Pls I just need advice and don’t mind my typos too ‘ I’m not a good writer.
My fiancé is 27 and a graduate,she’s very good in fashion design too like she sews natives that mostly look like English wears,she’s good in what she does sha,she also teaches at a private secondary school pending when she will go for her nysc call up.
My pain goes thus:she told me someone gave her an offer to Dubai to work as a nanny for a duration of 2 years,she doesn’t even have national i.d card talk more of international...
Like is it possible for someone to just go and start working there without necessary steps? Because I’m confused I feel she’s about to be trafficked and she keeps arguing with me
Please help out...God bless I’m at the comment section

You need to make enough and sound enquires ooo.

Xscape1993:
You need to make enough and sound enquires ooo.

how do I go about it please �

Most black nannies in the middle east have been turned into sex slaves... I will advise you let her be since she keeps arguing with you.


Just let her be.

Ashawo work dey call ur babe, and she won go answer.

PlayMaker14:
Most black nannies in the middle east have been turned into sex slaves... I will advise you let her be since she keeps arguing with you.


Just let her be.

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Let her go

sparta231:
how do I go about it please �

Get enough information about the person that is planning to take her to Dubai. Tell your girl's family members if you are close to any of them of her intention of traveling. Check some of your girl's conversations.

Let her go, all the news about fake job and fake better lifestyle that turned to a nightmare she didn't hear.

Abeg let her go, Nigeria airlines might rescue her from Libya in 2027 that's if they didn't shoot her and dump her body in the sea.

Xscape1993:
Get enough information about the person that is planning to take her to Dubai. Tell your girl's family members if you are close to any of them of her intention of traveling. Check some of your girl's conversations.

thanks I appreciate I will do my findings

sparta231:
thanks I appreciate I will do my findings

Welcome sir.

richmond500:
Let her go, all the news about fake job and fake better lifestyle that turned to a nightmare she didn't hear.

Abeg let her go, Nigeria airlines might rescue her from Libya in 2027 that's if they didn't shoot her and dump her body in the sea.

your words too raw Abeg ...thanks anyways

sparta231:
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Allow her to make her mistakes so she could learn from it before she starts seeing you as an enemy of progress.


A word for the wise, is enough.

Even if she's going for legit job there, it's bye bye to that relationship, she will find someone else there. So move on,let her be

sparta231:
your words too raw Abeg ...thanks anyways

why won't it be raw? This is a time to be careful as a Nigerian and I do not think there is any graduate with a smart phone that hasn't heard about the recent scary news.

If anyone still wants to be stubborn, let them be.

She might even say u are the one that killed her dreams bla bla

Do your self a favor and show her this your post and all the responses.
If her head is correct she will properly advise her self

sparta231:
Pls I just need advice and don’t mind my typos too ‘ I’m not a good writer.
My fiancé is 27 and a graduate,she’s very good in fashion design too like she sews natives that mostly look like English wears,she’s good in what she does sha,she also teaches at a private secondary school pending when she will go for her nysc call up.
My pain goes thus:she told me someone gave her an offer to Dubai to work as a nanny for a duration of 2 years,she doesn’t even have national i.d card talk more of international...
Like is it possible for someone to just go and start working there without necessary steps? Because I’m confused I feel she’s about to be trafficked and she keeps arguing with me
Please help out...God bless I’m at the comment section

ABORT MISSION! I REPEAT ABORT MISSION.
I SEE A LADY TURNED INTO A PROSTITUTE INSTEAD OF A NANNY.
HE THAT HAVE AN EAR, LET HIM OR HER HEAR WHAT D SPIRIT IS SAYING.

I think she has a lot of thinking to do. The job she wants to go and do there can be done by any lady provided the lady is above 18 years. She's a graduate and should have plans of going for service, getting a job albeit self employment or proceed for masters. Then marriage, if all things work together for you two. If she should go for the job, she just wasted her years in the university.
I actually have a young relation in Qatar. This is her 3rd year there. She didn't even pass WAEC before going though she finished SS3. She's not doing bad. At least she's being sending money home to her uncle for saving. She also went for a nanny job. She has even left where she initially started as a nanny to another family cos the former job was too tasking.
Lemme explain how she went. The agent collected N80,000 from the family with the agreement that she will work for a minimum of 2 years. Half the first year salary went into paying the agent back for all expenses incurred in her travelling while the 1 remaining years remain fully hers. She had the option of extending her stay if she so choose. She later extended her work to 4 years.

My family tried to dissuade her then, even some pastors said she may not return alive, it didn't stop her. Thank God she's alive even though I pity her sometimes. She will be 23 this year. Time is still on her side compared to your fiancee.

I have other examples. I know of one who left her husband and two children to go to Saudi Arabia to work as a nanny. I think she sends the money home to her husband who in turn spends it on prostitutes and saves little. The man even just changed his car recently.

I can go on and on. I know someone who's on the verge of travelling soon too, a middle aged woman.

It's an opportunity but one mustn't jump at all opportunities because it's 'abroad'.

One must think deeply because time lost can never be regained.