It is normal for men to cheat but when a woman does so, she's called promiscuous. A man is called a Playboy when he has multiple female partners but a female is a called a LovePeddler…

Who created this world of double standards?

On Nairaland, there is a thread called the Olosho beer parlour where men share their sex escapades with other women. Some even go as far as uploading the woman's picture online.

Trust me, some of these women are students or married women. If you doubt me, kindly go through that thread.

If you check that thread, it has over 6,000 pages.

They have multiple sex partners, some of them are married but it is fine because they are men.

But if reverse was the case, a woman having multiple sex partners, she is termed a LovePeddler.

Few years ago, a Babcock student had sex with a female student and went ahead to release the video online. He broke her trust, when this lady begins to behave repulsive towards men or support movements like feminism, the world calls her a broken woman.

Come to tertiary institutions, lecturers demand for sex to award marks. Female students who refuse have to either graduate with low marks or end up repeating class.

There are even females who refuse and will rather repeat that class. How many guys will reject an advance from a female teacher or lecturer?

An innocent lady goes into a relationship with a guy who just wants sex, after he gets the sex, he ends the relationship… The guy is happy, he tells his friends, they clap for him.

The lady tries another relationship and it ends the same way. She sees the same thing happening everywhere and adopts the slogan "all men are dogs".

Luckily for her she gets into a serious relationship with another guy and this time around, she cheats. Everybody will say she's a slut as of she made herself that way.

I have seen two people in a relationship where both of them are cheating but when the guy finds out that his babe is cheating, he shouts more..

60% of married men cheat (if not more) but when the statistics change, men cry foul..

When you think that you have had it all, you come on Nairaland and see news of fathers sleeping with their daughters. These are the ones that have been caught, there are many out there that are good at concealing their secrets.

Men created the world we live in today so they should accept whatever the world has turned to.

God is referred to as 'He'....

illicit:
God is referred to as 'He'....

God has high moral standards

Amazing write-up OP. How can society progress with all the double standards? If men cannot hold each other accountable and strive towards being better people then they should never point fingers at females. After all, who enjoys being suppressed whilst the other gender does whatever they like? Of course, it'll definitely backfire and no one is to blame but men because they created and enabled this culture were hypocrisy thrives.

illicit:
God is referred to as 'He'....

God maybe referred to as he but he treats both sex with respect.

Even the Bible said, a man would/should leave his fathers house and clinge to his wife.

When Eve ate the apple and gave to Adam, God also punished Adam because he could have cautioned his wife. Instead of telling Eve not to eat the apple, he took of it and ate. Meanwhile, he was the one God told not to eat the apple.

Adam was doing the blame game most men are doing today "It was the woman that you gave me that made me to eat the apple"

Did God punish Eve and leave Adam?

You know the rest of the story...

History has a way of repeating itself.

TIPdrill:
It is normal for men to cheat but when a woman does so, she's called promiscuous. A man is called a Playboy when he has multiple female partners but a female is a called a LovePeddler…

Who created this world of double standards?

On Nairaland, there is a thread called the Olosho beer parlour where men share their sex escapades with other women. Some even go as far as uploading the woman's picture online.

Trust me, some of these women are students or married women. If you doubt me, kindly go through that thread.

If you check that thread, it has over 6,000 pages.

They have multiple sex partners, some of them are married but it is fine because they are men.

But if reverse was the case, a woman having multiple sex partners, she is termed a LovePeddler.

Few years ago, a Babcock student had sex with a female student and went ahead to release the video online. He broke her trust, when this lady begins to behave repulsive towards men or support movements like feminism, the world calls her a broken woman.

Come to tertiary institutions, lecturers demand for sex to award marks. Female students who refuse have to either graduate with low marks or end up repeating class.

There are even females who refuse and will rather repeat that class. How many guys will reject an advance from a female teacher or lecturer?

An innocent lady goes into a relationship with a guy who just wants sex, after he gets the sex, he ends the relationship… The guy is happy, he tells his friends, they clap for him.

The lady tries another relationship and it ends the same way. She sees the same thing happening everywhere and adopts the slogan "all men are dogs".

Luckily for her she gets into a serious relationship with another guy and this time around, she cheats. Everybody will say she's a slut as of she made herself that way.

I have seen two people in a relationship where both of them are cheating but when the guy finds out that his babe is cheating, he shouts more..

60% of married men cheat (if not more) but when the statistics change, men cry foul..

When you think that you have had it all, you come on Nairaland and see news of fathers sleeping with their daughters. These are the ones that have been caught, there are many out there that are good at concealing their secrets.

Men created the world we live in today so they should accept whatever the world has turned to.

Being half-smart is worse than being absolutely stupid.

So it is not 'double standards' when broke ass women expect to date or marry well to do men, while men are expected to only dream about dating or marrying after making money?

It is not double standard that society expects and approves of a man footing the bills in a relationship (including courting and marriage expenses), while all the woman brings is her body and her feminity?

It is not double standard that there is a Ministry of women affairs (imagine), while there's nothing for men.... Yet women drag all the profitable soft jobs with men, but women are graciously excluded from the hard jobs? How many women are in the war front in Sambisa Forest? How many police women are in crack squads deployed to confront violent criminals like armed robbers and kidnappers?

Look, what I find repulsive about this shitty feminism is that they are happy to embrace the advantages conferred on their gender by society, but they also aggressively reject the advantages conferred on the male gender by the same society.

You want the right to cheat like men, but you don't want to be the normative spender, bread winner, and hard worker like the man. You're daft.

hedonido:


Being half-smart is worse than being absolutely stupid.

So it is not 'double standards' when broke ass women expect to date or marry well to do men, while men are expected to only dream about dating or marrying after making money?

It is not double standard that society expects and approves of a man footing the bills in a relationship (including courting and marriage expenses), while all the woman brings is her body and her feminity?

It is not double standard that there is a Ministry of women affairs (imagine), while there's nothing for men.... Yet women drag all the profitable soft jobs with men, but women are graciously excluded from the hard jobs? How many women are in the war front in Sambisa Forest? How many police women are in crack squads deployed to confront violent criminals like armed robbers and kidnappers?

Look, what I find repulsive about this shitty feminism is that they are happy to embrace the advantages conferred on their gender by society, but they also aggressively reject the advantages conferred on the male gender by the same society.

You want the right to cheat like men, but you don't want to be the normative spender, bread winner, and hard worker like the man. You're daft.

From what you have said so far, If a woman is also a provider then she has the license to cheat right? A lot of men want their wives to work and contribute financially to the family. This means they have the license to cheat.

Men created the ministry of women affairs. Who stopped them from creating the ministry of men affairs?

In the job market, you are given a job because you are competent not because of your gender.