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How I Made The Mistake Of Telling My Pastor A Secret by Gidexxxx: 7:06am On Dec 20, 2021
So I joined this church through my aunt some months back and became a member. Though I'm not really a church person and I haven't been consistent, yet I attend some of their programs and church services at least twice a month.
So over the weekend, a brother in the church informed me about a youth program that has been taking place since the previous day and would end on that day. Since I love anything that has to do with the youths, i became excited and decided to attend so I asked him for the address.
On getting to the place, I have to admit that I was disappointed at what I saw, as I was led to a small room containing less than thirty people. For hours all we did was pray (in the usual violent Pentecostal way) which was very exhausting.
Around evening like 4-5pm, in one of the prayer sessions, my pastor said people who have problems of any kind should come out for deliverance. Some people came out for various reasons, which ranged from having weird dreams to spiritual attacks. I decided to go out because of an addiction I really want to stop and I thought he would help.
When it got to my turn, he asked me my problem and I told. He laid his hands on me and started casting and binding twisting my head in several directions. He then handed me to another pastor who did the same thing in the name of prayers.
After the whole thing and returning to my seat, I felt like I have made a mistake. I felt I shouldn't have gone to the alter in the first place. I was expecting him to at least promise to have a conversation with me regarding the addiction. He never did.
The worse thing now is that I see this pastor in church every Sunday and I'm afraid he wouldn't see me thesame way again after revealing such an embarrassing secret to him. And besides, I don't trust these pastors and their "deliverance" of a thing. I should have tried therapy instead.
Did I really make a mistake?
Re: How I Made The Mistake Of Telling My Pastor A Secret by Nobody: 7:11am On Dec 20, 2021
No you didn't grin


You try. . . grin


come and shake me grin
Re: How I Made The Mistake Of Telling My Pastor A Secret by chatinent: 7:12am On Dec 20, 2021
He laid his hands on me and started casting and binding twisting my head in several directions. He then handed me to another pastor who did the same thing in the name of prayers.
It is only a large head that can feel this. He wanted to shift the circumference of your Jupiter without recourse to. Sorry for that, Edward.

But no bi you go meet ordinary mere man to undo your masturbation?

Masturbation wey only mah stopping to watch porn fit cure.

Baba, try dey masturdate.


Free all these pastors interested in anything that has offering and tithe attached. You no carry money go, you want make e attend you. Why e no go fracture your oesophagus?
Re: How I Made The Mistake Of Telling My Pastor A Secret by bewla(m): 7:13am On Dec 20, 2021
Not yet
Re: How I Made The Mistake Of Telling My Pastor A Secret by MufasaLion: 7:15am On Dec 20, 2021
So you thought he would cure your addiction? No pastor can do such

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Re: How I Made The Mistake Of Telling My Pastor A Secret by Nobody: 7:20am On Dec 20, 2021
Tells us your addiction
Re: How I Made The Mistake Of Telling My Pastor A Secret by Gidexxxx: 7:25am On Dec 20, 2021
chatinent:

It is only a large head that can feel this. He wanted to shift the circumference of your Jupiter without recourse to. Sorry for that, Edward.

But no bi you go meet ordinary mere man to undo your masturbation?

Masturbation wey only mah stopping to watch porn fit cure.

Baba, try dey masturdate.


Free all these pastors interested in anything that has offering and tithe attached. You no carry money go, you want make e attend you. Why e no go fracture your oesophagus?
It's not masturbation. It is pornography. The stuff is messing with my head really.
Re: How I Made The Mistake Of Telling My Pastor A Secret by chatinent: 7:30am On Dec 20, 2021
Gidexxxx:

It's not masturbation. It is pornography. The stuff is messing with my head really.

After you watch pornography, what's next? After the reggae comes what?

I am not a prophet.

Re: How I Made The Mistake Of Telling My Pastor A Secret by house10s: 7:33am On Dec 20, 2021
Gidexxxx:
So I joined this church through my aunt some months back and became a member. Though I'm not really a church person and I haven't been consistent, yet I attend some of their programs and church services at least twice a month.
So over the weekend, a brother in the church informed me about a youth program that has been taking place since the previous day and would end on that day. Since I love anything that has to do with the youths, i became excited and decided to attend so I asked him for the address.
On getting to the place, I have to admit that I was disappointed at what I saw, as I was led to a small room containing less than thirty people. For hours all we did was pray (in the usual violent Pentecostal way) which was very exhausting.
Around evening like 4-5pm, in one of the prayer sessions, my pastor said people who have problems of any kind should come out for deliverance. Some people came out for various reasons, which ranged from having weird dreams to spiritual attacks. I decided to go out because of an addiction I really want to stop and I thought he would help.
When it got to my turn, he asked me my problem and I told. He laid his hands on me and started casting and binding twisting my head in several directions. He then handed me to another pastor who did the same thing in the name of prayers.
After the whole thing and returning to my seat, I felt like I have made a mistake. I felt I shouldn't have gone to the alter in the first place. I was expecting him to at least promise to have a conversation with me regarding the addiction. He never did.
The worse thing now is that I see this pastor in church every Sunday and I'm afraid he wouldn't see me thesame way again after revealing such an embarrassing secret to him. And besides, I don't trust these pastors and their "deliverance" of a thing. I should have tried therapy instead.
Did I really make a mistake?


so pele
Re: How I Made The Mistake Of Telling My Pastor A Secret by Funkybabee(f): 7:52am On Dec 20, 2021
It's holy Spirit that lead you to him

Don't be afraid, u have been delivered


Just try to work on your mind

Shalom bro
Re: How I Made The Mistake Of Telling My Pastor A Secret by oteneaaron(m): 7:56am On Dec 20, 2021
Pele.

You gave your power to another man like you.

Never forget that you have the power, and direct access to God just like any Pastor, Elder, Reverend or what else...

If you must confess, what happened to God's ever listening ears?

My advice, stop attending that church if you are feeling all shameful.

And just know say no be only you de addicted to porn or wey de masturbate.

So chill, go to your father in prayer and ask him to help you out.

And just like every other addiction, you can't fight it head-on by going all cold turkey all of a sudden.

Na small small.

Plus try go marry sha.
Re: How I Made The Mistake Of Telling My Pastor A Secret by oteneaaron(m): 7:58am On Dec 20, 2021
chatinent:


After you watch pornography, what's next? After the reggae comes what?

I am not a prophet.

The blues the blues..

grin

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Re: How I Made The Mistake Of Telling My Pastor A Secret by yanabasee2: 8:20am On Dec 20, 2021
chatinent:

It is only a large head that can feel this. He wanted to shift the circumference of your Jupiter without recourse to. Sorry for that, Edward.

But no bi you go meet ordinary mere man to undo your masturbation?

Masturbation wey only mah stopping to watch porn fit cure.

Baba, try dey masturdate.


Free all these pastors interested in anything that has offering and tithe attached. You no carry money go, you want make e attend you. Why e no go fracture your oesophagus?


Could've been addiction to smoking or drugs abuse...


I don't understand how you come up with the masturbation addiction when he never mentioned it...
Re: How I Made The Mistake Of Telling My Pastor A Secret by Nekky5(f): 9:35am On Dec 20, 2021
It is the presence of the Holy spirit in the life of an individual that can stop any form of addiction. Some Pastors lack the power or counsel to help because most of them are going through same challenge. Surrender your life to Jesus and sincerely ask Him to help you.
Re: How I Made The Mistake Of Telling My Pastor A Secret by illicit(m): 10:01am On Dec 20, 2021
If u get cosy with girls at the church

The pastor go cast u

But pastors hear a lot all d time, no biggie
Re: How I Made The Mistake Of Telling My Pastor A Secret by CrazyMan(m): 10:20am On Dec 20, 2021
Well, I'd say you're safe...it's not like you told him (Your Pastor) that you're screwing someone else's wife which he happens to know..then I'd say you're doomed.

Stopping phonography isn't about praying and binding, it's about working on your mind.

Get busy, engage in productive activities during your lonely hours and make sure that your mind isn't idle.

Once you can successfully live this way for up to a month, your mind would naturally get used to those new activities and pornography would begin to wear off naturally from your brain.

Good luck.

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Re: How I Made The Mistake Of Telling My Pastor A Secret by Truvelisback(m): 8:25pm On Dec 20, 2021
Gidexxxx:
So I joined this church through my aunt some months back and became a member. Though I'm not really a church person and I haven't been consistent, yet I attend some of their programs and church services at least twice a month.
So over the weekend, a brother in the church informed me about a youth program that has been taking place since the previous day and would end on that day. Since I love anything that has to do with the youths, i became excited and decided to attend so I asked him for the address.
On getting to the place, I have to admit that I was disappointed at what I saw, as I was led to a small room containing less than thirty people. For hours all we did was pray (in the usual violent Pentecostal way) which was very exhausting.
Around evening like 4-5pm, in one of the prayer sessions, my pastor said people who have problems of any kind should come out for deliverance. Some people came out for various reasons, which ranged from having weird dreams to spiritual attacks. I decided to go out because of an addiction I really want to stop and I thought he would help.
When it got to my turn, he asked me my problem and I told. He laid his hands on me and started casting and binding twisting my head in several directions. He then handed me to another pastor who did the same thing in the name of prayers.
After the whole thing and returning to my seat, I felt like I have made a mistake. I felt I shouldn't have gone to the alter in the first place. I was expecting him to at least promise to have a conversation with me regarding the addiction. He never did.
The worse thing now is that I see this pastor in church every Sunday and I'm afraid he wouldn't see me thesame way again after revealing such an embarrassing secret to him. And besides, I don't trust these pastors and their "deliverance" of a thing. I should have tried therapy instead.
Did I really make a mistake?
U didn't make any mistake. U are just insecure. U have low self-esteem. U are feeling ashame of urself and of what u have said. U don't need to worry abt that.

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