot of thought in your mind .one will tell you don't go back to this again .while another will tell you don't worry go afterall yesterday you slept with your girlfriend who you have not get married to.even today you just lied to someone and is sin .this is how you have been always defeated to go back .the day you will be able to defend your self from all those sins you think are little and should not be consider sin.that will be your victory day .God bless us all
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by SimplePlan34: 10:38am On Dec 13, 2020
Mastubation and suicide are both ways man shows he can circumvent God. Who d Bleep gave u d high libido, it's God pls use ur head.
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Kcgeology: 10:39am On Dec 13, 2020
The fact that u feel regret and shame when u indulge, then 80% of ur problm is solvd. Let d holy spirit do d rest. Just like Jesusjunior pointd out, humbl urself in sincere ceaseless prayer. He wil do it4u bro. Trust me
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Firstandonly(m): 10:41am On Dec 13, 2020
Notatribalist:
Sorry my brother. I went through same too..But it's the side effects that made me to stop,I mean I had no choice than to stop..See an,don't mind those that will tell you there is nothing wrong with masturbation..It took me many years before the side effects start..Till date I still suffer from most of the effects.If I dare masturbe today the next 4 to 5 days will be hell on earth for me..So my brother, the only way to stop is get married, otherwise the effects may stop you and it's not funny.
pls do u mind sharing ur side effects?
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by MuttleyLaff: 10:49am On Dec 13, 2020
Ayula911:
Why not use super glue and soup to masturbate .
[img]https://media./images/144ae8f1320cf9d5bb56b475226a8bea/tenor.gif[/img]
If that is what "floats" your "boat"
Happy days!

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Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Nobody: 10:53am On Dec 13, 2020
vonlogon:
The number one cause for your problem is idleness, I've work with people that are worse off than you, try not to be idle at any point in time, if you notice that you get tempted easily when you are alone try being around people, if you are unemployed look for some business to do, no matter how small. Getting married may help, but I've heard of married people masturbating too.

Secondly, learn to tell your inner man NO!

that's not entirely true. the most busiest people also masturbate. no matter how busy u are u most have alone time

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Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Ghostmode2two(m): 10:57am On Dec 13, 2020
E don red
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Okuns007: 10:57am On Dec 13, 2020
The best thing to do is to do the following;
1. get married
2. Delete all porn related videos and pictures on your phone
3. Try to always stay around people, avoid isolated place
4. Though, it is difficult to adjust to this, stay offline as much as possible
5. Go for deliverance.

This is my opinion and it has really worked for me...
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by innobarca(m): 11:01am On Dec 13, 2020
Maobichek:


This is unheard oh! You masturbate when you are arouse and in need for opposite sex. Dose masturbation give a different satisfaction from proper sexual intercourse? Masturbation most times takes 3/5 or 6 minutes but sex from romances to the real thing last 20 to 40 minutes or more. No man that has a neat woman as his would prefer masturbation to sex, thank you.

There are wives that are not ready for 4 times sex in a week,There are wives that do not like sex a lot.
There are wives that love sex a lot.
There are men that do not love sex a lot.


Finally,You will sleep with your wife but not everytime BC she might not be ready for everytime sex,Same as a man can not be ready for sex with wife everytime even if he is jobless.

Life can never be perfect.

It's better a wife or husband masturbates than going out to look for sex outside.

After child birth, Some loving women do help their husband to masturbate once in while until they are ready for sex again.


Only Addiction is bad.

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Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by feejay70: 11:02am On Dec 13, 2020
[quote author=ThePlainTruth post=96975690] mastubation is not a sin.
Masturbation is a sin, stop deceiving yourself and others
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by GOOOGLE504(m): 11:07am On Dec 13, 2020
Okuns007:
The best thing to do is to do the following;
1. get married
2. Delete all porn related videos and pictures on your phone
3. Try to always stay around people, avoid isolated place
4. Though, it is difficult to adjust to this, stay offline as much as possible
5. Go for deliverance.

This is my opinion and it has really worked for me...

The people that say being busy or not being alone won't work are madly addicted and if care is not taken only repercussions can help them stop. I think they need deliverance n serious monitoring.

If yours is not yet that bad, dnt stay alone a lot, try not to be idle, control and restrict yourself and dirty things you v access to, and above all let Holy Spirit guide you.

It won't be easy but it's worth it.
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by internetlord360(m): 11:09am On Dec 13, 2020
u need to read this book. if you want the PDF file send an email to internetlord360@gmail.com

THE PORN PANDEMIC.
A Simple Guide To Understanding and Ending Porn Addiction for Menu need to read this book. if you want the PDF file send an email to internetlord360@gmail.com

THE PORN PANDEMIC.
A Simple Guide To Understanding and Ending Porn Addiction for Menu need to read this book. if you want the PDF file send an email to internetlord360@gmail.com

THE PORN PANDEMIC.
A Simple Guide To Understanding and Ending Porn Addiction for Men

Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Toks2008(m): 11:10am On Dec 13, 2020
mrex911:
Hi Nairalanders, ur advice is seriously needed here. No insults pls.
I've been struggling with Masturbation and pornography addiction for the past 15 years.
I've tried all I could to stop but all to no avail.
I've prayed and fasted so many times with no tangible result. What happens is that;
I'll stop for like six(6) months without endulging in it. But once am down I see myself in the act again.
It has been filled with ups and downs all dis years.
Anytime I endulge in it the aftermath is filled with regrets, guilt, shame and loss of inner power.
I always fill sad and empty afterwards.
I really don't know what to do again, I seriously need help. My relationship with God is as take here.
Pls help a brother.
U advice will be appreciated.

First and foremost, you must understand that your relationship with GOD is not at stake because God judges us differently and you must also understand that sexual urge is part of us and you can't pray or fast it away but the way you can overcome that passion of self servicing is by getting married which Paul clearly advised in the scriptures.

Lastly, continue to ask the Holy spirit to make you shun porn which is the main Cruz of the matter.

You can start by avoiding porn for a start even if you still see yourself self servicing with your imagination as that will be a good step.

And finally when you get married, it will be easier for you to also shun self servicing for good as you will have a woman by your side.

But please don't ever give up your relationship with GOD cos he will never give up on you.

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Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Toks2008(m): 11:14am On Dec 13, 2020
writetopoker2:


Married people also masturbate too, thats the point

Maybe if they are away from their spouses or there is sexual tension between them but if there is a healthy one I don't see any reason why a married person will masturbate.

Many married ladies may masturbate if they are not sexually satisfied with their husbands but they should rather comunícate to solve it.
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by internetlord360(m): 11:14am On Dec 13, 2020
u need to read this book. if you want the PDF file send an email to internetlord360@gmail.com

THE PORN PANDEMIC.

A Simple Guide To Understanding and Ending Porn Addiction for Men

Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by mizzreg: 11:16am On Dec 13, 2020
mrex911:
Hi Nairalanders, ur advice is seriously needed here. No insults pls.
I've been struggling with Masturbation and pornography addiction for the past 15 years.
I've tried all I could to stop but all to no avail.
I've prayed and fasted so many times with no tangible result. What happens is that;
I'll stop for like six(6) months without endulging in it. But once am down I see myself in the act again.
It has been filled with ups and downs all dis years.
Anytime I endulge in it the aftermath is filled with regrets, guilt, shame and loss of inner power.
I always fill sad and empty afterwards.
I really don't know what to do again, I seriously need help. My relationship with God is as take here.
Pls help a brother.
U advice will be appreciated.
First of all, there's nothing like getting addicted to watching porn and mastuurbating... It's a choice you choose to do it or you don't. It don't matter how many times you do. And to be honest, it also doesn't have anything to do with spirituality.
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Roseey0(f): 11:17am On Dec 13, 2020
mrex911:
Hi Nairalanders, ur advice is seriously needed here. No insults pls.
I've been struggling with Masturbation and pornography addiction for the past 15 years.
I've tried all I could to stop but all to no avail.
I've prayed and fasted so many times with no tangible result. What happens is that;
I'll stop for like six(6) months without endulging in it. But once am down I see myself in the act again.
It has been filled with ups and downs all dis years.
Anytime I endulge in it the aftermath is filled with regrets, guilt, shame and loss of inner power.
I always fill sad and empty afterwards.
I really don't know what to do again, I seriously need help. My relationship with God is as take here.
Pls help a brother.
U advice will be appreciated.

SomeAddiction may require impactation when you keep falling back to it. There are spirits behind them. Firstly speak to the spirit to leave you.
If you know someone with the gift of miracle, share your struggle and Hold hands with them in agreement.
It's not everything you can achieve as an individual in Christianity. The body of Christ work together for mutual edification.

Once the spirit behind it is cast out, everything about this struggle ends, except you personally gave it room to get a hold of you again.

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Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by MuttleyLaff: 11:17am On Dec 13, 2020
Toks2008:
First and foremost, you must understand that your relationship with GOD is not at stake because God judges us differently and you must also understand that sexual urge is part of us and you can't pray or fast it away but the way you can overcome that passion of self servicing is by getting married which Paul clearly advised in the scriptures.

Lastly, continue to ask the Holy spirit to make you shun porn which is the main Cruz of the matter.

You can start by avoiding porn for a start even if you still see yourself self servicing with your imagination as that will be a good step.

And finally when you get married, it will be easier for you to also shun self servicing for good as you will have a woman by your side.

But please don't ever give up your relationship with GOD cos he will never give up on you.

MuttleyLaff:
Or what about those whose wife are frigid or for one reason or the other are penetration averse and/or what of husbands that aren't up to the task in making their missus sexually satisfyingly orgasmic?
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by MuttleyLaff: 11:18am On Dec 13, 2020
internetlord360:
u need to read this book. if you want the PDF file send an email to internetlord360@gmail.com

THE PORN PANDEMIC.
A Simple Guide To Understanding and Ending Porn Addiction for Menu need to read this book. if you want the PDF file send an email to internetlord360@gmail.com

THE PORN PANDEMIC.
A Simple Guide To Understanding and Ending Porn Addiction for Menu need to read this book. if you want the PDF file send an email to internetlord360@gmail.com

THE PORN PANDEMIC.
A Simple Guide To Understanding and Ending Porn Addiction for Men

internetlord360:
u need to read this book. if you want the PDF file send an email to internetlord360@gmail.com

THE PORN PANDEMIC.

A Simple Guide To Understanding and Ending Porn Addiction for Men
https://www.pdfdrive.com/the-porn-pandemic-a-simple-guide-to-ending-pornography-and-masturbation-addiction-and-getting-back-into-the-real-world-e200510598.html

Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by KosiGee(m): 11:18am On Dec 13, 2020
vonlogon:
The number one cause for your problem is idleness, I've work with people that are worse off than you, try not to be idle at any point in time, if you notice that you get tempted easily when you are alone try being around people, if you are unemployed look for some business to do, no matter how small. Getting married may help, but I've heard of married people masturbating too.

Secondly, learn to tell your inner man NO!


I am not sure you’ve heard of or seen a very stubborn Inner man.
He needs pampering etc. If you don’t bath and moisture and make him happy, he will stand stubbornly like a German salute till you’ve done the needful.

If you don’t, both of you won’t sleep or rest. cheesy grin grin grin
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by qenneth: 11:18am On Dec 13, 2020
Continue in your fasting and praying, i bet you, you will not know how you will stop it. In no distant time, you will be feeling irritated whenever you hear something like that. With God all things are possible. Prayer is only the key.
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by Quitam: 11:18am On Dec 13, 2020
OP, Follow this thread https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread

I'm sure you'll make some progress if you're really serious about it.
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by omotola90(m): 11:20am On Dec 13, 2020
writetopoker2:


Big lies
a big fat one
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by OyinO: 11:20am On Dec 13, 2020
Mozino007:
The only way out is to get marry!...if u like stay 2yrs for prayer mountain,when u comes back u masturbate.ur libido is high try get marry asap.

haaaahaaaahaa!!!
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by internetlord360(m): 11:22am On Dec 13, 2020
MuttleyLaff:
https://www.pdfdrive.com/the-porn-pandemic-a-simple-guide-to-ending-pornography-and-masturbation-addiction-and-getting-back-into-the-real-world-e200510598.html


I have the PDF file. I don't know how to upload it here. send an email to
internetlord360@gmail.com if you want it.
it free
Re: How Do I Defeat This Monsters Called"masturbation And Porn Addiction."? by MuttleyLaff: 11:25am On Dec 13, 2020
internetlord360:
I have the PDF file. I don't know how to upload it here. send an email to
internetlord360@gmail.com
if you want it. it free
Thank you but I have no need for the ebook.
You dont need to upload it here, as you can see, I have provided a URL link to download the ebook from and of course, for whoever wants to avail

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