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The Problem Of The Reality Of Acceptance.part 2. by philoedu(m): 1:41pm On Sep 05, 2021
Having a sense of being a human being like others who deserves respect and fair chance of dignified treatment, is something no one can do without.
The bases of any such claim is not really what we literary think, but an endowment to any human being as such, and to everyone, if you like, of selected social category into which one is unquestionably come to fit into, like age group, sex and profession.

We might, often come to perceive quite correctly, that whatever anyone might come to profess, there are certain individual who are not always come to be accepted, neither do they often, are prepared to make a genuine contact with them on equal and fair ground of acceptance. This could be desirable from any acquired previous experiences, that often equip one to be intimately alive and confident, for what others may come to view as a failure.

However, inevitably such display of impression by others, no doubt, can always ignite in anyone, even if only for one moment, to agree that one does indeed, fall short of what one really ought to be, in contending with one's reality. The same is true, that what seems to becomes the central problem is the psychological depression and frustration that often arise from any individual perception, through one's attribute as being the defiling thing to possess.

But with a different outlook, one may come to a point as to break off with the reality, as to be left with only appearance, which might suggest an inflexibly attempt to employ an unconventional interpretation of the character of one's social identity.
It must be emphasized, though, that the fear and worry that others may disrespect one because of something unknown to any individual, will no doubt, create an indelible enigma, that could always make any individual physically insecure in contact with others.

Make no mistake, that such insecurity, can always arise, not necessarily from any mysterious and somewhat disguised sources, as anxiety does, but from something immediate one could not fix at any given moment; psychological. Often, it is always extremely difficult, if not almost impossible to pretend to keep out of one's consciousness any such formulation of some chronic feeling of the worst sort of insecurity.
Needless to add that the devastating result is often that one suffer a sort of chronic anxiety and perhaps, even something worst, if jealousy can really be said to be worst than anxiety.

Of cause, no doubt, the unaccepted individual may openly come to question the half- concealed disapproval, of the very rational behind the, self- appointed wise's treatment, although, not without an eager tendency to fault them through a close continues examination of their actions and words, until a fugitive sign is obtained that could prove and indict them that, their so call acceptance , is not nothing but only a show and a coverup.

The derivative disdain with any close observation of these appointed- wise of certain category of individuals, with close evaluation can be understood, put in context, in terms of their conception of pride, dignity and independence.

However, in the final analysis, it is always advisable, that in any situation of this nature, one must learn not only to cultivate but must learn to adjust the attitude of self-acceptance and attitude of self- trust with self confidence that enable one to freely navigate any inhumane environment, in order to be able to draw upon one's potentiality and possibilities that are always out there, awaiting those ready for it.

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