why is it that;
when a child acted bravely, wisely, brilliantly or something else but positively, the father always take the glory to himself while the mother only have the remnant. but when he or she acted cowardly, foolishly, stupidly or anything close to negative, the father always transfer the shame and reproach to the mother by refering to them as..... [e.g, you see your son, daughter or children?] as if she pick them from the street like wasted containers and dump them in his house without his approval or against his wish?

I believe that view is archaic and outdated by now.

It takes a lot of effort and grace to raise a well-balanced child, and both parents' hands must be on deck.

Rejoice in the joys together, sort out the weaknesses together. Onwards ever.

memories1:
I believe that view is archaic and outdated by now.

It takes a lot of effort and grace to raise a well-balanced child, and both parents' hands must be on deck.

Rejoice in the joys together, sort out the weaknesses together. Onwards ever.

this may be what you think o, but the truth is..., it is still happening

it hasn't stop

I don't know where you came from. You don't behave like our blood.

It's stereotype.

Parents should stop transferring blame and train their children properly. It's a collective task.

Vision101:
I don't know where you came from. You don't behave like our blood.

which alone are you talking about?

@WorstWanderland
which alone are you talking about?


@me
I mean once the child is not behaving well these are the type of words that will be coming from the father.

It still happens...
Comes mostly from men who don't believe they have a responsibility to raise their child.
If you see it as your responsibility you can't make such a comment.

Vision101:
@WorstWanderland
which alone are you talking about?


@me
I mean once the child is not behaving well these are the type of words that will be coming from the father.

and why is it always like that

Just maybe according to the great mosdii Nigerian girls r useless

Ogamysamo:
why is it that;
when a child acted bravely, wisely, brilliantly or something else but positively, the father always take the glory to himself while the mother only have the remnant. but when he or she acted cowardly, foolishly, stupidly or anything close to negative, the father always transfer the shame and reproach to the mother by refering to them as..... [e.g, you see your son, daughter or children?] as if she pick them from the street like wasted containers and dump them in his house without his approval or against his wish?

Simply because he is a man, he feels if it a good child, it's his own and because women are on the quiet type with such manly men, he puts the fault on the woman if the child is negative

Funny enough, women appreciate and love both the negative and positive ones all together

Na nature cause am

Both mothers and fathers do that, it is not only a father's thing.

Mothers tend to pamper their children, the MAN is just sending the message that stop giving the kids free launch.