After been married for almost 5years. From the very first year my husband has been cheating on me.
He sometimes claims to be repentant but i end up catching him in this same act.
What should i do? he doesnt want to give me a divorce and he doesn't want to change.
This is the story a woman narrated to me. Please what should i advice this person to do,

Hmmmm!
With all the cheating threads all over NL?
Abeg wait for divine advice jor.
Mere mortals cannot intervene at this point!

u too cheat on him.how can u bringsuch topics up?which kind advice u want?u no dey go church?take it to GOD on prayers

@poster
He doesn't want to "give" you a divorce them why don't you TAKE IT!
You could also patiently wait to catch some deadly "take away" diseases!

I would tell her to seek legal advice (AND action) in divorcing that man. In the meantime, she should separate. He made it clear that he don't plan on changing and basically telling her to just "deal" with it. She don't HAVE to deal with it. Why should she stay with somebody like that? She should divorce him and move on to find someone who will love her and be faithful to her. Cheating is something livedit could ever put up with again. Especially bold habitual cheating. When cheating becomes like breathing to people, oh no! There is no way I would stay in such a marriage/relationship like that.

tell d woman 2 start cheating.

Poster, tell the victim to ask her hubby to make her a PROMISE not to cheat again or better still an OATH.
Find and Read other useful threads here on Cheat issues.

@poster
tell her to plant 'magun' on her husband
not sure if it works for men though

Tell her to improve in her sexual performance, !

Turn a blind eye and do what makes you happy,

cheaters

poster

a husband/wife doesn't have to sign the divorce papers for you to get a divorce at least i know that for sure in the u.s you just have to pay some extra fees to get the divorce without the other persons signature. people seldom do that because it's a lot pricy

Poor OP.

Oh well.

Wait, Your HIV is on the way

Sex happens. You should both join a Player's club. I think I'll start one in Lagos soon. So you guys stop feeling guitly about sex as if the other woman's puzzy will be permanent on your husband's dicx. Sex is human. Live life enjoy it. It shouldn't be the end of a relationship. You start another relationship it will happen

If your husband is a Nigerian, especially from the North or South West, then you cannot blame him! Its in the blood. Them people are very promiscuous. What am I even saying, infact, Nigerians are generally known to be unfaithful either to their wives or husbands. It is biological, genetical, hereditary, inherited and a social norm.

So, what would you do about it? Ans, He needs to be rehabitated, de-demonized, spoken to by elders, issued with a warning from the court of law, and finally,give him more love than anticipated, that solves your problem sweetheart.

^^^ lol spoken to by elders

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Why is that when women complain about their husbands "cheating" on them, they fail to include the part where they nagged their men to near death, starve them of sex and only have sex with their husbands when they either want something or feel their husband is getting fed up with the marriage?

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