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| I Need Brotherly Advise by TainyLite(m): 2:29pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
Good afternoon i really want to ask for opinion if it were u.... we had a misunderstanding during lockdown around april nd i came home to realize she has packed her load with my daughter's wears nd left nd i had to beg her before she came back... Fast forward to September we had a disagreement nd she slapped me while i was asleep nd i had to send her packing couple with d fact dat she does not cook for me neither wash my clothes and most times doesn't greet me nd can count the number of times we had sex after we got married.... I sent her cos i knew my life is endangered d day she slapped me while am sleeping.... Her mum nd her mum's friend are always in support of her... My pastor was trying to appease nd he is trying to quote bible for me when i told him i wont marry her again... Now should i follow my instinct or my pastor |
| Re: I Need Brotherly Advise by JovialJune(f): 2:35pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
Nope stand your ground, don't let anyone influence your decision, start your divorce proceedings since you don't want to marry her again, then move on. 3 Likes |
| Re: I Need Brotherly Advise by banjicom(m): 2:36pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
TainyLite: Follow your pastor until she stab you while sleeping after a little disagreement. Maybe after you die and in the next life you will follow your instinct. 9 Likes |
| Re: I Need Brotherly Advise by TainyLite(m): 2:38pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
i tire o... d very first time my pastor intervened dat why i heed.... |
| Re: I Need Brotherly Advise by Bola146(f): 2:45pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
.... Her mum nd her mum's friend are always in support of her... Sir, kindly let her go! She will kill you one day and her family will still support her, let her go and learn about to behave, she is not a kid! Be a real man in your own house!!!! Or is she the one feeding you  I really pity her  She will soon come back to her senses.2 Likes |
| Re: I Need Brotherly Advise by Nobody: 3:21pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
How did you get married was it because she got pregnant or you open your two eyes to marry her. Perhaps she was going through stuff and hope you don't snore because if you do and it is annoying most likely a slap is expected. 1 Like |
| Re: I Need Brotherly Advise by Camelot65: 3:40pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
uruba23:What kind of submission is this?  |
| Re: I Need Brotherly Advise by Nobody: 3:49pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
Camelot65:Your Lordship just trying to prove that the slap is not an attempted murder but brought about by undue provocation. He said the slap endanger is life when she is not Anthony Joshua the champ. 1 Like |
| Re: I Need Brotherly Advise by Camelot65: 3:53pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
uruba23:LMAO   You funny Walahi |
| Re: I Need Brotherly Advise by when2(f): 4:06pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
The story is one sided. Till I hear your partner's own side of the story. For now I can't advise you. |
| Re: I Need Brotherly Advise by MEGA4BILLION(m): 4:31pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
Oga follow your instinct or else one day she will slap you with pestle or hammer in your sleep and that same pastor will come to quote bible at your burial. stitches on time. ... 1 Like |
| Re: I Need Brotherly Advise by LadySarah: 5:31pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
EITHER WAY,THE PASTOR WILL DO.THE INTERMENT ON THE FINAL VICTIMS BURIAL. 1 Like |
| Re: I Need Brotherly Advise by invinzible1: 7:13pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
TainyLite:Why are Nigerians so religious.... Chai. Run away from your pastor, he won't miss you if you are stab to death, your wife will marry another. 1 Like |
| Re: I Need Brotherly Advise by samyj2477: 7:25pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
u don't have sense, which advise do u need. Maybe until she cut off ur head while u are asleep then your spirit will have sense 1 Like |
| Re: I Need Brotherly Advise by oluyomi71935: 8:04pm On Dec 19, 2020 |
EITHER WAY,THE PASTOR WILL DO.THE INTERMENT ON THE FINAL VICTIMS BURIAL. 1 Like |
| Re: I Need Brotherly Advise by frozen70(f): 1:39am On Dec 20, 2020 |
TainyLite: Are you guys really married or just Lagos marriage For her to summon the courage to slap you means that you don't have a firm grip over your marriage It's time you guys take a break from yourself and then evaluate this kind of relationship if it's working out or not Let her stay wherever she is and you stay where you are if it's properly done in a marriage way, her parents will talk a walk to you Having a child doesn't mean that you have to be under handcuff |
| Re: I Need Brotherly Advise by Nicepoker(m): 7:14am On Dec 20, 2020 |
Matrimonial affairs?. No I won't comment |
| Re: I Need Brotherly Advise by faithfull18(f): 7:58am On Dec 20, 2020 |
Sisterly advice will be given. 1 Like |
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